Such a mother in law, should I marry

First of all, I want to sympathize with you, because I also met such a prospective mother-in-law, the situation is slightly better than yours, you can have a private chat with me, the first point is that you must live together in the future? Can you change that? Officially married and living separately?

If you really can't, it's up to your husband, and your husband should help you. But in this way, it seems that your mother-in-law is too snobbish at home. If that's the case, you'll have to curry favor with him.

But I personally think that if you keep living like this, there is no way to change, it's better to separate, I don't want to break you up, but such days will only get worse and worse, your husband will do three splints, it will affect your feelings in the future, if you want to chat with me privately, add me QQ

Don't be stupid, first of all, the car, the child, the house, all of them are your money and efforts, why did your boyfriend's mother call your name to register your boyfriend? It's really a big deal! If you really want to care, you should still collect rent and milk powder money from him!

If you think if you register his name, his mom will like you? She will only think that you stick to her son upside down, and eat enough of you from now on, and be careful that you will be empty of people and money in the future! Also, the children have been born, and the marriage has to be decided by your boyfriend's mother, it seems that your boyfriend is a mother's treasure, advise you to think clearly, ask your boyfriend clearly, whether he wants to marry you, if you want to marry you, you will be a responsible husband from now on, and the finances should be explained clearly, how to distribute the family after marriage, it is best to write the agreement clearly before getting married, otherwise it will only hurt the feelings after marriage!

If your husband doesn't dare to rebel against his mother because of you, then forget it Don't lose it again, and pay for the hard work of your mother's family, that's the most painful thing!

First of all, the house was bought by your father, and your parents' names must be registered! This is a matter of course! Secondly, the most dependent child is always the mother, there is nothing wrong with you picking up the child, is your man playing soy sauce here?

Isn't it up to him to solve these things? Remember that when you buy a house in the future, you must have your father's name, and your name will not work! Endure everything that should be endured, and don't endure it if you shouldn't!

Looking at your husband's strength, I suggest you leave yourself a way out!

If his mother didn't do something right, he should correct it. He doesn't support you, it's useless for you to do anything.

Summary. Hello, I'm Ling Xiaojie, a social expert, and I'm happy to answer for you! There is no absolute good or bad thing without a mother-in-law, there are both sides.

I just married a husband who doesn't have in-laws, and now I can only take care of my own children, and I can't go out to work, and the income pressure is all on my husband, which is not good. But without in-laws, there are a lot of contradictions, and I basically have the final say on everything in the family, which is better than those women who have mothers-in-law. So there are both good and bad things in this matter, and you can't say that it is definitely good or bad, it mainly depends on what you think.

Hello, I'm Ling Xiaojie, a social expert, and I'm happy to answer for you! There is no absolute good or bad thing without a mother-in-law, there are both sides. I just married a husband who didn't sell hungry women, and now I can only take care of my own children, and I can't go out to work, and the income pressure is all on my husband, which is not good.

But without in-laws, there are a lot of contradictions, and I basically have the final say on all matters in the family, which is better than those women who have mothers-in-law in Zhongtan. So there are both good and bad things in this matter, and you can't say that it's definitely good or bad, it mainly depends on what you think.

I'm just too afraid of the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If you want to find a family without a mother-in-law, your father-in-law can also help with the baby.

Hello! It's normal for you to think about this, generally speaking, father-in-law is relatively less conflicted than mother-in-law.

Marrying into a family without a mother-in-law is actually a particularly bad experience, and you may take on more responsibilities because it is very bad to have no woman in this family. In every family, both men and women should share the responsibilities of the family, and the position of women in the family is unshakable, and of course the status of men is also unshakable. If there are only men and no women in a family, then the family is not complete, and when you marry into a family without a mother-in-law, you will assume the position of the mistress of the family.

Of course, the most important thing is to look at the relationship between you and your husband, as well as the obvious lack of character defects when he grew up in a single-parent family, after all, it is the happiness of his life.

There are pros and cons to marrying into a family without a mother-in-law. The advantage is that there will be no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the disadvantage is that no one will help you share the hardships of raising children.

I think that choose your own marriage. It doesn't matter if you have a mother-in-law or not. And the family that chooses the other party cannot be measured by whether there is a mother-in-law or not. It mainly depends on whether your boyfriend treats you well, and you marry this person, not his family.

As long as he is a particularly reliable person, and he is very good to you, he is loyal to his feelings, enterprising to his career, and knows how to be motivated. Such a person is worth marrying.

Although a family without a mother-in-law is a perfect family, these can be ignored without the shortcomings of a mother-in-law. Good husband, these can be made up.

And from another point of view, without a mother-in-law's possible life after marriage, the family relationship will be simpler, eliminating the trouble of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, and is more conducive to the stability of a small family.

There are also good things that there are no contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are bad times, such as no one to help you take care of your children, and you have to rely on yourself for everything.

Is it good to marry into a family without a mother-in-law? If we say that we pay attention to the family with complete family members in our lives, it is best to say that the relationship between two people has reached a certain level, mainly to love, and the family members second, as long as they really love the family, it is not important whether there are more or fewer family members.

There is no mother-in-law, less embarrassment of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law getting along, I don't think there is anything wrong with it, it is that if you have a child in the future, your mother-in-law's family can't help you bring it, so you have to find your mother's family to bring it.

Don't ask if there is a mother-in-law's family, but ask if this man is worthy of your love? Do you really understand him?

Summary. Is it good to marry into a family without a mother-in-law?

Good morning, there are pros and cons to marrying a family without a mother-in-law. There is no mother-in-law, there can be no less conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But many things need to be done by yourself, and there is no one to help with the children, so it may be more difficult to pro.

is too afraid of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Dear, that's true.

It's up to you how you choose, and there are pros and cons to each one.

Hello, I am very concerned about the question you consulted last time. This return visit is to find out, has your problem been solved? Have you been feeling good lately? If there is a problem, I am always waiting for you. I wish you a happy life and a happy life!

Very selfish, don't know how to take care of children, patriarchal values, such three mothers-in-law are married to hell, you must stay away!

She has a strong desire to control her son.,Strong work.,A mother-in-law who is self-respecting.。 A snobbish mother-in-law who always looks at people with colored glasses. is unreasonable, as long as you encounter a little thing that makes you unhappy, you will make a big fuss.

The person who said this should also reflect on himself, just look at the mother-in-law? People are mutual, mother-in-law or mother-in-law, as long as they are reasonable and tolerant, they are good people, on the contrary, some parents have a strong desire to control or always love to mix with the lives of their children, such mothers-in-law or mothers-in-law should stay away. To be a man, we must first discipline ourselves before we can measure others.

One is the mother-in-law who talks a lot, the second is the mother-in-law who loves emotions, and the third is the nosy mother-in-law, these three types of people must stay away, because they are very nagging and nosy in their daily life.

I am such a mother-in-law, the man's mother is a relative, the mother-in-law often says in front of his son that the daughter-in-law is not good, the man listens to the mother for everything, the daughter-in-law can be found if she is gone, the mother is gone, and the woman can endure it when she has a child, and the patience will break out after a long time, the man's own small family will not be, and if there is something to discuss, her mother and daughter-in-law don't know how long such a family can last, and others also persuade the son and daughter-in-law to be good and support the divorce, the woman is fed up and doesn't care if the child suffers, Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a good mother-in-law before a good daughter-in-law, husband and wife have a good husband before a good wife, hello, I'm good, everyone, I can't get better, I've endured it for more than ten years or divorced, I don't regret taking this step early, I'm from Chongqing, there are Chongqing Liangping fellows to talk about it, it's a woman who talks about her wrong family.

likes to find fault with his daughter-in-law, likes to say that his daughter-in-law is not good in front of his son, and often chews the root of his tongue in front of his son.

Little women go to be nuns, don't marry annoying, mother-in-law is not good, you can't live to the age of mother-in-law. Little woman, sleep with your father. ∫

Wa Na Wa Po drop. She didn't dare to say anything.

It depends on the mother-in-law to marry, there are these three kinds of mother-in-law, no matter how much you love, you can't marry, which three?

1.Patriarchal mother-in-law. Nowadays, men and women are equal in society, but in many places, especially among the older generation, this traditional belief still exists.

In their minds, to have a child is to have a boy. A boy is a continuation of a family's family tradition, and a boy can support his parents in the future. In fact, many young people nowadays don't care about having boys and girls, as long as it's their own children.

After all, it is not easy for a woman to have a child. There's no need to ask a woman to have a boy or anything. If a woman meets a traditional "mother-in-law", she always wants you to have a boy and interferes in your marital life.

Such a mother-in-law is not welcome, because having a baby is not something you can decide, but you have to go with the flow. If the mother-in-law interferes too much, it will definitely affect the happiness between the husband and wife.

2.Mother-in-law who always looks at people with colored glasses. However, in today's society, it is no longer so important whether they are suitable for each other.

As long as two people truly love each other, they won't care too much about other red tape. However, the man you marry may not care about the difference in family background between the two people. But some mothers-in-law are snobs, always looking at people with colored glasses, looking down on women, and looking down on families with poor family backgrounds.

If a woman marries into such a family, she will be looked down upon by her mother-in-law no matter what she does. Because in the mother-in-law's heart, it was you who climbed their home.

3.Very snobbish mother-in-law. It doesn't require the family you want to marry to be rich, but at least you have to be affordable.

You'd better think about how you're going to get along in the future. It's impossible not to get along with your mother-in-law after getting married, especially after having children. Even my own mom would meet my mother-in-law.

If the mother-in-law even looks down on her parents, it is really a miserable life. We don't ask for your opinion, but we do ask for a minimum of respect, not too high, not too much. Knowing how to respect people is an essential element of getting along with people.