If a man doesn t take the initiative, what about a woman?

As the saying goes, women chase men across the veil, and men chase women across the mountain, but under normal circumstances, many women still hope that men will take the initiative to pursue more. However, it is precisely the Internet that has turned many men into tech nerds, who can imagine the whole world in front of a computer screen every day. This makes it difficult for many women to figure out what is going on with men not taking the initiative.

In response to this problem, it can actually be understood from two aspects:

The first is that he is not interested in you, the man has a clear purpose, and the sense of direction is very clear, if he likes something, he will want to have and possess it, just like the opposite sex, if a man likes a girl, he will try his best to get close to it, and have; But if this guy doesn't have the initiative to talk to you or ask you out, it can largely mean that he is not interested in you.

Second, he may not be sure, and it may be more common for boys who are afraid to contact you. Nowadays, many boys are becoming more and more homely, spending more time on the Internet and technology, and rarely contacting girls, so there is no opportunity to communicate with girls, and there is also a lack of such corresponding exercise.

Even if you meet a girl you like, you will hesitate, afraid that what you say is not right, you don't do well and lose the girl you like.

First, see if he pays attention to some of your daily behaviors

For example, the status of the circle of friends you posted, some trends on Weibo, etc., to see if he likes or leaves a message for you. If there is, it means that he is paying attention to you and wants to have a common topic with you, but if there is no action, it means that the boy is not paying attention to you, that is, he is not interested in you.

Second, see if he will be the first to help you when you are in trouble

Boys will have a desire to protect, if a girl asks him for help, he will have a strong desire to protect, want to help girls, solve those difficulties, if a girl asks a boy for help, the boy can be very happy, and soon come to the girl's side, help her solve this problem, it means that the boy is still interested in girls! On the contrary, if the boy excuses himself with various reasons, such as busy work, long distance, inappropriate time, etc., it means that the boy is not interested in girls.

Third, see if this boy will have some heart-warming small actions in normal times.

If he can do some things in a real way, such as: squatting down to tie your shoes, taking the initiative to help you carry your bag when you go shopping, boiling porridge for you when you are not feeling well, serving tea, etc., it means that the boy still has a certain interest in girls, because he is willing to take the time to do it, after all, where the time is, the heart is. But if it's the opposite, it means that the boy is unrealistic and not so serious about girls.

Isn't there a saying that says? If the mountain does not come to me, I will come to the mountain. If the man does not take the initiative, then the woman takes the initiative, as long as the result is still the same result, don't care whether the man takes the initiative or the woman takes the initiative in the process.

When it comes to feelings, men don't take the initiative to show that they don't love, women don't take the initiative to not love, and if one party loves the other, he will take the initiative to confess.

Men don't take the initiative, if they want to be beautiful and cool, women will take the initiative