What is the experience of because you are different from others, so you are not normal ?

I feel the same as others, that is, you have a normal heart, you can calm down and do things in a down-to-earth manner, do not dream, and move towards your goals wholeheartedly, which is different from people who do not have lofty ambitions.

That is to say, everyone feels that they are different, so when you feel that you are different from others, you already feel that you are different from others like others, and the second half of the sentence is the same.

The most important thing is the mentality, if you look at the problem with a normal heart, you will feel that you are no different from others, and you must make more friends, open your heart, communicate with people more, and communicate with your heart.

I feel lonely, I don't have friends, I don't want to communicate with anyone, and I like to be silent all the time.

When you feel that you are different from others, you are actually the same as others; When you feel that you are the same as others, you are actually different from others.

People are the same, there is no difference, now there is only a difference between poverty and wealth in this society, and some rich and noble people feel that they are superior.

When I was a child, when other little girls were braiding and stinky and beautiful, I was playing with sandbags; When I was in high school, I was playing basketball. When I was growing up, when other people were putting on makeup, I was playing games ......It's true that I'm different, but is that really not normal? I'm just more fun-loving. In my own life, why should I ask others to judge whether it is normal or not?

I'm happy.

It's like you've been moving forward, trying to get out of this confinement, but the more you go, the more desperate you get! I hope someone will help me.

Recently, my family has been persuading me to have a second child. Whenever I refused, I was labeled as "not thinking properly". The reason is why many people choose to have a second or third child, but I have to be different from others?

Whenever this happens, I feel very aggrieved and helpless, and I feel that my family doesn't want to understand why I don't have a second child.

When I have something on my mind, I don't know what to do, I bear it silently, and I don't even have a person to say what I think.

I have been trying to get out of this predicament, but I can't, I am very honest, the superior environment allows me not to worry about everything, and I am also troubled by deep pain and loneliness while winning envy.

Just as "no two leaves in the world are exactly the same", there will be no other me in this world. As a unique individual, I can proudly say, "I am who I am!"

I am me, without the charm of your small bridges and flowing water, peach and willow green, nor his pride in galloping across the field and crisscrossing the rivers and lakes, but I have a vision as wide as the blue sky, elegant thoughts like white clouds, light singing like birds, and endless ambitions like eagles. I don't hurt myself with my own humility, nor I am jealous of the nobility of others, everyone has their own piece of sky, and all I have to do is to fly in my own sky with wings. Rabindranath Tagore said

The bird wishes to be a cloud, and the cloud wishes to be a bird. He revealed the common idea in the minds of people that they always forget what they have and cherish what they do not get. Everyone, everything has its own advantages and disadvantages, and the particularity of things is like this.

Between choosing the strengths of others and discarding my own weaknesses, I choose my true colors. The peony is graceful, the lotus is icy, the plum blossom is proud, and the orchid is elegant; Huangshan Qi, Huashan Insurance, Taishan Xiong, Emei Xiu; The snow drifts for thousands of miles in the north, the grass in the south of the Yangtze River flies, the camel sounds outside, and the shepherd flute in the water town curls ......Can you say that lotus flowers are not as good as peonies, and orchids are not as good as plum blossoms? Can you say that Mount Huashan is not as good as Mount Huang, and Emei is not as good as Mount Tai?

Can you say that Jiangnan is not as good as the north, and the shepherd flute is not as good as the camel bell? Everything in the world has its own charm. "The eagle strikes the sky, the fish soars to the shallow bottom, and all kinds of frost compete in the sky.

Nature, the master of all things, has created two vast harmonies, man and nature. As a member of it, bathed in the warm sunshine, tasting the cool rain, and feeling the beautiful scenery given by the sky, a noble individual, I, can I complain that I don't get enough? "True jade is always flawed, and only fakes are impeccablely perfect.

This is really a thought-provoking aphorism. Advantages occupy half of our lives like good times, and those shortcomings can also bring strange colors to life, just as adversity is indispensable in life. For my shortcomings, I love these innocuous blemishes.

Although having them will make me look arrogant and even a little deceitful, I will use them appropriately, so that "arrogant" and "deceitful" Pi Xun also have some "cute" or "joking" meanings, with these shortcomings, I am me; Don't abandon these shortcomings, because I am who I am. I am who I am, calmly facing life, strong in the face of challenges, and rational in life.