My child is in junior high school and has to live in dormitory, what should I do?

Updated on educate 2024-05-12
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The best way to communicate more is that you have to remember the tone of your speech, never use the tone of accusation or command, at this time the child's rebellious heart is very strong.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm telling you! Junior high school dormitory must be bad!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As long as the child is not very out of line, and the performance is better in all aspects, some children should respect him in life, take time to go to school to meet the teacher, and if they behave well, they will be fine, and talk to him often on weekends!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is enough to grasp the general direction, and there is no need to know everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I often go to school to see him. Contact the class teacher more and strengthen education. Have more contact with your child. Take advantage of holidays to spend more time with children, the problem is not as serious as others say hunger, is it a boy or a child?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Aunt. Why are you running here?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, most of our children want to communicate with their parents, but we seem to have something apart, I think if we want to communicate, we should be on an equal footing, and we should be asked to speak, don't blindly think that what we are doing is wrong, then maybe she will change the relationship with you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Leave her alone, love her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can use the weekend.

    You can play ** every night.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't live in school, and it's not good to come back after graduating from junior high school.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Other! We hate it most when parents contact the boss, it's so annoying!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A lot of intimate conversations with her! Very considerate.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is recommended that children start living in junior high school, so that they can exercise their abilities, and it will be of great help to adapt to the residential environment of high school and university in the future.

    First, the residence of junior high school students is conducive to improving students' ability to live independently.

    For a variety of reasons, many junior high school students choose to live on campus. Most of the students in many schools are rural children, because it is inconvenient to go to school, they can only choose to live in a bad school, which is convenient for them to study on the one hand, and can provide convenience for their lives on the other hand.

    After a period of living in the dormitory, the self-care ability of boarding students will be greatly improved. Many students do not have how to manage and plan their own lives when they are at home, and after living in school, these are things that need to be learned, and many parents will find that their children become diligent and sensible when they come home from school. The teacher suggests that parents and students can send their children to live in school if conditions permit.

    Second, junior high school students living on campus can better exercise students' ability to communicate with others and improve students' enthusiasm for learning together.

    Living on campus can increase communication between classmates, and classmates will have a better relationship. Students who do not live on campus usually spend time only between classes or after school, which has limitations on the establishment and development of friendships between classmates. If there will be more time and opportunities for students to communicate with each other, communication with classmates will help improve students' ability to interact with others and deal with others.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I would recommend not living on campus.

    Students who are about to enter junior high school should have already started military training, and they should be more excited about the new school and new environment at this time, so they will be more excited than adults. Many parents are a little confused at this time, whether to arrange for their children to live in school at this age.

    I believe that there are not a few parents who have such thoughts, and for these parents, there are three considerations:

    1.Children are about to enter puberty, and there will be fewer and fewer topics around their parents, and with the upgrading of their studies, the content that parents can tutor is gradually decreasing. It is necessary to let him have a little bit of his own independence, lay a good foundation for studying or working in the future, so that he can better adapt to independent life.

    So simply arranging for him to live on campus and be with other classmates to have more topics may play a role in promoting.

    2.Nowadays, many schools will have such a policy: in the first and second years of junior high school, students who live in the school will have evening self-study in the evening, in fact, the class teacher or classroom teacher will take the homework to do it, and those who do not live in the school will not have evening self-study.

    In this way, parents will think in their hearts that not only can someone watch the homework, but also have a more professional and responsible teacher to tutor, which is more reassuring and can save the cost of tutoring classes.

    3.The third point is the selfishness of the parents, the child is really disobedient, noisy, and refuses to write homework at home, watching TV and playing with mobile phones for a while, going to the toilet and eating for a while, simply let him live in school, out of sight and out of mind, just free up time to do other things or take care of the two treasures at home.

    First of all, children at this stage have not yet fully formed a sense of competition in their studies, and suddenly there is no parental supervision and discipline, which will make him more lax and unscrupulous. Secondly, we should work more actively and hard to let children develop good study habits at this stage, if you still do not develop good study habits and learning attitudes in junior high school, then it will be really late in high school. Finally, on the issue of independence development, I believe that as long as it is not a pampered and doted child in the family, this is an ability that will be possessed as you grow older, and it does not need to be cultivated in a specific way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, friend.

    Should children in junior high school be allowed to live on campus? I personally think it should depend on the situation, if the child is very close to home, there is no need to go to live in school, because it is close to the school, it is also very convenient, parents can also understand the child's situation, if it is too far from home, it is more convenient for the child to live in the school, and it will not delay the child's time to study, now after junior high school, you have to study at night at night, and it is not convenient to be too far away from home, you can choose to live in school.

    Many parents are confused and confused in the matter of living in junior high school, and many times they don't know how to decide, and for this matter, I personally think that they should make the final choice based on the reality of their children and the reality of their families.

    First of all, when your child is in junior high school, the school is far away from your home, and you need to pass for a long time every day, so in this case, I think you should let your child live in school, because the learning task of junior high school is already more heavy, if you spend too much precious time on going to school every day, then it will affect the child's learning state, rather than letting your child spend a long time every day, commuting back and forth between home and school, it is better to let your child choose to live in school directly, It is more practical to save the time of commuting every day and use it for studying, or to balance this time for children to rest and relax, than to let children commute home every day and drive on the road. However, if the junior high school that the child attends is relatively close to his home, then in this case, I personally think that there is no need to let my child live in the school, although living in the school can make the child quickly adapt to the group life, and can cultivate the child's self-care ability and independent living ability.

    But compared to the cultivation of these abilities, it is more important to let the child ensure as much as possible in the junior high school stage, to achieve a better grade, if you want to really cultivate and exercise the child's ability, then wait until the child, high school or high school graduation, college is not too late, as a parent, at this stage should not put the cart before the horse, usually use some vacation time, let the child do some housework within his ability, but also can play a role in cultivating the child's self-care ability.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can choose to live on campus, which needs to be decided according to the actual situation of the student. Residential schools can provide a better learning environment and living conditions, which is conducive to cultivating students' self-reliance and social skills, and enabling students to concentrate more on their studies. However, there are also some disadvantages of living on campus, such as leaving home too early may affect family relationships and parent-child communication, and may also lead to the deterioration of students' ability to live and take care of themselves.

    Therefore, students, parents and schools should consult and consider together and make a choice after considering a combination of factors to ensure that students can obtain the best learning and growth environment.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Should your child live in junior high school? It should depend on the situation, if the child is very close to home, there is no need to go to live in school, because it is close to the school, it is also very convenient, parents can also understand the situation of the child, if it is too far from home, it is more convenient for the child to live in the school, and it will not delay the child's time to study.

    Many parents are confused and confused in the matter of living in junior high school, and many times they don't know how to decide, and for this matter, I personally think that they should make the final choice based on the reality of their children and the reality of their families.

    First of all, when your child is in junior high school, the school is far away from your home, and you need to pass for a long time every day, so in this case, I think I should let my child live in the school, because the learning task of junior high school is already more heavy, if too much precious time is used on school travel every day, then it will affect the child's learning state, and let the child spend a long time every day, commuting back and forth between home and school, It is better to let the child choose to live in the school directly, save the time of commuting every day and use it for studying, or use this time for the child to rest and relax, which is more practical than letting the child commute home every day and drive on the road.

    However, if the junior high school that the child attends is relatively close to his home, then in this case, I personally think that there is no need to let my child live in the school, although living in the school can make the child quickly adapt to the group life, and can cultivate the child's self-care ability and independent living ability.

    But compared to the cultivation of these abilities, it is more important to let the child ensure as much as possible in the junior high school stage, to achieve a better grade, if you want to really cultivate and exercise the child's ability, then wait until the child, high school or high school graduation, college is not too late, as a parent, at this stage should not put the cart before the horse, usually use some vacation time, let the child do some housework within his ability, but also can play a role in cultivating the child's self-care ability.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If the child is very close to home, there is no need to go to live in school, because Sui Ruzheng is close to the school, it is also very convenient, parents can also understand the situation of the child, if it is too far from home, it is more convenient for the child to live in the school, and it will not delay the child's time to study. Many parents are confused and confused in the matter of living in junior high school, and many times they don't know how to decide, and for this matter, I personally think that they should make the final choice based on the reality of their children and the reality of their families. First of all, when your child is in junior high school, the school is far away from your home, and you need to pass for a long time every day, so in this case, I think you should still let your child live in school, because the learning task of junior high school is already relatively heavy, if too much precious regret time is used on school travel every day, then it will affect the child's learning state, rather than letting the child spend a long time every day, commuting between home and school, it is better to let the child choose to live in school directlyIt is more practical to save the time of commuting every day and use it for studying, or to spend this time on the child's rest and relaxation, than to let the child commute home every day and drive on the road.

    However, if the junior high school that the child attends is relatively close to his home, then in this case, I personally think that there is no need to let my child live in the school, although living in the school can make the child quickly adapt to the group life, and can cultivate the child's self-care ability and independent living ability. But compared to the cultivation of these abilities, in the junior high school stage to let the child as much as possible, to achieve a better results is more important, in order to really cultivate and exercise the child's oak these abilities, then wait until the child, high school or high school graduation, college is not too late, as a parent, at this stage should not put the cart before the horse, usually use some vacation time, let the child do some housework within his ability, but also can play a role in cultivating the child's self-care ability.

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