What do you think are the characteristics of single parents?

Through my own experience, children who lack father's love do have certain character flaws when they grow up. My girlfriend is a single parent, she is two years older than me, but she is like an 18-year-old girl in terms of EQ and IQ. Usually very dependent on me, but very good at abusing me, I don't listen to her and get angry, crying and fussing, how to say, a word summary is "made."

I think the biggest manifestation of growing up without father's love is a lack of security, and I simply want my boyfriend to be his father.

No family of origin is without problems. Before the age of 18, the personality is influenced by the family and is acceptable. After the age of 18, you should start self-correction and self-correction.

At the age of 25, you should already be a mentally healthy person with a positive attitude. After the age of 25, he still talks about his original family, and calmly uses his parents as an excuse to treat his lover and friends willfully, which is unacceptable, and he is making excuses for his own badness.

Insecure, indecisive, cowardly, inactive, not interested in sports, more clingy, etc., but there are also good ones, such as thoughtful, delicate, mild-tempered, not overly arrogant, not fond of drinking, not loud to speak, etc.

My personal feeling is very rebellious, and there is no sense of rules. Because the role of the father is order. Enforced, must be obeyed. Children without fathers are less restrained.

I want to be loved, but I am afraid of being loved, and I dare not take the initiative to show my emotions. Lack of self-confidence and courage will always be just an ostrich mentality and like to run away. Controlling and temperamental, maverick and likes to be alone.

Indifferent and ruthless, sometimes intellectually terrible, sometimes emotional to death.

Low self-esteem, longing for attention and fear of attention. Afraid of rejection, once rejected, he will not ask for it, and his heart is fragile and cannot bear to be rejected. Low sense of security, excessive self-protection, glass-hearted, sensitive, and estranged as soon as they are hurt.

I don't believe that others can take care of me, I resist intimacy, and I feel that my father doesn't take care of himself, let alone others. Some children will think that they can't get their father's love because they are not smart, so they should try to show themselves to attract attention. complaining about the heavens, I feel that God is unfair at the slightest thing.

A girl who has a good relationship with her father will not be cowardly, a father's traditional role positioning is the mountain, that is, the pillar, the role of a protector, a girl who has been cared for by a good father and raised her more courageous and not cowardly when facing the dilemma of choice, because she has always known that there is someone who will always protect her, no matter what happens.

Why is it that everyone talks about shortcomings, people who lack fatherly love have their own unique personality charm. A girl who lacks fatherly love, you meet you among friends, you may not see that she has suffered a huge psychological trauma, what you can see is the vitality, bravery, tenacity, rebellion and uniqueness she shows you, not fragile and inferior at all nor a lack of security. Because of his childhood, he was frightened, but he developed the ability to assess danger beyond most people, a strong sense of risk, a keen intuition and a sensitive sense.

This is something that a happy child in childhood does not have. I'm just a girl who lacks father's love, what's wrong? But that doesn't affect my charisma, or my level of intelligence.

It's very easy to find problems in life that others can't find. Where others think is normal, I can always see a bunch of problems and ways to improve. Where others can only put forward one or two opinions, I can put forward opinions and ideas that can fill a piece of paper.

The advantages are obvious, independent, so the ability to survive and live is much stronger than that of children in ordinary families. In the future, it will not be a giant baby mother, <>

Independent. The downside is that deep down you will feel insecure.

Because of the lack of warmth, tolerance, support and unconditional acceptance in the process of growing up. There's in intimacy.

After all, getting along in intimate relationships is more complex and delicate than daily interpersonal interactions, and the lack of relevant experience, as well as the lack of experience to be fully accepted and supported, will be unconfident. If you are an introvert and don't have many friends, it may lead to a relatively cold personality.

Independent. School education and the exchange of knowledge with children make up for part of the family education.

, coupled with their own independent thinking.

and the knowledge learned in practice, which involved some things that children of the same age do not think, do, or have the ability to do. In this environment, whether it is character development, concept formation, thinking and solving problems, and adapting to various environments, it is better than non-single-parent families.

The child matures very and oak more. It should be said that this kind of independent consciousness and independent ability formed since childhood is very beneficial to future development.

Lack of family care and education.

However, due to the lack of family care and education, children will have a sense of loneliness, insecurity, judgment, inferiority, etc., and constantly strengthen their sense of independence and self-awareness in helplessness.

It is also quietly increasing, and the basic life knowledge and concepts instilled in general family education will also be questioned and even mutated with the increase of self-awareness, and there may also be a weakening of communication skills. These may affect future work and life.

A person's life is to make progress in continuous learning and to grow in continuous self-improvement. In the face of many conflicts and contradictions between cultures, ideas and reality, such as the experience gained in past practice, what seemed to be an advantage at the time is no longer effective in current practice. Therefore, based on work and life, career development and happy life as the standard, constantly learning, correcting, improving, and updating knowledge, concepts and behaviors, you will become better and better, and you will become a successful person.