Is it too heartless to break up because BF is too stingy?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This can be related to his personal temperament and character, but such people are difficult to mix in social situations, girls have such a performance, it can be said that in the past, boys are a little too much, and it is not necessary to live like this when raising a family, saving is a good thing, but it depends on how to save it, right, his can be said to be stingy, I think men should save themselves to give everyone and girlfriends to be right.

    It's just that you can't say anything about breaking up for this, as long as the personality is not too different, then forget it, you can repeatedly teach him with examples and demonstrative things, let him know the necessity of doing this and how others will see it if you don't do it, don't change other people's views of you for a little money, this is very worth the loss, not only damage your own image, but even your image is affected, you say yes. So you should be patient and enlighten him, anyway, he doesn't have any other bad problems or infidelity to you except this, so there's no need to break up. Think about it, and I wish you all the best!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're looking for a boyfriend, not a good guy, and there's a significant difference between the two.

    A boyfriend is the one who is right for you, loves you, cares about you, and you love.

    Good guys – that's too many, not every good guy can be your boyfriend.

    Hopefully you know how to do it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Actually, it's a good husband, but it's not a good boyfriend Lover, if you really feel broken, and the days together are more painful than happy, and you break up. It's still too late.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Stop being nostalgic. Let's start a new life.

    Good luck...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This shows that stingy ?

    It can also be said that he is a man who can live.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's useless...If you really want to keep it, it's not that you won't pick it up for three daysI really want to end up with you

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Find a way to make an appointment and say it calmly and clearly It's best to be able to reconcile naturally If you can't talk about it, just think about it It's better to get together and disperse It's better to break up now than to get married and divorce again in the future You said no.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is indestructible! A lot of love is vulnerable nowadays, and the reason is that it's not real love!

    So what does true love look like?

    It's hard to find, and seriously, maybe you won't see it for hundreds of years.

    Because, love is a matter of two people!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People are selfish, everyone will think for themselves, since they don't feel it, they should give up doing this for him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think the girl is ruthless, in fact, she will say it calmly, it's good, it's much better than those who don't want to be together and don't want to break up, I think the girl is very brave, and she thinks about others too. Isn't it?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is also too normal, after all, love cannot be without parting.

    Whatever she does!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It can't be said that she must be ruthless.

    It is possible that she is amorous.

    But she must not be affectionate!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Seriously, since you don't like him, you shouldn't have agreed to him in the first place, and then you hurt him, don't blame others!

    He's not a bad boy, you hurt him very deeply, do you really understand boys? This is God's little punishment for you!

    The solution is to make it clear to him that you didn't mean to hurt him!

    He'll understand!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Right! The man upstairs was right.

    The more he does that, the more it shows that he cares about you.

    Unable to accept reality for a while.

    He was pitiful when I thought about it.

    What about you! Haha, try to look at it from a different angle.

    A person who loves you has become like that for some reason.

    You take a closer look.

    I think you'll find it ridiculous.

    Think he's acting there alone.

    Play it to the people who watch him.

    Watching the play, you don't have to be so involved.

    If you don't want to look at it, you can turn it off at any time.

    Some are directly involved in their own.

    You can refuse outright.

    I hope I say this to discourage you.

    What I hope for the most:

    You can talk to him.

    It's better for you and for him.

    It started because of you.

    Don't keep your tail on.

    Think about it. If he is disobedient, there is a trick to it.

    can preserve your dignity.

    You ask him:"I broke up with you, you don't care, according to what you said, you used to just play with me. Then why do you have such a big reaction! "

    This sentence is not a last resort, it is best not to use it! ^-

    Good luck.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He's a nice boy, and he did that to you later with his own purpose, but that purpose doesn't feel malicious.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The world is as black as a crow.

    Stupid men are all the same, but good men are good in their own way.

    What is he doing?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You will do to him what he does to you, since it does this to you, it means that he is not worthy of your care, pay attention, since he has recruited you, people will not offend you, you will not offend, if people offend you, you will offend

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's really boring, ignore him, do what you should do, or find someone better than him, and be angry with him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Oh, if you like to pretend to be very intimate with a certain girl in front of you, pretend to be deliberately angry with you, and ignore him.

    If you always say bad things about you in the class, you have to reprimand him to your face, and this kind of person can't give him a hand!!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He asks your friends around you to say good things for him, and wants to save the relationship, which shows that he is serious about you; And when he knew that the breakup "the overall situation has been decided, and the situation cannot be reversed", he deliberately slandered you and spread rumors everywhere, which more or less left a shadow in your heart. I sympathize with him very much, because he is not smart enough, and he knows that feelings cannot be forced, but he still chooses this way to face the reality of the breakup, and I can only say that he is naïve. Aloof!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should pretend to be happy.

    Then I talked to him like a friend, saying that I was very happy that he could now find what he really liked.

    He's going to be sad.

    If he likes you a lot.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can choose to talk to him.

    Although I don't know if it will have an effect. At least let him know that although you don't like him, you always respect him. And he did such things to slander you, compared to your open-mindedness, he will feel ashamed.

    If your tolerance and honesty and respect can't make him ashamed, then forget it, this person ......I believe that over time, other students will naturally be able to distinguish between you and him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This kind of person is not worth staying away from him! No man-like!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    He must have liked you too much, and you proposed to break up, so the love gave birth to hate

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He's trying to get your attention.

    Then come back to him.

    It backfired.

    The best way to deal with it is to ignore him.

    After a long time, he will find it very boring.

    Naturally, they will give up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Almost, my friend had this experience too. The man just wants his own face, and he doesn't care about her feelings at all. But you must not be fooled, don't care about his words, whatever, the more he says that, you just need to believe in yourself, you just need your friends to believe in you, what are you bothered about, what do others like to say about their business, you laugh it off, they also take you can't do it, after a while, the more you care, the more annoying you feel, just endure everything, so as to avoid endless troubles.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's the same as even, t t, you just ignore him

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You're a man, you don't know how painful a girl's shoes hurt!! Moreover, she is not bent on spending your money, she wants your favor!! I'm a girl, I know, a man, his willingness to spend money for you does not mean that he loves you, but if he loves you, he must be willing to spend money on you!!

    You can talk to her or give her a pair of comfortable shoes, and she will be happy

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's your fault, if his feet are fine, of course you can save, but have you ever thought that your current savings really make him suffer, if you want to save, his feet are worn out, he has to go to the hospital, he has to see a doctor, isn't it to say that you have more money? You let your girlfriend suffer, if you change my boyfriend, she will also choose to take a taxi instead of taking the bus, do you know how uncomfortable it is to take the bus with broken feet?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You think she's ridiculous, then break up, you don't have to spend money if you break up, some girls are like this, if you love her, you have to be willing to spend money, if you don't have money, you can't afford to spend money, don't provoke such a woman.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    She's a waste of money, she doesn't think about you at all, and she doesn't spend it like this when she thinks she has a lot of money, right? Does she want you to be considerate? She didn't do it herself, and she asked for others! What a waywardness! Don't be this kind of woman, unless you still want to be her ATM!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Not a woman who lives is sure of all, if you can't earn tens of thousands of months a month, it is estimated that it will be difficult to serve. Hehe.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm sticking with you.

    This kind of woman can't be talked about. Not to mention marrying Lak.

    If you marry her. In the future, your family's financial problems will be serious.

    Such a profligate woman would rather not.

    I still ignore you for money. Obviously, women who only value money.

    I think it's better to divide it.

    Personal Z foolish opinion.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you've been dating for a long time, it may be that she is deliberately trying to test you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I'm a woman, and I won't think you're stingy, if it's okay once and a half, I see your girlfriend above and say"Every time".I don't need to say much about the specifics, otherwise it's a little.

    Anyway, I think your idea is fine.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    There's nothing to be nostalgic for this kind of woman!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    He has the ability to ask him to find someone rich to go.

    Not stingy'

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    How can I say that my family buys three computers a year, is it considered a good family? Hehe, if it were me, I would only buy one! Because you didn't say that he usually treats you badly, it can be seen how meticulously he usually treats you, hehe has been careful care for a lifetime, can't he still stand up to the roses that can't bloom for a few days?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Giving you a rose means that I only love you alone.

    It means that he is dedicated to you!

    Even a rich man only gives a rose to his girlfriend haha...

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Is one and many sticks important to you? It's enough for him to be nice to you, if only I could find someone who is good to me. Even if he doesn't buy me flowers. I'll be happy too.

    I hope you can understand true happiness, and if he buys you one, it shows that he is a romantic person, and he only bought one. It shows that he is very realistic, and it is good to have so much money for you to eat with, why spend it on that flower?

    Do you say yes".

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The only thing about him is that you won't be stingy she'll surprise you when she's rich I think so.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Uh: I never received BF tweed.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    What was the reason for the breakup? It's not clear, and I can't say it! But if you don't love it anymore, then just do it.

    If you pull it together, you won't be happy. So there's no ruthlessness anymore! If you break up because of some trivial things, but you still love each other, then don't break up!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Since you really decided to break up, it may be better for both parties to be ruthless.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Despair is good to him and can make you break up.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Since it is divided, it is divided thoroughly; Ruthlessness is also necessary!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The problem is not clear, let's talk about it in detail, is he asking for it, or did you take the initiative to give it, and it is so clear to be together, are you in love with him?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Now that the breakup has been proposed.

    You've hurt him.

    What's the use of talking about that now?

    Ruthless, unrelenting.

    Will you change anything?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    If you don't want this kind of person, you can still take back what you have sent??? See you for the first time. Mabe is a man.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Well, you can't do this, you have to leave a staircase for someone else! As the saying goes, it's good to get together and disperse, after all, I once loved! Even if there is no love now, I have given it before, and no matter what is bad, I can't do it too much!

    Of course, you may be doing the right thing. This is just my personal thoughts, everyone's ideas and practices are different, thousands of people think about thousands of people!

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