Mom always talks to me about her male netizens, what should I do?

It's a good idea to talk to your dad and promote communication between your parents, who may be communicating less. Most women who are in menopause (speculation) need to release their inner anxiety, maybe online chat is a way, or it may be a lack of love in the family. As a family, it will be better to spend more time together, travel, go out to eat together, go shopping, watch movies, sing, visit relatives, etc.

Spending at least two hours a day chatting together as a family can solve a lot of problems. Feel the love and affection for each other.

Your family's problem is your dad, who is unwilling or unable to communicate with your mother, so your mother will communicate with others. Of course, most of the people chatting online are male, which also makes your mom's friends all male. The reason why there are fewer female netizens is that male netizens will take the initiative to chat with others, while female netizens are very careful when chatting with others, and basically do not chat with male netizens.

Tell your mom.

The Internet is a good thing, but the Internet is not trustworthy.

Don't let your mom put all her spiritual sustenance online.

Mom cares about you and will do this, Mom also wants you to be happy, you have to look at this problem from your mother's point of view, of course, you are your mother's child, your mother doesn't care about you and doesn't ask who else can you ask? She wants to understand the boy from your mouth, if you can understand what your mother said, your mother will be relieved, your mother is mainly afraid that you will be deceived, or the boy will treat you badly, you have to understand your mother's distress!

Authentic.. Confess.. Tell him what you really think in your heart. He's worried about you.

She is worried about you, you should understand and communicate more with your mother appropriately.

Say what you can say, don't talk about privacy.

You say it in a tactful way.

It's going to rain and I'm going to get married, and this matter has always been difficult to manage. Although it seems to be her fault on the surface, everything inside is not necessarily what you know. Specifically, your parents know it in their own hearts.

It's okay to talk to her in good faith, but you really can't clearly explain the specifics.

It's your parents' business. But you shouldn't have let your dad know about the divorce yet.

Pretend that nothing happened, don't tell your father, the truth is sometimes a kind of harm...

Children don't care about the affairs between parents.

Have a good talk with your mother, hoping to go back and save the family.

If you love, talk to him, and if you don't love, you will divorce.

Regardless of whether asked.

Shame on my father. Ask more questions.

It's a bit excessive. Opportunity sees.

Appropriate prohibition.

In fact, it's okay to talk to your mother, ask your mother what she thinks, don't be impulsive, maybe you have other reasons for being numb.

This matter will be revealed one day, and it is the best policy if you don't say it, otherwise it will hurt you, the 'pond fish'. In addition, if your mother doesn't care anymore, then this marriage is meaningless. In general, you can't do much. Be prepared.

A lot of answers Actually, I think you have an answer in your own heart A way As the saying goes, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs Maybe your family's affairs are only clear to yourself You will handle it well Come on I hope to adopt.

Listen to your mom. The big picture counts. If it doesn't work. Talk to your dad. Shrewd. Don't bother! ps: If you haven't divorced, your dad has the right to know.

I said that some things should be left with it, such as the day is going to rain, and the mother is going to get married.

Pretend you don't know, or tell your dad.

Which man did you take the initiative to chat with?

Your dad doesn't care much about your mom.

Maybe it's your mom who is empty in her emotional life.

Just talking.

Nothing.

Congratulations, you've got more godfathers!

Your mother is so shameless, she is so old and still doing this, shame! Which man should you scold half to death!

How to say it, it must be your father who ignored your mother, she will be like that, the Internet is just a platform, the way she chooses to vent is to find someone to talk to, you are still young, maybe you don't know much about this, maybe she has her own difficulties, your mother is an adult, she knows what to do, you don't have to worry too much, just take care of yourself, hehe.

There is no way, in fact, sometimes middle-aged people need more understanding and love, maybe the family doesn't give her enough love, try to be kind to her and talk to her more.

Don't interfere too much in the emotional world of adults, and believe that she has her own standards and rules. If you look back at it after thirty, you'll see that it's not a big deal.

Haha,How can you be like this、、Your mother is also a person、、You also have your own private space and friends、、If that's you,,She also deletes your friends、、How would you feel?? If you remember the Q number, go to the meeting, or apologize to your mother, say that you accidentally deleted it

What I want to ask is, did your dad and your mom divorce?

If not, you'd better stop it.

It's not the same if you're divorced.

You should communicate more with your mom, provided that you're a girl, and you learn how to communicate and communicate.

Let me start with a word.

Fortunately, I didn't get married.

You still have a choice.

In that case, you must be very cautious about this issue.

How to say it, this question is not big or small.

But it is enough to affect your married life.

Probably over time.

It's going to make things very serious.

Therefore, I personally recommend that you completely settle this matter before considering getting married.

There is more to this than one aspect.

It takes a lot of effort and of course a certain amount of time.

The first is, of course, to communicate with your boyfriend.

You have to let him know that you love him, so you love her mother too.

Let him know that you will be as filial to his mother as he is.

Then there is the matter of talking to him about the words between the two people.

Tell him this first so that he understands.

The second step was his mother.

You have to show your daughter's heart for her mother, treat her and be filial to her.

The elderly will feel it and will remember it.

After a while, I went to talk to his mother.

He should also communicate more with his mother in his daily life.

She needs someone to talk to her son, of course.

You talked to her a lot, you talked a lot.

Would she still ask her son anything.

She is curious about what you say, but she also cares about you and her son.

So the three of you work together.

It's going to get better.

Before all of this, you have to think about a question.

Do you love this man from the bottom of your heart?

Do you want to live with him for the rest of your life?

If yes, then you go for it.

If you have love in your heart, you can overcome anything.

If not. Then break up directly.

Think about it.

There are many good men, don't hang yourself from a tree.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult since ancient times. There is a big reason for the jealousy between women, the son is good to other women, of course the mother is unwilling, as a wife, he does not want the man to be good to other women. Although the nature of these two types of love is not the same.

But jealousy is the same. Women want to be alone.

Think about it, after marriage, you and your mother-in-law will have a lot of disputes. And you are a junior, you must let her. Your man listens to her mother so much, he will definitely help her mother, two people bully you, how can you live.

Besides, he, a man, has no opinion at all, can he still be called a man, and the reason why he is looking for a wife is not to put his love first, but to put his mother's meaning first, and he ......is speechless

And he doesn't play fake with you, tells lies, doesn't explain anything to you clearly, and is not sincere enough to you.

This kind of man can't do it... It's not mature at all... If you suffer after getting married, the key is that he doesn't know how to coordinate the relationship between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

It seems that there are a lot of such things, and your boyfriend's mother should care too much about this son, so she has a feeling that she doesn't know that it's inappropriate to say that it's inappropriate, and I'm afraid that my son will be snatched away by you. Well, I think you can be considerate. In fact, the main problem is that you should talk to your boyfriend about it, so that he understands that there is no need to let all the parents know about many words between husband and wife, which is good for their respective parents, and let him understand that he should coordinate the relationship between the two women and not be a microphone in the middle.

Just go and see your mother-in-law more and move her mother-in-law with your practical actions. Chat with her more and make her happy. It's nothing.

The old man is on his own, and sometimes he is very lonely, so he will gossip. After a long time, I will naturally like you, and I won't think about it so much.

You can try to communicate with your boyfriend, but if it doesn't, there's nothing you can do.

Maybe he's trying to motivate you, but I'm du

Feel this kind of zhi

The method is indeed inappropriate, because it is really difficult to do a good job in the professional education method, or to encourage others more, in some cases, some children can be able to make him work harder through some reactions, but in most cases it is better to encourage more energy to give him self-confidence, so you don't have to be too sad, it may be that your parents' education methods are a little problematic, not that you are not capable, you have to give yourself more hints that you are great, just listen to what others say, What's more, parents really want their children to get better and better, so your efforts are the best reward for them. If you think my answer is okay, give me an adoption, thank you.

You're such a kind child, but you wonder if you are taking pleasure in it, not if you are picking it up. Zhi is kidding, your mother is very different, other parents will think that their children are the best in the world, and no one is allowed to say that their children are not, loving mothers are more defeated, and finally raise their own children to bear children. Your mother, always hurting you, does she want to exercise your resistance to blows, psychological endurance, and will not collapse because of a few blows from others.

There is also the fact that you can't see your own shortcomings, others will see them, but not everyone will point them out. Your mother's education is relatively simple and rude, and it is directly damaged. This will not only not help you correct it in time, but will cause your rebellious mentality, and the gains outweigh the losses.

Therefore, in addition to correcting your own shortcomings, you must also actively communicate with your mother and have something to say.

As a left-behind child, my grandmother is also like this, and she uses that kind of sarcastic language to deal with all kinds of things.

Say. When I was a little younger, I was good, I was obedient, and I gradually grew up, and my backbone was very strong, and I did everything she wanted me to do. However, every time I went back, she always gave me a lot of pocket money.

The elders love the juniors, but maybe her parents, and even her elders, educate them like this, subtly, and the way she educates the juniors is the same. If you suggest, when she is sarcastic, you pretend to be in your ears, and when she is bored herself, she doesn't want to talk about you anymore. In short, I am like this, I hope that the way you get along with your mother will gradually change Well, as a left-behind child, my grandmother is also like this, and everything you encounter is said in that kind of sarcastic language.

When I was a little younger, I was okay, I was obedient, and I grew up, and my backbone was very strong, and I did everything she wanted me to do. However, every time I went back, she always gave me a lot of pocket money. The elders love the juniors, but maybe her parents, and even her elders, educate them like this, subtly, and the way she educates the juniors is the same.

If you suggest, when she is sarcastic, you pretend to be in your ears, and when she is bored herself, she doesn't want to talk about you anymore. Anyway, I'm like that, and I hope that the way you get along with your mom will gradually get better.

Well, for a certain period of time, it is understandable that parents want their son to become a Chan, and they often have unrealistic illusions.

Think, and this fantasy is difficult to realize due to the constraints of reality, and until she realizes this, she will keep babbling, hoping that you will work hard and succeed in the direction she has set for you.

What you have to do is not to argue with him, but to patiently say what he thinks and what he actually does, and when he slowly realizes his problems, he can naturally change, and the key point is that you know who doesn't want their children to get ahead.

Mom's copying always hurts me, what should I do if I am sarcastic? Some of them are still inconsistent with reality, I mentioned it to her and she didn't think so, but I'm really super super sad, first of all, you should reflect on yourself, because you generally don't have anything to say about you, you must do something wrong, and you will say you if you don't do it well, because their age and our age style and habits are completely different, if we don't do what they imagined, they will think that they are not doing well, so when you usually say you, you directly say that you know what to deal with.