Is it right or wrong for my girlfriend to ask me to raise her, what should I do if my girlfriend wan

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1.Your girlfriend shouldn't be raised by you, you should be raised by your parents. 2.

    At your age and your own conditions, you do not have the conditions to find a wife. 3.On the premise of raising your own parents, if you have the ability, you can raise a loved one.

    However, the girl who is raised by people is not very reliable, if you encounter bad economic conditions, she will look elsewhere, a good girl should have a job, have ideals, should not rely on people to support, let alone idle people. Looking for a wife should not only look at the feeling, but also look at the comprehensiveness of the person. After all, that person has to get along with your family, and if you don't have a good relationship with your family, there will be a lot of trouble in the future.

    Let it be, her family has money, you can't support her, don't drag your parents too much, they are so old that they should be self-reliant.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are not in a public institution or a civil servant, the self-examination diploma is the same as waste paper, you are only 18 years old now, it is a good time to study, and the time away from school is not long, it is recommended to go back and pick up the textbooks, prepare for a year or two or even more time, and take the entrance examination to a regular university, and it will be much better to find a job in the future than not having a diploma. The matter of girlfriends, if you can raise them, you can raise them, and if you can't raise them, this society is acquiescing that women can sell for a living, and it's good to get used to it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not just about money, the economy of the two people is not very good at present, it doesn't matter if you have a little more money, the key is that your girlfriend must have the determination to work together to change the status quo. If she is still blindly content with the status quo and stays at home every day to eat and drink for nothing, only two people like this can call it home. You want a girlfriend, a wife.

    Not the second wife, canary.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You and her go to get a marriage license, and then your relationship with her reaches the point of "you raise her", before this you are still two people alone, and you have no reason to have to raise her. But you have to keep her, that's also your personal hobby.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think this kind of girlfriend is good to raise, and I don't think she's sincere with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The wife has to support the girlfriend and support herself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm my boyfriend's girlfriend, I also want to find a job, but I can't find it, he is raising me, I'm so embarrassed, I'm looking for a job!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My girlfriend can earn money, go out and find a job.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The little ones play at home.

    Casually.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What are you raising this kind of woman for! Straight scrapped!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    en, who made you her boyfriend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really like her! And if you have the financial ability, then it doesn't hurt to raise her!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you can afford it, you can raise it, and you can't afford to find someone who doesn't need you to raise it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You are a man, of course you have to support her after you get married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In a word, I will raise you to live.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's a must,,, who doesn't raise it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    She wants to show that she is good to you and is afraid of losing you. Is it that when you get along with you, you don't give her enough security? If you love her, tell her that you love her and will not leave her, and that it is a man's duty to provide for her family.

    In fact, there is something you can communicate with her directly, instead of posting on the Internet to ask. Both of you may not be mature yet, learn to communicate and communicate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because she loves you very much and is very persistent to you, she casually says that she wants to support you, which just shows that she loves you very much.

    She is very confident in herself and feels that her future is full of brightness, so she likes to joke about raising you.

    Treat each other with respect and kindness! Your girlfriend loves you very much, and you work together. The future is bright.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As a girl, I give you the most loyal advice, you still don't want such a woman. First of all, your relationship is only for a week, and everyone who is married has to work by themselves, what do you take to support you when you are still a student? Taking the initiative to hold hands and then offering to let you raise it, is it considered to sell yourself to support you?

    Secondly, you are just a student, and your parents' hard-earned money is to make you eat and dress well and be a young master, rather than working harder to make money and raise a white-eyed wolf. It's just a small amount of one hundred and thirteen, but I don't know how much money I want you to give in the future, if you are rich and handsome, you can play with her, because she is just rushing for money. I hope you understand what I mean, please adopt thank you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Feelings are not a thing that can be said seriously in a day or two, oh, we are really in love, so in a week, this question seems a little out of place, I think at this time, don't be sensible, if you like it, first date white, and wait for one day, really sure that you really love her, and she really loves you, at that time, just tell her, I'll raise you, isn't it very good.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your girlfriend's home environment may be average, and people should be more "lazy and lazy"! She is not psychologically "self-reliant" and is considered a "very scary" person". Even if you "raise her" now, tomorrow you can't raise her, you will still find someone else to "raise".

    If there is really no one to "raise", then it is possible to go out and "buy" the people. She may not be willing to "carry" the hard work and hardship. You should understand the meaning of the idiom "mud can't hold up the wall", right?

    -- that's "she". Stay away from "danger" early, you are not a Buddha or Guanyin.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    She just uses you to like her to use you as a swipeable card, with the first time, there will be a low second, when she thinks you have no use value, it is when she dumps you, be sensible, this kind of girl should be separated as soon as possible, otherwise you will suffer in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's ......I feel that this girl is not really dating you, since they are all students, how can they ask you to raise her, you also think about it yourself, can you afford to raise her now? If you can't, make the situation clear with her, if she breaks up with you because of this, then you can only accept it generously, such a girl is not worth liking.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't be deceived, young man, you can't hurt people, and you can't have the heart to defend people! I advise you to be careful, I can only say this, if you understand it is a sign of maturity....

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then you can raise it, maybe she's joking with you.

    And nowadays girls prefer to be raised and spoiled, she wants to be spoiled by you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Wait until you have a financial foundation to have a girlfriend, there are some things that you can't do as a student.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Such a girl is destined to follow the path of a young lady and kick it out decisively.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You don't need to raise it, you can't afford to raise this kind of person! She's a bottomless ......

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Not sincerely, just for the money.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That is, you are responsible for earning money to support the family, and she is responsible for being beautiful like a flower.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You say it's like raising a pig, and you'll eat it when it's time to eat you. With a bit of a wicked smile.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It shows that your girlfriend is too self-reliant.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Why do you want to do so much, she didn't understand you and just said it. And you say that I raise you, how does she know what you want to express.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Many reasons. It may be that she can't support herself. It may be that she feels that this is a sign of trust and dependence on you.

    Maybe she thinks that the boy should spend money for her to support her. Or maybe she was the sister around her, and she wanted to do the same. However, you are not obligated to support her, I can only say that.

    Both parties in love are equal, and they should not spend each other's money in the first place.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The key is for her to have peace of mind, and you say that you will work hard and support your family well.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If you don't have money, you can exchange it with your own hands, and you can fight with him!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It may be a lie, just to make you coquettish, you must say yes, otherwise she will be angry!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Good! I will raise you for the rest of your life.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Did you keep it because you missed your ex-girlfriend? This is disrespectful to the current girlfriend. If you really want to be friendly with the current woman, you shouldn't keep it anymore.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Then throw. See if you want to continue with the current one.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It turned out to be an ex-girlfriend, so I symbolically left one or two pieces, and it would be nice to have a memorial, after all, she has passed.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Although you may feel uncomfortable, the girl will definitely mind her boyfriend's ex, and if you want to save it, it is best to hide it in a place she doesn't know.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Since you have chosen this girlfriend, you have to treat it wholeheartedly. It's okay to let go of the past.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    In reality, many girls can't tolerate a grain of sand in their eyes, so do as they say, otherwise they will talk about this in the future.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    You've said that your ex-girlfriend can't lose her current friend because of the past.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Throw it away, the boy wants to let the girl order.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You are still thinking about your ex-girlfriend in your heart, how can you get a new love, since you have left, give it up.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's normal, it's not normal if you don't throw it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Normal phenomenon, in other words, you have already thrown it away, and love must be single-minded.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You shouldn't let him see your ex-girlfriend's stuff.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Throw it away, in case someone dies.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Then throw it away, are you still thinking about her?

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    This is normal and understandable!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    If it is practical, there is no need to throw it, just make it clear; If it's just commemorative, it doesn't hurt to throw it away. Women are always a little cautious and think that you still have your ex-girlfriend's things because you are still thinking about your ex-girlfriend, which is understandable.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Then you throw away one of your current girlfriend's things.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    What my girlfriend said when she only let you raise her means: she only likes you.

    Analysis: Between lovers, they always like to be together, two people they like together, ordinary life, such as: eating together, walking together, watching movies together, will become happy, happy, happy.

    The girlfriend said that she only let you raise her, which means that she only accepts you and does not accept other boys, which is confessing to you and expressing to you her single-mindedness towards you.

    A woman does not accept others to raise her casually, she accepts and only accepts you to raise her, which means that she likes you.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Eat yours, drink your flowers, yours.

    Later, when I got married, I stayed at home every day and became a full-time wife.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    I want you to give her money to spend, but she doesn't do anything.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    What does his girlfriend mean when she says she wants you to raise him? I think. Should be.

    Your friend should want you to raise him. This girl. Maybe.

    Is it to test you, to see if you are? For this. It is more responsible for him.

    If he tempts you, if you don't react to her. He's not going to be nice to you, I think if you. You even if he gets him medicine.

    Maybe. Go take her to the hospital. I think she's going to test you out, a.

    Responsible irresponsible boys, if. You go. Take her to the hospital.

    Cream. If you go to buy medicine, he must feel that you are a very good person. I think that's when he realizes you're a good person.

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