How to counterattack after being evaluated very low by others?

As long as you do things in society, whether it is going to school or going to work or just daily life, you will inevitably receive external evaluations, of course, these evaluations are also positive and negative, receiving positive evaluations can be very certain about our work, giving yourself self-confidence, but often the reality will not be so wishy-washy, face-to-face will be constricted, if it is on the Internet, it is a mouthless bad review, in the face of these low evaluation views, how should we deal with ourselves? I think it should be looked at separately.

I think for the bad evaluation of yourself, many times you should calm down to receive and analyze, because if you are a person, there will be a difference between the level of high and low, at this time you have to analyze whether there is a gap between the person who evaluates you and your level, the low evaluation is not necessarily right, they may not be enough to understand what you do, Van Gogh's paintings are evaluated as worthless, but it does not prevent him from becoming a master, heliocentrism is still the truth, in the face of bad reviews, you must first understand the logic of analysis, and you don't have to evaluate yourself in the unexpected world if you think you are right. It doesn't matter if it's counterattacked.

If you think that you do have deficiencies after analysis, then you have to look for ways to improve, you can start from the technical level, exercise to improve your level, do things better, and calm down, many young people are young and vigorous, and it is easy to get angry in the face of some bad reviews, which does not help to solve the problem, the method of counterattack is not an immediate counterattack, because there is no support for results will only be thought that you are not level, the ancients said that the gentleman takes revenge, ten years is not too late, we have more opportunities to counterattack after tempering behind the back.

In fact, people who often give bad reviews to others often have no real material, the so-called heroes and heroes, except for this part of the people, we should thank those who give us bad reviews. Because they can take the time to observe what we do, and really find out the problems inside, so that we can correct them, and maybe it is not the bad comments of others that will be counterattacked, but our own state of mind.

While it may seem inappropriate to use a game as an example, the game "Honor of Kings" often illustrates this problem. Some people like to start talking after the first few minutes, saying, "How do you play like this?"

I'm in the jungle! So-and-so heroes really can't play, and then the serious ones even start to say something unpleasant or even swearing.

I think that these people's mentality of the game has not been corrected in the first place, and secondly, although he gives us a very bad evaluation, but in the end, these people are often people who don't play very well, and in the end, they even have to 'we' who have been given bad reviews to counterattack. Therefore, sometimes, it will be better to deal with other people's bad reviews as long as you have a clear conscience.

If there is a change, if there is no encouragement", I think you have also heard this sentence. Evaluation is often just a one-sided view of others, and in addition to the evaluation of others, it is more important to do one's duty. So I think most of the time you're on the impressive side.

Speaking of this topic of being degraded by others and counterattacking, I am still quite excited. After all, what an exciting thing it would be for such a thing to happen! It's also very inspirational and inspiring.

In my opinion, if a person wants to counterattack the situation of being looked down upon by others, he has to do this:

1.Keep your fighting spirit and don't surrender easily There is a saying that is very good, I am not afraid of thousands of people stopping me, but I am afraid that I will easily surrender and give up. In real life, there are so many people, and everyone's vision, opinion, and thinking angle are different, so everyone's evaluation is also very different.

There are also some things that are obvious, and it is obvious that your personal abilities are very strong, very outstanding. But he is jealous of you, and in order to achieve his goals, he deliberately steps on and belittles you. It's all very possible.

Therefore, in our ordinary life, we will inevitably be affected by the evaluations and remarks of others.

However, we ourselves must always keep our minds clear and rational, and not be so easily influenced by them. This is a really bad thing. We must have confidence in ourselves, know that our abilities and advantages are in the best, and don't give up easily.

Even if we take 10,000 steps back, we are really as bad as they say, so bad, but we can't give up lightly! Yes, we can't do it now, but if we choose to compromise and give up at this moment, then we are really hopeless!

You must know that many celebrities and celebrities we know now have been questioned and looked down upon by others. But they just chose not to give up, always believed that they could do it, and finally succeeded! For example, "General" Arenas, as well as Kobe's No. 13 draft, and now Thomas Jr., a new member of the Cavaliers, and so on.

They are all like that.

2.Remember your goals and keep working hard In fact, it is very natural and ordinary to be looked down upon and underestimated by others. But it's just a matter of how we see it.

Some people choose to believe these words and evaluations, choose to give up and compromise, and their lives will go almost as others say; But a truly powerful person would never do that.

They don't bother to pay attention to the comments of those idle and boring people, so that the so-called "truth" in their mouths will not affect them! They will always remember what they are striving for. What should I do, follow my own efforts and ideas, and realize my life ideals step by step.

General "Arenas, he was once looked down upon by others, saying that he did not have playing time in the future. It's very humiliating. He then chose the number 0 as his jersey number to motivate himself to keep working hard!

In the end, in the brutal and fierce NBA league, no one can underestimate his existence!

To put it simply: be sincere, rely on real skills to speak, gold will shine, and naturally you can rely on your own real materials to succeed in counterattacking.

In the comments of everyone in the company, I was: short-tempered, arrogant, and super difficult to get along with. Seriously, I was wondering if my temper was really that bad.

Is he really that cold? Am I really that bad to get along with? Am I supposed to be a bad person, should I be a bad person, should I be forced to laugh when I'm angry?

But the nature of the country is easy to change, and the temperament and character cannot be changed. I also understand this truth, and after struggling for a while, I don't care about it, and still insist on my "stinky temper", anyway, I am the one who insists on my bottom line and principles and refuses to lose it.

For a long time, I have encountered a lot of difficulties at work, after all, people are doing things, and people who accidentally offend will always find all kinds of excuses to hinder you, and all kinds of fault-finding people will make it difficult for you. This has allowed me to better understand all the rules and processes, and the work without a backdoor will only be better.

The performance and work ability have been affirmed to a certain extent, and the slowly stinky temper has also become principled. A customer who is also known for his bad temper in the company, all the people are reluctant to take his order, so they directly throw it to me to deal with, but as a result, he can't find any mistakes in my work with me, and his evaluation of me is that I am the most satisfactory one he has ever contacted.

He said that sometimes my tone and attitude are not good, but there is no problem with my work ability, my principles, and my persistence, and a strong tone and attitude are used to express my position, which is a very normal need at work.

You have the ability and real ability, and naturally those low evaluations become high evaluations!

Everyone is different, their views are also different, no matter what other people's evaluation, don't give up on yourself, don't lose confidence, since others have a low evaluation of you, then you use your actions to prove your ability.

Show the ability to suppress it, absolutely!

As the so-called well, no one says behind people's backs, and they don't talk about others behind their backs, so it doesn't matter what others say, as long as you are happy in your heart.

My suggestion is to encourage yourself if you have no shortcomings, first self-reflect on whether you have any shortcomings in this area, if there is, correct them, if not, give yourself a warning to avoid developing such a problem.

What should you do if you feel that others have a low opinion of you and feel very upset? But there is no way to graduate, and you can't control the evaluation of others. You can become excellent silently and let others change their evaluation of you.

If you want to improve others' evaluation of you, you must work harder and improve yourself.

Others have a low opinion of you, because our fate is extraordinary, or we don't recognize the existence of the problem, or they really have a low opinion of us, which requires us to have a clear understanding of ourselves before we can make a judgment.

You should be humble and accept what others say about you. Think about why others think too low about you, there must be some places where you are not good enough. Then it is necessary to continuously improve to make people impressed.

Maybe it's because you haven't put your best foot forward, or maybe others haven't seen your good in you, so be yourself. It's important to show off your talents.

You still have to know yourself correctly, are their evaluations true? I really should accept it with an open mind, as they say. If not, then return it.

If you feel that others are looking down on you, you are very upset, so do something for him to see. I am still more prominent in some aspects. Reply to him with practical actions.

Then make yourself better and make them look at you differently. It is necessary to turn grief and anger into motivation.

Have self-esteem, and like to be praised by others, but don't dwell too much on these things, life has always been the love of living for yourself!

It is difficult for people to ignore other people's evaluations of themselves, but the evaluations of others really do not matter to them. Just be yourself.

If others have a low evaluation of themselves, it means that they usually do not perform well, and you can perform well in the later stage, don't be inconsistent, otherwise others will evaluate you even lower.

Go with the flow, like things gather people in groups, no matter what, you can't change other people's inner opinion of you, so be calm.

Others have a low evaluation of you, so have you ever thought about why you have such a low evaluation, you can first reflect on whether you are thinking about whether others are wrong.

In our lives, we often encounter that we have done a good job, but others are still not satisfied, which is very uncomfortable, in fact, we still have to calm down and know that we have done well enough.

Everyone has different evaluation criteria. If there is an evaluation of others, it will be changed, and if it is not, it will be encouraged. We need to take advice from others, but don't use other people's evaluations as a standard.

We need to be confident in ourselves and not be presumptuous. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and others may just see your shortcomings, resulting in a low evaluation of you. At this time, on the one hand, it is introspection, find shortcomings, and strive to improve yourself.

On the other hand, don't deny yourself because of the eyes of others, and believe that you are excellent, as long as you keep improving.

I think there is such a thing must still be from your own reasons, a person's low evaluation of you may be biased, but many people have a low evaluation of you must have something to do with themselves, if you find your reason, then you should change your words and deeds! If you find it difficult, it's best to start over in a different environment!

Don't care too much about what others say about you. I think when others have a low opinion of you, you should reflect on yourself whether you are really not doing well in some aspects.

Is someone else a person or a group of people? If it's a person, you don't care, you don't need his evaluation; If there are many people, it is necessary to reflect on themselves and improve themselves.

Go your own way and let others do the talking.

People must rely on themselves.

I do my own thing, and the world is up to me.

Everyone has their own unique path. I believe that you have to stick to your own path, ignore others, and go on unswervingly!

When your parents ask you to attend the "xx training class", and you don't want to do so. At this time, no matter how much they "coerce and induce", please stick to your point of view, be brave enough to say your reasons, and then boldly say "no". I'm sure they'll respect you!

The class meeting is about to be held, and the host speech has not yet been handed over to the teacher for inspection, and your partner insists that you hand it over to the teacher, but you feel that you are capable enough to host it well, and you don't need to revise it at all. At this time, please calmly explain the reason to your partner, and also be "stubborn" for a while, believing that you are right. As a result, the class meeting was well hosted!

When the ** class asks students to volunteer to sing their favorite songs on stage, no matter how bad your timbre is, how bad it is, please also bravely go to the stage, stride forward, show your best state, and sing your true colors. Even if your classmates laugh at you and complain that you insulted their ears, ask you to give them a "Monalisa-style" smile. Think, you've exercised yourself anyway, you've made it!

When you grow up, you want to fulfill your childhood dreams, and everyone blames you, argues with you every day, and does your ideological work. At this time, please don't give up and go your own way. Even if you fail, don't regret it, because you've grown through the grind!

Sometimes, you need to be persistent and a little stubborn. Believe in yourself, you are the most beautiful! Go your own way and let others do the talking!