It s time to meet my girlfriend s parents, and now I m nervous and excited! 20

Updated on society 2024-05-12
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't dress too trendy, just be smart and tidy.

    Be sweet-mouthed, speak honestly and sincerely, and don't talk nonsense about things you don't know or don't understand.

    Be proactive and proactive when doing things.

    People should take it easy, the more natural the better

    Discuss with your girlfriend in advance to see if her parents are particularly concerned about anything, so you can prepare in advance and ask her to help you say more good things.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give a big deep bow first when you meet, Auntie is good! Hello uncle! First glance is important. After that, just let it be.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Many parents don't like to listen to empty words, or express their determination and so on.

    Now that your girlfriend has chosen you, I believe you must have a lot of good points. Then show the most confident and authentic you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just do it! Deliberately show what is bad and show the real side.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The love for his girlfriend can be seen by his parents in their eyes. The main thing is to be nice to parents...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, the new son-in-law must be nervous and excited when he sees his mother for the first time, and he will be a little embarrassed, don't be afraid, you seek more from your girlfriend some of the other party's living habits, including eating habits, or hobbies, etc., it's okay, when the time comes, be enthusiastic about the elders, and let the old people feel that you are really general when doing things, so that his daughter can be happy when he entrusts you! Hahaha!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be generous, and don't forget to bring a gift!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do what you like, attack the heart!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be nervous, relax, listen more and talk less.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The most important thing is the problem of action, you must be generous, you can ask your girlfriend first, know yourself and know your opponent

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's natural that your girlfriend likes you for what you look like.

    Just ask your girlfriend more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, it is not difficult to say, you have to show love for your girlfriend, but you can't be pretentious. It's right to give each other's parents a sense that you entrust her to you, and sometimes it's okay to be machismo, after all, you're a man.

    Why do they trust their daughter to you? The important thing is to have confidence in your future, so it doesn't matter if you are a little more motivated and tactful, after all, what they need is someone who can mix in society, not a child.

    Careers never change... Also, say more about your vision for the future, and make appropriate promises to them, but don't be in space. Actually, I think that's enough.

    Hehe, also, ask your girlfriend when you go, bring something with you, the first image is very important, the first time you go to meet, you can't be shabby...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be polite and dress appropriately. Don't pretend to be cool (I guess you're too nervous to pretend to be), show that you are very reliable and love your girlfriend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1.Modest, sincere, natural, generous, appropriate and casual, diligent (do whatever you want, including washing vegetables, washing dishes and mopping the floor).

    2.Talk less, lest you make a mistake, greet the old man's body, praise the two elders appropriately, and talk about some family things.

    3.When asked about the two people, the maximum is to try as much as possible, not to engage in absolutes, only to their daughters must be absolute.

    4.If you smoke a cigarette and see his family or relatives, he will send it (both hands), in fact, cigarettes are also a good social prop, hehe.

    5.When his mother's dishes are eaten, he must praise them, saying that they are much better than those made in the restaurant, etc., don't exaggerate too much, this can increase your favorability, women definitely like sweet-mouthed babies, hahaha.

    Anyway, the first time I went to see it was very casual, but the attitude must be put first, and after eating and drinking with my girlfriend's parents, I let go a lot, and I am so virtuous, haha.

    Good luck to the main building.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's worth wondering if you're okay to lie to someone's little girl's house. . . It depends on whether your girlfriend has done a good job for you as a parent, calm down, and the gift should be thick and focused, it should be no problem.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In a word, don't be nervous about treating each other's parents as your own relatives. What do you do to your uncles and uncles, and what do you do to them?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Do you think that if you are nervous, it will be good for the thing itself? Not only will it not, but it may affect your overall level. Don't think too much about it, just be yourself. You must love her very much, come on.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You'll have to find out what your girlfriend's personality is.

    Do it all-round, some parents like honest children, then you talk less, look longer, hand a cigarette, pour water.

    Some parents like to be flexible and talk to their children, so you can pick up more good ones, and you still have to look at them.

    Anyway, as a man, you are too shy to meet your girlfriend's parents, and it is not necessarily feasible to say nothing quietly.

    It depends on the personality of your girlfriend's parents.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Requirement 1, your attitude must respect them but do not lose yourself, more content to ask for advice and less speech 2, talk and behave, to be generous, do not drag mud and water, voice to be loud, honest attitude, but also to always show respect for him and love for their daughter, enthusiasm, see that there is work around you, do not hesitate to do your best.

    3. It's better to discuss the gift with your girlfriend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Gentleman: Frank.

    Bold and careful. Stabilize yourself, stabilize your girlfriend, stabilize her parents.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Take it easy and be a little more natural.

    Prepare what you're going to chat about.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Simple and generous, mature and steady... Don't look panicked... In that case, how can other people's parents rest assured that their daughters will be handed over to you.

    You're going to their house ... Toast when eating, toast without drinking, drink, if there is nothing, when I didn't say.

    When you pay respect, stand up and say honorifics.

    Anyway, just show as much respect as you want, and ask your girlfriend to tell you other precautions, after all, he must know more about his parents' habits.

    What you shouldn't say, you remember.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's okay to be nervous, don't worry, after all, his parents are so old, what don't they understand?

    The more nervous you are, the more serious you are about it, about their daughter, and believe me, they understand that.

    The current situation is generally as long as it is not some feudal and mean certain rural families, they will generally follow the wishes of their children to choose their husbands, so their daughters have taken a fancy to you, they will definitely be psychologically inclined to get close to you, after all, you will be their half son in the future, the pillar of the family.

    This meeting with parents is generally to look at things in terms of character, as long as they are not hooligans in the market and do not understand etiquette, there will generally be no problems. After all, before you entered this house, your eight generations of ancestors were afraid that they would all get to the bottom of it. It's basically because I recognize you, so I let you come to the door.

    So don't be afraid, don't worry about going boldly, a man can still scare pee on this little thing??

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Talk less and listen more, be sincere, and answer all questions!

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