I want to marry my boyfriend, and my father doesn t agree

Your father loves you and does everything for your good, maybe now it seems that he is very stubborn, and when you become a mother in the future, you will understand the suffering of your parents. So it's better not to make your dad sad. Aren't they at this age just hoping that their children will be happy in the future?

At the same time, I think it's better for you not to agree to your boyfriend's idea. After all, you've been talking for less than a year, how much do you know about each other? You don't even have a plan for the future, to be honest, let's wait, have you thought about it, how can you live without a house when you are married?

Rent? Rent for a lifetime? Having children, spending more, and most importantly, educating children?

There is no parent who does not want their child to eat well, play well, and receive a good education.

I think that as a good man, you should be self-motivated and responsible for yourself and your family.

Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is not just two people.

Life is easy to live, life is not easy. Hehe. I hope you think about it and don't make your father sad, it's not easy for parents.

Your father must be reluctant to you, if you become a mother in the future, you will experience your father's beloved daughter's heart, I think your father is very sad, because he divorced his mother and did not give you a good home.

And you find a boyfriend from another place, and you want to marry to a foreign country, whether you are happy over there or not, will that man be good to you, your boyfriend is right to you now, but your father is worried that if you marry into her family, will you be as good to you as you are now. He's worried about whether that man will be good to you for the rest of his life, not to mention that there are so many divorces now, and he is divorced from your dad again. I'm also worried that if he beats you so far, you won't be able to rush home for a while, and you will be wronged.

Don't hurt your dad's heart, your boyfriend is not doing it right, the more your dad is like this, your boyfriend has to do better than before, behave better for you, and be better for your dad, you have to be together, you have to have a good plan for the future, so that dad feels that you don't want to do it.

Let's work together, don't listen to your boyfriend before you tell your dad when you have a child, if you want to have a happy marriage, you must first ask for the consent of your family.

If you are not sober yourself, you act recklessly with him, and without your father's permission, you will marry into his family in the future, and his family will treat you badly and embarrass you because your father does not agree to your marriage!

If your marriage is not approved and blessed by your family, everyone will be unhappy in the rest of your life.

So think twice.

I wish you happiness.

I think whether it is your father's plan for the future or not, you also have a plan in your heart, is he still a responsible man who has nothing in his heart? Life is not like love, it is very realistic, he can have nothing, but he can't have no future and plans in his heart, a good man will not always be confused with his woman, he will work hard for this family.

Your dad does have a point.

Your boyfriend can't do it, it depends on what he thinks, it's too inferior.

That's right. It's a bit irresponsible.

If there is something, I want to run away.

I don't want to face it head-on

He still wants to cook raw rice, and your dad will be out of the way.

He must have thought so.

But you can't love him

Let's watch him.

Relationships also need a lot of tests.

If you marry your boyfriend's father, your boyfriend must agree to marry your father, your boyfriend's father must agree to marry your boyfriend, and your father and your boyfriend's father don't agree!!

Don't use your children as a weight for your marriage, you'll regret it.