People know that many things are uncertain, so why do they give promises?

This may be because promises are particularly good, and most people yearn for good, they want things to develop as they promised, and not making promises is actually a kind of appeasement to the other party. <>

For example, two people in love often say that we will definitely be together in the future, when will we get married in the future, and we all know that not every relationship will have results. But out of the affirmation of this relationship, or the feelings for the other party, we unconsciously promise a happy ending to each other, which is also the happy ending we are looking forward to.

Besides, it's deliberately deceived and fooled.,There are a lot of scumbags who say what they say when they deceive ignorant girls.,After you follow me.,I'll be good to you.,I'll marry you when you want to get married.,I'll satisfy you with whatever you want.,This kind of deception is to deceive my sister by unscrupulous means.,He doesn't have the ability to do it at all.,Or I didn't want to do that at all.,It's just to achieve the goal and say it casually.,But some girls who are not deeply involved in the world are deceived by such rhetoric.。

Commitment is a kind of planning for the future for those who keep their word, they set goals and then work hard to achieve them. And for those who are in love, it is like a spice in the relationship, which can make love more warm, make feelings sweeter, and make each other's attitudes towards each other clearer.

And for those who don't speak well, the promise is just a joke and nothing. Even if they know that things will not go as expected, but it can't stop people's yearning for a better future, people's promises to themselves are more encouragement to themselves, and they are just to give themselves clear ambitions.

So in my opinion, instead of pinning the future on ethereal promises and not going to the reality of working hard silently, you must know that too many meaningless promises will make people feel bored.

Because commitment itself is a beautiful thing, we can't let it appear just because something beautiful will pass, we have to get used to accepting beautiful things and relieving the passing of beauty.

The first person to make a commitment is of course to show his determination, no matter what direction things will go in the future, but at least at this moment that person wants to give you some promise, and the other person wants to give you a sense of security and wants to say his attitude.

Not long ago, I told my grandfather that I would rush home to visit him on his birthday, and I also knew that I might not have the time to buy him a gift and give up, but after all, I spilled the water when I said it, and I naturally had to find a way to fulfill the promise I made, and I could hear the joy of my grandfather when he heard that I would go back, and he smiled like a child. For my sake, I tried my best to adjust all my things to the front, and solved everything I could as quickly as possible, and then I went to do odd jobs in order to buy a good gift, although it was very hard but I had to do it, and finally fulfilled my promise.

When others give promises, they will be very happy, very satisfied, people need such comfort and encouragement, people are emotional animals, we need such expectations to make ourselves happy, someone gives you a promise, it will invisibly give you a sense of security and give you emotional support, just like many people say: we need to be deceived by others.

When expressing that you care about others, you always have to give each other a promise, and people who care about you will naturally abide by their promises and work hard to achieve them, just to attract people's attention, there are some people who will not think about what they have said, and the promise is to show their personal benefits, so that they can be used to achieve some goals, and we can judge such a commitment by ourselves.

This is the same as knowing that the marriage certificate is just a piece of paper but still rushing to get married, how can people's hearts be suppressed by a piece of paper, the important thing is not the result but the attitude of the person who cares about it is willing to give promises.

Commitment is a way of showing affection. Many people like to make all kinds of promises to their beloved, and many people feel that the promises are false and unreliable, which is the same as young people who are keen to express their feelings and their parents are not good at words, and the way is different. I like to make promises that I think I can do, and although I don't know how long it will take, I want to show the other person that I'm serious about relationships.

Make a commitment to let the other person know that you have him or her in your future plans, and let him know that you value him. I promised my mom that one day I would have a successful career and bring her to the big city to enjoy happiness, and we don't know how long it will take to achieve it, but we enjoy the warmth of the moment.

Commitment is a spur to oneself and enhance one's sense of responsibility. Commitment is not only for the other party, but more importantly, let yourself understand your inner thoughts, spur yourself to be unrelenting in order to achieve it, and work hard to create. At this time, the promise is not so much a promise as a goal, which is your own expectation for the future.

In fact, this is also very common in TV dramas, the male protagonist makes an affectionate promise to the female protagonist, works hard in a different place for the goal, and comes to the female protagonist with flowers and diamond rings when he becomes famous, and lives happily ever after.

Admittedly, there is no shortage of people's promises that turn to ashes and fade with the wind over time, and this is also a part of life. Not everyone is so lucky, not all efforts will be rewarded, and we clearly know that the other party has worked hard for the commitment is enough. We are not defeated by reality, we are just played a joke by life.

Don't resist the promise, the life that should go on is still lived.

Because the moment they made their promises, they were all sincere, they all thought it was achievable, they wanted to give each other a sense of security, and they wanted to give themselves a motivation to struggle.

I think it's normal for people to promise one thing, as if everyone will have their own dreams, but sometimes they know that their dreams are difficult to achieve but still take it as their own dreams, which is the same reason, it's not strange to promise one thing, but it is also good to make promises to others according to their own abilities.

Because the promise is only a verbal one, if you do it, you will definitely be full of joy, if you can't do it, you will definitely be disappointed, but people want to develop on the good side.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

It can be said that if you don't have the strength, don't talk big, and if you say what you say, you must do it, and if you can't do it, it's deception.

Maybe he has his own problems, give him a chance to be strong

Things you can't do.

I'd rather you didn't mention it.

Don't give me hope.

But I was extremely disappointed.

Some people, because they are afraid of losing, keep promising each other, giving people the illusion that the future can be expected. They think that in this way they can keep a person's heart, and they think that in this way they can not lose it. However, these promises were not fulfilled, but instead accelerated the departure of others.

In interpersonal relationships, the most important thing is sincerity, and a promise made that has not been fulfilled is actually no different from a lie. Who likes a ** who always talks empty words? Promise is like a sugar-coated cannonball, short-term sweetness in exchange for more bitterness, who wants to hold on to it?

There is a boy because of his lack of self-confidence, so he keeps making promises to the person he likes, and he gives her a lot of beautiful dreams. The boy's original intention is to keep the girl's heart, he likes her too much, and he is too afraid of losing her, but he can really give her not much, so he can only blindly promise to fill it.

But the boy didn't think that when a person really likes another person, many things are not taken into account, but more tolerant. If she doesn't like it, even if all her promises are fulfilled, she will still leave and pursue the person she likes. The boy also paid a lot, but in the end, because of insincerity, he was blacklisted by the girl forever.

It was originally a deep love, but it finally ended up with a "**".

As far as the girl is concerned, she actually never cares about the boy's situation, but his constant promises make people feel very insincere and unreliable, and she can't convince herself to be with this person who is full of running trains.

Sometimes, what you care about may not be what others care about, and whether a relationship can go further depends on the mentality and importance of two people towards this relationship. We will also see some people who love each other even if both parties are not good, can face the trials of life together, and can embrace happiness together. It's not that they don't need a better life, it's not that they don't have expectations for the future, it's just that they know that some things are good to live as well as they can, and it's content to be able to live well in the present.

Therefore, you don't need to give too many promises to others, don't mention things that can't be done, if one day you feel that you have the ability to achieve it, you can prove it with practical actions, then the other party will definitely recognize your efforts more, and will definitely have a good impression of you. On the contrary, if you say it but don't do it, give hope to others and disappoint others, it will only make people have less and less confidence in you, and in the end they may not believe what you say at all.

Although the promise is good and can give people hope, but two people must be honest with each other when they are together, you can't do it, and as someone who likes you, they will understand and encourage you. Sometimes, what others want to see is not necessarily what result you give, but how serious you are about it.

When an individual leaves you, never ask why, all the reasons you can think of are right.

Feel the world with three eyes.

I don't like it, it's too cheap to like it, even if I give a kid on the side of the road a piece of candy, he will tell me he likes you.

The love I want is the kind of love that is unwavering, unique, and indispensable.

People say go with the flow, but it's not at all, but it's really a choice that has no choice.

I have a habit of taking screenshots of chat logs, and I probably subconsciously know that there is no such store in this village, and if there is, I am destined to only listen to it once. Intercepting the promise and affection and putting it in my pocket is not to prepare to take it out for questioning in the future, but sometimes I turn it over intentionally or unintentionally, and find that we have exchanged sincerity at least a second before.

I heard people say: when a person leaves you, never ask the reason, all the reasons you can think of are right.

Summer seems to be really gone. When the door was pushed, the cold wind swished into the door, and it was still a scorching sun at noon, and it was already a cold wind outside in the evening. I haven't said goodbye to summer yet, and autumn has come unexpectedly.

When you see someone on the side of the road handing out flyers, you can take it, say thank you when you take a taxi, throw the garbage into the trash can, buy a little when you see the old man who sells things, be gentle with the world, buy yourself a rose on Valentine's Day, and say forget it to the person you once loved with a smile.

Explain that others are not being honest with you!

If you are not sure of fulfilling your promises, don't export them easily.

Don't promise what you can't deliver.

Before he died, a businessman admonished his son: "If you want to succeed in business, you must remember two things: be trustworthy and be smart." ”

So, what does it mean to be trustworthy? The son asked anxiously.

If you sign a contract with someone else and you sign it and you find out that you are going to lose your money because of that contract, then you have to do the same. ”

So, what does it mean to be smart? ”

Don't sign this contract. ”

Be cautious about your promises - since you have made a promise, no matter how much you go back, you can't keep your word.

Don't make promises – never promise people things you may not be able to do – this is the best way not to break your promises.

It is difficult to understand trustworthiness as a kind of morality. Understanding it as a long-term investment with a high rate of return is easier to turn into a conscious action.

When you gain an image of keeping promises, you will gain the trust of more and more people, which will bring more and more opportunities. It's like owning a gold mine.

On the contrary, without this article, no matter how good other aspects are, it is difficult to become a great tool. It's not easy to get a trustworthy image.

The most important thing is: don't promise something you can't keep.

It can only be said that when Zheng Qin promised at that time, he just thought that he wanted to do this, and he would definitely be able to do what he promised. But in fact, many things have changed since then, and he can't fulfill his promises, or his own thinking has changed, and he has broken his promises.

It feels like people want to do it blindly when they make promises, but the fact is that God is not as good as heaven, and there are still a lot of changes.

Because of impulse, or want to reassure the other party.

The hidden chain means that Zizao Sun has a certain certainty, but he is not completely sure, but he was afraid that the other party would be disappointed at that time, so he made a promise.

There are also people who do it on purpose, because he is reckless.