How do you teach children to have love?

Reduce material rewardsMaterial rewards have always been the first choice of parents, but to weaken this kind of reward, so that children feel that the reward does not need to be material, parents will be successful. YesEmphasize that the feeling of receiving a reward is more enjoyable for a child than receiving a rewarded item. ‍

Parents are a mirror in their children's lives, and when parents should set a good example for their children, love their husbands, respect the elderly, and children will unconsciously imitate their parents' words and deeds. When you go out and encounter stray cats and dogs, ask your child to bring them something to eat. ‍

Participate in more charity donation activitiesTake your children to participate in the on-site activities of love donationsIt's just that love on the Internet will not teach children to love and let children feel love, as long as children participate in on-site activities of love donations, in order to give the child a great shock.

Teach children to shareThe first step in making your child loving is to learn to share, and it is likely that he does not want to share on the first day you teach him, but don't feel frustrated, if you share it with him more times or other children, he will naturally learn to share.

Coincidentally, today my colleague is still asking me: how to make children have love?

Here's the thing, the child is now five years old, but the friend finds that the child is unloving and indifferent in life. Last night to go to bed, the child took the pillow away, the friend told the child that the mother needs a pillow, without the pillow the mother's neck is uncomfortable, and then the child is indifferent, no matter how useless it is. Later, when his friend got angry and said that he was going to his grandmother's house at night, he panicked and reluctantly gave the pillow to his friend.

Through this incident, the friend found that the child had no love and was relatively indifferent. So how do you build a child's love?

I think the definition of the word "love" given by parents is too big, in fact, the child is loving, what he can't do is that there is no empathy.

Empathy is about thinking and empathizing through the perspective of others. But this is still very difficult for a five-year-old child to doTherefore, he needs the correct words and deeds and guidance from his parents.

First of all, in life,Parents should lead by example and subtly let their children have a sense of love. Like transferring a child's bad habits, assuming he has broken toys in his life? Tear up books?

If we do not respect the elderly and other bad behaviors or habits, we should not lose our temper at the first time, treat the child's shortcomings calmly, accept the child's imperfections, and tell him what is good and what is bad. Treat your child's mistakes with kindness and make love concrete, and your child will draw love from the life, words and deeds of familiar people.

Again, no matter what the child does in life, good things and bad thingsListen to your child's thoughts first. Only by understanding the original intention of the child can we, as parents, convince the child in a more appropriate way. Blaming and complaining has no other benefits than increasing children's resistance to us.

Finally usYou can educate children and cultivate love through practical actions or situations such as storytelling and raising animals.

There is still a long way to go in education, but if parents have patience and insist on being a messenger to guide their children, I believe that children will grow up well in such a "loving environment".

Create an atmosphere of gratitude. It is necessary to immerse children in an environment of gratitude from an early age. Parents should create an atmosphere of gratitude at the right time according to the age of their children.

Parents set an exampleWhatever you do, you have to believeParents are always role models for their children, so parents must pay attention to their words and deeds in their daily lifeSince you want your children to be more loving, of course, you have to have a lot of love.

Let children learn to empathizeThe effect of empathy is greatAllowing children to learn empathy not only makes children more loving, but also good for children to understand and care about others

Give support to children, as long as the child gives love to other children or stray animals, parents should give support, whether it is material conditions or spiritual encouragement, so that the child can continue his love.

Life is full of gratitude. Life is the best learning platform for young children. Parents should pay attention to infiltrating the education of love in every detail of family life and cultivating children's gratitude.

Here are some ways to make your child more loving:

Set an example for Zen and clear the rules. Parents should first establish a loving heart, start with themselves, and be an example to their children.

Cultivate the social skills of the oak song. Parents can let their children have more contact with different people and environments, learn to communicate with others, cultivate children's empathy, and enhance their understanding and tolerance for others.

Spread positive energy. Parents should lead their children to watch more positive news and stories, and encourage them to do more caring behaviors, such as helping others and caring for others.

Learn to share. Parents can educate their children about the importance of sharing, so that children can feel the joy and joy of sharing, and cultivate children's love and sense of responsibility.

Respect the child. Liang Zheng respects children's ideas and opinions, encourages them to express their thoughts and opinions, and makes children feel respected and valued, so as to cultivate children's love and kindness.

These methods are designed to help children express their emotions more positively, establish a correct worldview and outlook on life for them, and thus make children more loving and responsible.

The environment of the family of origin has an important impact on the growth and development of the child, but it does not mean that arguing with a bad family of origin will inevitably lead to the loss of the child's ability to love others. Although the adverse environment of the family of origin may have a negative impact on a child's emotional and interpersonal relationships, factors such as the child's personal characteristics, subsequent education, and social environment can also have an impact on their behavior and emotional development.

While the experiences of the family of origin may be challenging for their children's relationships, they are encouraged to have opportunities to nurture and develop love and empathy in other ways. For example, they can enhance their emotional and interpersonal skills by actively participating in social activities, forming close friendships, receiving psychological counseling, etc.

It is important to give these children enough understanding, support and love to help them overcome the difficulties of their families of origin, and to provide a positive and healthy environment and experiences to promote their emotional growth and development.

Once, I was walking with my child, and suddenly saw an old grandmother fall from the ground, and the child not only quickly ran over to help pick up the early draft grandmother, but also took the initiative to ask her if she needed help to send her home. I was very touched to see this behavior of my child.

This scene made me deeply realize that the good quality of children is closely related to family education. In our daily life, we should pay attention to cultivating children's sense of responsibility, love and compassion, so that children can know how to respect the elderly, love the young, care for others, and be a useful person to society. At the same time, the child's behavior also reminded me and other parents to give more guidance and education in daily life, so that the child can establish correct values and behavioral norms, and be a moral and quality person.

In short, children's behavior often reflects their family education and growth environment, and good family education can cultivate children with high moral character, which is also one of the important factors in social development.

Here's an answer to your question. First of all, love is embodied in all kinds of small things in daily life, the cultivation of love needs to be taught by words and deeds, in addition to the reputation of the town often tell children how to have a love trip, they also often do some caring things to show children, subtle children can have love. I hope I can help friends in need.