He said don t do that, okay? This affects his work very well

This is wishful thinking on your part, and the best way to do this like you is to find a boyfriend and end the unrequited love. You're wishful thinking.

Now that he said it, asking you not to do this again will affect his work status. It means that he is more annoyed now, and it is better to give him a little time.

Since he said this, it proves that it will really affect his work status, so don't bother him. Let him do his job seriously.

What this man means is that I hope you don't bother him all the time, because if you keep bothering him, he won't be able to work.

What he means is that you don't look good like this, it affects his work status, and she wants you to change.

He said don't do that, okay? This affects his work.

I think it's also normal, if two people have a good relationship, well, they will be very happy at work, if two people have a quarrel or something in a very bad working state.

Hopefully you can tweak it.

Don't disturb his work, there is a clear distinction between public and private.

He thinks that you are affecting his work, no matter what you do, it is better not to do it, not to affect his normal work.

It's just that you don't want to bother him, maybe he thinks you're annoying, so he says that.

The classification of your work status still doesn't seem to be complete. Or maybe it's a matter of angle.

If you work just to make money, you can't say that it's a good state, and if you say it's to survive, it's not a good state. In the end, it's not a state at all.

Positively, it may be that the job is upgraded to a career, and the work is done in order to make further progress and development, rather than simply raising wages and benefits. Some have been assistants for life. Although wages have risen, the content of the work has not changed much.

Some people get a lot of sales salaries every month, but they don't get a breakthrough in sales methods and are limited, and I think the work status of these people who make money is not positive.

If you want to have a positive state of work, then give yourself a clear goal, draw up a detailed plan according to this goal, and follow up on your progress and work progress. For example, how much do you want to raise your salary in a year, what position you want to do, or what performance you want to achieve in order to have such a high income?

For the sake of this position or this performance, what are the aspects that you are lacking and need to learn. Then go for it.

In fact, when the money is earned, you need a higher idea, that is, a sense of achievement, someone earns 100 million but he does not necessarily have a sense of achievement, and someone only has a small factory but he is very happy, because he feels that the development of this job is his achievement. Everyone's goals are different. Everyone's goals are different at different stages of life, and they want to learn more and make more money just after graduation.

If you have money, you may want a higher position. If you have a good position, you may want to enter a better company, and if you do a good company, you may want to start your own business. So you have to give yourself a plan and do it according to the plan.

Then, at different stages, revise the content of your plan according to the actual situation. Make it reasonable!

I don't know if I understand your question!

If you don't know how to work, the best way to start is to imitate. Find someone who has done this job and humbly ask for advice. Try to get this done as early as possible, and then bring the results out to ask for the opinions of others.

When you have a job, try to do your job as well as possible, and when you don't have a job, you should recharge your batteries for a more handy job. Always think about what I have done for the company, what I have done some time ago, whether I have made progress, what are my shortcomings, what should I do in the future, and what I want to become. Organize your thoughts and emotions often, and you may slowly understand.

You need to slowly experience and work your own. The unchanging truth is that people should have their own value when they live, and constantly appreciate themselves.

I can make the most of my eight hours of work every day without symptoms such as boredom, boredom, or irritability. There is such a full enthusiasm for going to work every day (don't just think about going to work. You also need to feel that you are fully competent for your job and face all aspects of work pressure.

People are not sunny every day, and they will feel depressed when they encounter bad things, and this emotion will even affect themselves for a long time, but if such emotions affect their work and even have a great impact, then individuals still have to get rid of the influence of this bad moodHow can you keep your bad mood from affecting your work?

First of all, psychologically, you have to do autosuggestion, implying that your personal emotions cannot be brought to work. Only with this understanding psychologically can you be better prepared to act. Tell yourself before you work, take a few deep breaths and the bad mood will drive away.

Second, you need to take specific actions so that your frustration doesn't interfere with your work. For example, for the high concentration of work, when you are engrossed in doing something, it is easy to forget the things around you, and it is easier to forget your emotions, and then the depressed mood will have less impact on you. Thirdly, you can think of something happy to avoid the distraction of frustrationAlthough it is only a means of escape, it is conducive to the recovery of your mood.

You may not feel that you are at fault in any way, but if you are found out by the leader or others, it will not be good for your career development. Sometimes it is necessary to "deal with impartiality" at work.

In life and work, we can't sleep and have negative emotions, we may become restless, we may want to lose our temper, or we simply want to walk away, then these are impossible for us to actually solve the negative emotions, so how do we face up to our negative emotions and not let it affect our work and life?

Most of today's young people, who have just entered the society, will have this problem. Work not with your brain, but with your emotions. The workplace is different from life, and sometimes it is necessary to be fine.

In life, we can be emotional at will. But at work, we have to say no to emotions! Work doesn't care if you're in a good mood at work today.

Whatever you've been through today, maybe you've been splashed with mud by a sprinkler truck in the morning, maybe you've had your wallet stolen on the bus, maybe you've just had a fight with a friend last night...Any way, but once you get into the working state, you have to let go of these bad emotions.

If you do things with a bad mood all the time, you won't do anything well. How many workers in the production line have made fatal mistakes in a momentary trance. How many workers who work outdoors have caused irreparable regret for a lifetime because of a momentary shock.

It's the same with any job. If you are not professional, you must be the one who gets hurt in the end.

When encountering anything, the first starting point is how to deal with it. Not what I should do with it. It's easy to say things and not people, but it's hard to do.

It is inevitable that we will not complain at work, feel that our colleagues are not cooperative enough, that our leaders are not supportive enough, that our customers are not good enough...Wait a minute. We can complain about these emotions to our friends, but we must not bring them to work. Because first of all, you have to make sure that you are a very reliable professional.

There will be many things in life, many unpleasant and unexpected things, and there will naturally be various emotions. When you are emotional, talk to your friends or record it to find a time to vent.

Everyone encounters some things every day, there are good and bad, when we encounter some bad things, it will always affect our mood, and if we bring this mood to work, then it will inevitably affect our work, so how important it is to have a good mood at work.

People will have some inertia, but this weakness must be overcome effectively in the work. Laziness can turn into procrastination, which affects not only individual work performance, but also team performance as a result. Laziness, procrastination, and inactivity will spread among colleagues, especially the lazy attitude of the old man in the office will affect the newcomers, one infects the other, and causes the entire working atmosphere to be lazy and inefficient.

Whether they are new or old, lazy and inefficient employees are easily eliminated by the organization.

Don't complain in the office, complaining is the most spreading, fast, widespread, and lethal negative energy in the office. Complaining about getting yourself and others into negative emotions, being negative and slacking off, having poor motivation, and being prone to mistakes at work. Bosses are most disgusted with such people, one person will infect a department, and one department will infect the whole company.

Sometimes, in order to maintain the stability of the company, the company may fire the complaining person.

Don't be suspicious in the office, when you see two colleagues chatting, you will wonder if they are talking bad about you again, when you are not satisfied with the year-end bonus, do you suspect that other people are sending more than you, when a colleague goes to the leadership office, do you suspect that he is beating someone else's small report? If a person's suspicion is heavy, then he is like a neurotic in the eyes of others, making others annoying and losing a lot of friends, and can also create an unreliable impression on the leader, so I believe that the opportunity to be reused will be difficult to fall on you, so it is also urgent to discard suspicion. Pay attention to your own work, don't always stare at those meaningless things or people, try to think about the good things around you, think more about the advantages of others, try to be honest with others, and after a long time, you will find that other people's "hearts" are also open to the outside world, so that your very unbright suspicions will be self-defeating.

I believe that as long as we have a positive attitude towards work, enrich our knowledge and enrich our life, our bad mood will be reduced, and our life goal will gradually get closer!

This problem is very in line with my current work status, do not hide from everyone, recently I am in a bad mood as soon as I calm down, often anxious for no reason, the ability to control emotions has plummeted, even on the working day is easy to panic, affecting work efficiency, sometimes because of a trivial matter in life and annoyance, resulting in the whole work week is absent-minded, so repeated mistakes in the work, was called to the office by the leader to take a "political class"...

Yes, our lives are always full of more and more changes, it is possible to be lost, it is possible that we have just broken up with a friend, we may also have a quarrel because of two people, etc. In fact, I personally think that it is normal to have a bad working state once or twice once in a while, people are not sages, and we cannot completely control the rhythm of our emotions 100%, but if our bad mood often affects our work status, this is not very should. So, how do we adjust so that we don't bring bad emotions to work?

I think the most important thing is to adjust the mentality, yes, attitude is everything! When we are in a bad mood, we might as well look back and see that there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome, and calm our minds. Once for a little mistake in life, a person was depressed there, and once sat restless there for a word from the boss.

In fact, looking back, is it worth it? I boiled my gray hair out and my heart was haggard, but I didn't get anything, and the other party didn't give you any comfort or reward. The mentality is something you can control, look at it, want to open it, face the sea, and naturally bloom in spring.

To be honest, everyone has unhappy times, for example, when I find that I am hungry, I don't seem to like to talk, and I am in a bad mood, in this case, I will prepare some food at work, in case I am hungry, I will eat some, I am in a bad mood, I don't do well at work, and my attitude towards my colleagues will also deteriorate.

So we must try to avoid bad mood outside of work affecting work, if you are unhappy, you have to think, your unhappiness is in**. If something outside of work makes you unhappy and you vent it on your work, it doesn't mean that your work has become a victim. We need to distinguish the situation.

If you're having trouble with a colleague, talk to him as soon as possible. In fact, as a social animal, one of the basic things is that people can communicate.

When I used to work as a waiter, I would occasionally have conflicts with my supervisor, which was actually very unhappy, but my job is to face customers who come to eat, and it seems the most stupid thing for me to vent my bad feelings on my work. This is not in line with my professional qualities, but also makes guests have a negative opinion of our hotel. So no matter how hard I laughed, I still wanted to do a good job.

I think one of the signs of a person's growing maturity is to learn to control his bad emotions and try not to affect your life too much, so that it will have the least impact on you.