What behaviors are you not acceptable when eating?

Talk about work. Talking about work during meals is a common problem for many bosses. I'm not saying you can't talk about work during meals, but don't talk about it endlessly, right?

I don't know if everyone is like me, whenever they talk about something like work, they put down their chopsticks and show that they are listening carefully. As a result, my boss kept talking about work, and I didn't dare to move my chopsticks, so I had to go back hungry to ......

When I saw a good dish during a meal, I rushed to eat it. When there are many people, or when the amount of vegetables is a little small, there will be a lot of people to eat, and there will be a phenomenon of grabbing vegetables to eat, so we ourselves should also pay attention to such a problem, we can't just look at the good dishes and eat them all the time, even if you want to eat very much, you have to endure it

It's the most annoying time to eat. There are a lot of such people, when there are more people, everyone eats together, there will be such a situation, their own family may still say such a thing, and others may not say it directly when eating out, but they will also feel a little awkward and embarrassed about your behavior. ‍‍

Bar chirp, the sound is very loud, not only the teeth chewing sound is loud, the mouth is also very loud, eating choking, hammering the chest all the time, feeling that I haven't eaten for many years, choking to hiccups.

There are two behaviors that are most unacceptable, one is to eat and pout, and the other is to use chopsticks to pick the dishes on the plate.

I hate to keep talking to me about table manners, my house has so many rules that it makes you cry. There is no glass on this table, you can't rotate, you pull it with me, it's rude to stand up and pick up vegetables, boys like to eat meat, girls like to eat vegetables, I go to change the position of the two plates, and say that I don't have a tutor, or eat a steak, you have to be a little cooked to be authentic, and I have a stomachache when eating with this kind of person.

Some people have the problem of coughing and spitting when eating, and the most unacceptable thing is that he still makes a pile of paper directly on the dinner table, so that others have no appetite, and he himself is not conscious.

In fact, this is rude.

Of course, yes! This one is the most unbearable. My colleague just chirped, it was noon, and I didn't have any appetite at all just listening to him eat.

It's the New Year, you should give everyone a drink. The Lantern Festival should be a toast to everyone. The Dragon Boat Festival should be a toast to everyone. The Mid-Autumn Festival should be a cup for everyone. Why are you so blind, kid? Why are you so rude, kid? ‍‍

Drink, how much do you drink? So faceless? Hey, you're a disappointment!

Isn't it a man to drink a little bit? If you vomit, you'll be fine, and then drink it! After drinking, go to KTV and have another round.

Don't go, hey, I didn't drink well. I'll drink your grandma's legs. ‍‍

I hate it when people are eating in a restaurant and talking loudly, which is very disturbing! It's noisy and annoying!

During the meal, my dad whispered in my ear: "Girl, hurry up, give a cup to Auntie, shouldn't you respect Uncle when Uncle invites you to dinner?" Seeing that the child was patronizing and eating, he picked up the cup and said a few words. "I'm just here to eat, not to socialize.

Now there are many middle-aged men in the bureau, smoking cigarettes and talking loudly. Regardless of whether there are women and children in this bureau, I don't ask everyone before smoking, and I smoke regardless of it, which is very selfish and has no connotation. ‍

1. Mouthful.

There is a kind of person who likes to chirp when he eats, and deliberately makes a sound. As the so-called "food does not speak", when everyone is eating, if it is just two people eating alone, then forget it, if it is a dinner party with friends, a company dinner, and a customer, this is not to pay attention to the etiquette at the dinner table. If you chirp while eating, will it affect the mood of others?

If you know how to eat by yourself, then you either correct it yourself, or pay attention to the situation of eating in public and avoid making noise.

2. Chop the vegetables.

I once met such a girl, when eating, every dish was picked up and turned with chopsticks, rummaging in it, just to find something she liked to eat. However, sometimes I find it and find that I don't want to eat it, so I just leave it away, and I want to know, can this still be eaten? How to eat it?

It is true that when everyone eats together, sometimes there will be a dish, but if it is just you picking up the dishes, instead of turning over and over the tricks, then there will not be too much attention to it, and it will not feel good. But you flip through it yourself, and you feel bad about yourself, let alone someone else? It will also feel more bad, and the appetite of others will be more affected.

3. Speak loudly.

Nowadays at the dinner table, smoking and drinking are common, because to socialize? Company dinners, friends' dinners, family dinners, accompanying customers, business trips, etc., all require tobacco and alcohol, so many times this tobacco and alcohol is not strange, but there are many people who like to talk loudly and like to brag. This shows that you are very disgraced and embarrassed.

Maybe you think that everyone is listening to you and you are very powerful, but in fact, you don't know what everyone says about you in their hearts.

I met one before, everyone is a leader, did they have a dinner together? As a result, a boy said that he was awesome and blew all kinds of things, but everyone looked at him, the voice was very loud, and he was very rude, and he reminded him, but it was useless, or continue, so he could only continue to perform, what could he do? For this, it is very impolite and educated.

4. Eat only what you like.

Now there is still a kind of people in society who pick their own mouths and don't care about others, so they want to envy themselves and eat them. I saw a little story before, a boy in it is, spoiled by his parents, once followed a colleague to a dinner, but every time he served a dish, he said, this ant Qiao is not delicious, don't order it next time, I won't take into account other people's thoughts at all, I will eat each dish by myself, if it is delicious, it will be served to myself to eat, and if it is not delicious, it will be served to others.

In fact, everyone is at the dinner table, the important thing is to be happy, now many dinners have no meaning to eat, are drinking, smoking and chatting, but if you encounter the above situations, then there will be the idea of wanting to eat? Definitely not! So you still have to know yourself and control it, especially when you have a dinner.

There are indeed a lot of etiquette for eating, we from ancient times to the present, no matter what we do, we must abide by the rules, especially in public or when there are many people, we should be ourselves, because we have to develop good habits from an early age, so it can be reflected in later life.

What do you think of the "most uneducated" behaviors at the dinner table. China's food culture has a long history, every place has different characteristics of food, in fact, China is also very good at food, in addition to food, in terms of table etiquette also has a long history, has been passed down to the present, since childhood when eating at the dinner table, my mother taught us not to chirp when eating, if you make a sound when eating, it is really very impolite, in fact, these are some simple little things, but can reflect the upbringing, Whether it's having dinner with friends or eating with relatives, we can see their level of education from the performance at the table, if there are these behaviors at the table, they will be said to be uneducated, and if you meet such friends during the meal, then it really makes people feel very uncomfortable, and sometimes even feel very ashamed.

Today, let's take a look at the most uneducated behaviors at the dinner table?

The first is to pull vegetables, in fact, the most annoying thing at the dinner table is this problem, unless it is their closest relatives, or they will feel very disgusted, that is, when we are eating, it has just been served back and forth by some people to mess up the fingers, and pick up the dishes they like to eat, and the mess left in the plate, in fact, this situation makes people feel that there is no appetite at a glance, if it is to use chopsticks, it is good to say, then if you have eaten chopsticks and let others look at it, It's really unappetizing.

The second is not to use chopsticks, no matter who we eat with, there will generally be a pair of chopsticks or spoons to spare, some people feel that you don't need to be polite, but the role of chopsticks and spoons is also to isolate saliva mixed into the dish, we all know that saliva is actually very dirty, and this is also a kind of respect for others. This is a family with children in the family, and it is generally necessary to get a new pair of chopsticks when feeding the children, otherwise they will feel that the saliva is eaten by the child, which will be very unhealthy.

The third is Ba Cai. Things like this Bikure round seed can often be seen at the spring banquet, and some elderly people love their grandsons very much, so when the dishes come up, they are crazy to eat, directly for their grandsons to eat, and even more excessively, others do not let other people use it when they pick up the vegetables, in fact, this situation is really the most annoying, and I feel that it is really a bit embarrassing at a glance.

We should develop good habits from an early age, so that they can be reflected in our later lives.

What do you think of the "most uneducated" behaviors at the dinner table. China Kaixiang food culture has a long history, each place has a different characteristics of food, in fact, China is also very good at the food aspect, in addition to food, in the table etiquette also has a long history, has been passed down to the present, when we were young when we ate at the dinner table, my mother taught us not to chirp when eating, if you make a sound when eating, it is really very impolite, in fact, these are some simple little things, but can reflect the upbringingWhether it's having dinner with friends or eating with relatives, we can see their level of upbringing from the performance at the table, if there are these behaviors at the table, they will be said to be uneducated, and if you meet such friends during the meal, then it really makes people feel very uncomfortable, and sometimes even feel very ashamed.

Today, let's take a look at what are the most uneducated behaviors at the dinner table?

The first is to pull vegetables, in fact, the most annoying thing at the dinner table is this problem, unless it is their closest relatives, or they will feel very disgusted, that is, when we are eating, it has just been served back and forth by some people to mess up the fingers, and pick up the dishes they like to eat, and the mess left in the plate, in fact, this situation makes people feel that there is no appetite at a glance, if it is to use chopsticks, it is good to say, then if you have eaten chopsticks and let others look at it, It's really unappetizing.

The second is not to use chopsticks, no matter who we eat with, there will generally be a pair of chopsticks or spoons to spare, some people feel that it is not polite to guess the use, but the role of chopsticks and spoons is also to isolate saliva mixed into the dish, we all know that saliva is actually very dirty, and this is also a kind of respect for others. This is a family with children in the family, and it is common to get a new pair of chopsticks when feeding the children, otherwise they will feel that the saliva is eaten by the child, which will be very unhealthy.

The third is Ba Cai. This kind of thing can often be seen at the spring banquet, and there are some elderly people who love their grandchildren very much, so when the dishes come up, they are crazy to eat, and they eat directly to their grandchildren.

The first point is to chirp when eating. I used to think that this is completely a matter of personal habits, and there is no need to rise to the level of uneducated, but my father has always asked me not to chirp when eating, as long as I chirp, then hit my mouth, so I have never had this habit, but I absolutely do not discriminate against this habit, but when you start to live in a group, such as high school and college, and eat with many people, you will feel that chirp is really special and uneducated, It's easy to make a bad impression.

So I now think that chirping is really a very uneducated behavior, and it's not a simple matter of personal habits, this can indeed be said to be a kind of table manners, eating and chirping will make people feel no appetite, at least I'm like this, if there is a person at the same table with me, I will feel a little disgusting, because I feel the sound of her saliva, like no one in our house, so I didn't have that kind of experience before, when we eat together in the dormitory, Someone's mouth, that feeling is really uncomfortable.

The second point is that the chopsticks keep stirring in the dish when eating, which I think is particularly disgusting, first of all, you have to know that there is no public chopsticks in China, generally speaking, when everyone gathers, there are more than a dozen pairs of chopsticks stretched out to the same dish, and everyone will not particularly care, but if you eat, there are so many people around you eating with you, and your own chopsticks are rummaging and stirring in it, looking for the food you like to eat. Such a thing would seem disgusting to others.

When our department had the first meeting, there were about 15 people around a super big table, and then there was a person who didn't know whether he was at the same level as me or my senior, and when he ate the grilled fish, he kept turning and stirring in it, like the fish meat can't be turned over, the thorns are easy to run out, and the piece of fish made him turn over all the pieces, which means that there are a bunch of broken fish pieces on the plate, which is particularly disgusting, anyway, I didn't move the grilled fish at all.

The third point is that there is food in his mouth when he eats, and he is still talking to others, which is particularly annoying, that is, he talks to you with food in his mouth, first of all, he speaks slurredly, the words are not clear at all, and he can't hear what he is saying at all, and the second point is that he is easy to squirt out the food in his mouth, and even once he sat opposite me, he choked himself when he spoke, and the rice sprayed directly onto my plate.