What would an adult like about someone?

We will fall in love with someone because of a person's youthful vitality, and after a long time in the society and more experienced, we will begin to become mature and stable, and we will look forward and backward when doing things, and we will lose our innocence and vitality. And it just so happens that at this time, when you meet a person who is young and energetic and courageous, you will definitely have a lot of emotion and heartbeat. Looking at him, you will think of your previous self, and you will have a new love and pity.

Because of the same heart, it should be such a person who can help you really get rid of loneliness. Perhaps he will be able to satisfy all your material needs, from the satisfaction of desires to the person who can bring fulfillment. One is spiritually satisfied, the other is materially satisfied, both are liked, but the essence is different.

It's strange, I'm not a particularly materialistic person, maybe it's because I haven't lacked anything since I was a child, and I care about spiritual nutrition, I can not eat delicious food, but you have to feed me mentally, otherwise it's really hard for me to like someone. The first thing I liked in college was a sunny boy, and I liked it at first sight. Because his innate gentleness could not make me look away, perhaps because I lacked these qualities, so I especially liked what I did not have, I walked the road he once walked, I went to the place where he used to stay, I walked around the place where he frequented, but not because I wanted to know him, but just to see him, and an adult crush can be so pure.

I once had a rich second-generation boyfriend, I resisted his materiality, when I liked him, it was because he covered me with the sun for a moment, he was gentle, and his attitude towards me made me feel warm, and I began to like it a little bit, I liked the way he carefully helped me fill the hot water bottle, and I also liked that when he dragged me to the inside of the road, he gently protected me.

My boyfriend is responsible, handsome and sunny, can be strong and hard, can also be coquettish to me, and can be helplessly cute, and material is our long-term guarantee, so like? But from the time he understood me, the person who knew what I was thinking when I didn't speak, was my favorite, and the idea coincided, which was the reason why we loved each other.

In my opinion, adults are already over 18 years old, and we all have a sense of responsibility, so why would we like someone? Mainly because we have passed the age of youth and frivolity, we look more carefully and deeply at love, so we will work hard to do it, go with our hearts, and if we really like this person, we will be responsible for this person for a lifetime.

Of course, it is not excluded that some people are not attentive, because although they have reached that age, they may still be unable to restrain themselves sometimes. It's still very playful, but if you like someone, normal adults, it's definitely because of the charm of the opposite sex.

No one of the opposite sex is born a heartthrob, and they are all people with unique charm, some are alive and well in their own work, some are because of their appearance, and some are because some small things have touched others, so they have aroused others' likes and favors for them.

In contrast, the reason why children like someone is very simple, it may be that this person once gave him a candy, or maybe this person once told him a story, or maybe this person used to play games with him. But if you are an adult, you are dismissive of these things.

They like a person and pay more attention to a person's mature interior. External performance can only win people's first favor and first impression. It's not that the external image is not important, but adults have adult standards, and they feel that some things are important to them, for example, whether a person's heart is kind, whether a person's character is gentle, and so on.

Summary. You're supposed to be an underage person, that's why you're asking adults if they like you? If you want people to like you, you have to be a strong and independent person, you are a student now, if you have good grades, your grades are very good, and you listen to your parents at home, adults will like you.

Say that you are a disobedient person, always naughty and mischievous, and do not listen to your parents at home, so that adults will not like you, because adults like obedient children.

You're supposed to be an underage person, that's why you're asking adults if they like you? If you want people to like you, you have to be a stupid and strong and independent person, you are a student now, if you have good grades, your grades are very good, and you listen to your parents at home, adults will like you. Say that you are a disobedient person who is always naughty and mischievous, and you don't listen to your parents at home, so that adults won't like you, because adults like obedient children.

Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

Like this feeling is throughout a lifetime, and people who have become a code will also like it, but they are no longer blind, no longer obsessive, and more rational to like is more realistic. So adults will also have a joy state to celebrate.

Because there is no reason to like a person with Mingxiang socks, it is a feeling, like a person is a mood, a mentality, like a person is a way of life, is a person's attitude to life, like a person is a feeling, is an intuition, is a pure mood, is a feeling, like a person is a kind of thought, is a kind of concern, is a kind of heartache, is a kind of willingness, is an unforgettable feeling, like a person is a kind of giving, is a kind of willing feeling, Like someone is a kind of gentleness, a kind of sweet happiness, a kind of impulse to want to spend a lifetime with you, a kind of silent call in the depths of the soul, like a person is a kind of concern, a kind of inseparable feelings, a kind of heart-to-heart induction, a kind of firmness of will, a kind of spiritual pursuit.