Am I becoming realistic, and why am I becoming realistic?

I thought about the question of whether it is moral or immoral for a man to abandon his lover for money, and the result of discussing it with friends is that when people are discussing it, they are already living a life of food and clothing. In fact, such an idea is normal, it is also very normal to have such a marriage, because now is a very realistic society, we give up our former lovers for our careers, it is morally reasonable and there is no robbery or murder, but from the conscience of people, it is not permissible to make people think that you are an irresponsible man, there are many such themes in TV dramas now, I remember that there is a very old Shanghai movie, which is such a heroine is Mo Zhen This time should be a TV series, The final result is suicide, because his mother is not human, his son is not human, such a man has no conscience but he is also helpless, people in the rivers and lakes are involuntarily as men want to have their own careers, but there are many stories behind success, the way of success is different, we should give understanding, they also have a lot of psychological helplessness and a lot of sourness, you just need to give your girlfriend not too much damage, it's good to say it! 1But as long as you recognize that you have a former girlfriend, you should quickly tell your former girlfriend, in case your current girlfriend knows that you still have a relationship with your former girlfriend, you will not get anything!

1. Because rich people often want to find people who really love themselves instead of loving their own money, I advise you to quickly think about what career or love you want, but love also needs money, so why not solve it with money? If you want to break up, you have to hurt her even more, and it's important not to let your rich girlfriend see that you're still together, in that case, you're going to lose both of them! 111 Understood?

Be sure to remember!

It's very realistic, women are actually very powerful, and there is nothing wrong with men's reality, so you don't have to blame yourself.

People should be realistic, and you're right.

Realistic or unrealistic, there may be 2 completely different paths waiting for you.

Feelings are measured by money, and the return of feelings to you is also based on money! Maybe you found a girl with a similar income to you, but you may get a love that you don't want to have.

The decision is yours.

Human life is very realistic.

It's better not to give happiness to others or not to provoke others.

To be a human being, we must have moral cultivation.

Mom teaches to be kind.

Life itself is realistic, so it's understandable that you should think that way.

If you feel that you can't be together, break up early, and after a long time, it will really hurt him.

If you think so, then break up with that girl as soon as possible, you know that you can't be with her, and you still complain about yourself, so it's better to break up early! Long pain is better than short pain!

When a person grows up, there is a change in the way they think about things, and this is due to a variety of reasons.

First, as people get older, they are exposed to more experiences and knowledge. Through learning and hands-on experience, people gradually accumulate more information and insights, which leads to a deeper understanding of things. This new knowledge and experience will affect our way of thinking and opinions, and change our perception of things.

Secondly, people also experience physical and mental development and cognitive enhancements as they grow up. With the development of the brain and the enhancement of thinking ability, we are able to think and analyze problems more rationally, and have a more comprehensive and in-depth understanding of things. This increase in cognitive abilities can also lead to a change in the way we perceive things.

In addition, the social environment and cultural background can also have an impact on people's perceptions. As people live and grow up in society, they are exposed to a variety of values, perspectives, and cultural traditions. These social and cultural factors shape our thoughts and opinions, making us look at things differently.

Finally, personal growth and maturity are also one of the reasons for the change in perception. As people grow older, they experience various challenges and difficulties from which they learn to reflect and grow. These personal growth experiences will change our perception by giving us a deeper knowledge and understanding of things.

In summary, people's perception of things will change when they grow up, which is due to a combination of factors, including experience accumulation, cognitive improvement, social environment, and personal growth. This shift in perception is a natural process of human growth and development.

One thing reminds me of a question I asked, why have people become realistic now? In fact, it is not that people have become realistic now, but that this world, this society is more realistic, so why has the world become realistic? Because the world wants to develop, the times want to progress, we have to choose reality, we have to choose the best, we have to choose the strong, in order to survive better in this environment, human beings have to be in continuous development, so there will be someone to lead the development of the times, so who will be the "leader"?

Then everyone has to choose the best and strongest comprehensive ability in all aspects of ability, conduct and other aspects to take the lead, otherwise human beings will lose their direction, so everything is the result of genetic selection in this environment. A life from birth to the end of this process can not escape the fate of choosing and being chosen, such as from the merit-based admission to school, to the merit-based admission to work, even if you get married, you have to choose the best, because the school is cultivating the best talents for the country, the enterprise must choose the best talents in order to develop and grow, for the sake of interest competition, and all aspects of the competition must also choose the best talents to maximize the value, and the family will choose the best genes to inherit to the offspring in order to develop better for their own children and future generations. Let the offspring survive well in the cruel competition, the man is not only choosing his wife, but also choosing the mother of his future child, and also choosing the partner who will accompany him in the second half of his life, and the woman is not only choosing her husband, but also choosing the father of the future child, and also choosing her partner in the second half of her life. To put it another way, if they make the wrong choice, not only themselves, but also their children's lives will be greatly affected, so they are never ambiguous about the big things, and they don't settle for ......