After being dumped after nine months together, what should I do if I am so sad? 10

Updated on parenting 2024-05-29
63 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What should I do if I am so sad to be dumped after 9 months together? What is the reason for the two of you, dumped, broken up, if it's because of a little thing, don't do this, you say that the long time is not long, the short time is not fighting, and it has been more than half a year, so why do you want to dump it? Did you do something?

    Or do you offend him? Or did something to make him sad and sad, so he dumped you, if so, then you apologize to him, you said I won't do this to you in the future, I will treat you well, can you forgive me once? You got rid of me, I'm really sad, I really want to reconcile with you, will you forgive me, I will cherish you well in the future, love you well, tolerate you, I want to protect you for the rest of my life, don't treat me like this, okay?

    I really love you, I like you very much, we used to be together, okay? I will make you happy and happy in the future, and live happily every day.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have been with him for so many months so sad, what to do, you have to open it yourself, you have to open it in your own heart, where is the end of the world, there is no grass, you yourself have to set up your own thoughts and concepts, you really love him, you can't stand him, you still Hanyang to communicate, watching you together, the two of you cause some misunderstandings, or there is some episode in between, because it seems that the communication and communication will be completed, because they are still together this year, don't let him sleep, because watching his thoughts is a little silly broadcast, so to speak, you want to communicate with him channel, got it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Thank you for your question!

    Between men and women, it is normal to break up. Although there are many reasons to break up, what makes people sad is nothing more than who is the subject of the breakup.

    The author believes that if two people are together, if they feel uncomfortable with each other, then breaking up may be the best result, which has little to do with time. A breakup can make people feel sad and uncomfortable for a short time, but after a long time, everything will be fine. There will be a new beginning in life, and there will be a new transformation in life.

    Instead of being sad, it is better to let go and enrich yourself. Thank you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No matter how long two people have been together, there is a possibility of breaking up, because emotional matters are not decided by one person, you are thinking about cherishing it, if others don't love you, you have no way to get it back, so adjust your mood well, next time you will meet someone who really loves you and is willing to cherish you, but the premise is that you have to let yourself out of the pain and strive to make yourself better and stronger so that others will cherish you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In love, anyone can encounter, the possibility of being abandoned by the other party in love, at this time sad and sad is also certain, then you should not be discouraged, this is actually an experience for you on the road of life. A good relationship is praised, but falling out of love is not born without love all of a sudden, I hope you can let go of this failed relationship, re-encourage yourself to stand up, come out of the shadows, and find a relationship that really belongs to you and is worthy of your love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no grass at the end of the world. Why hang yourself from a tree. And that person is not your lifelong happiness. So you will have a true love of your own. Don't be sad. Because that's a thing of the past. A better future awaits you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is a dashing departure your pattern? What's the big deal, isn't it just a broken love? It shows that he has no vision. Leave him and have a better lover waiting for you @ Life doesn't revolve around him, the old doesn't go and the new doesn't come, don't be sad? Start a new life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It'll get better slowly.

    Now, try to make your life regular and spend more time with positive friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then just forget about it, there are better ones waiting for you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's okay, you will always meet something more suitable for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After all, you and your boyfriend have nine months to spend together, and the only way to get out of it is to let time fade away. Or you quickly find a new boyfriend to take his place in your heart!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Many people say that love has an expiration date, and when the expiration date is up, it needs to be thrown away. If a girl loves very deeply, she is not willing to break up easily.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When people are on a journey, there are many people who are willing to accompany you on a journey, but there are very few people who can accompany you for a lifetime. If there is no longer trust between hearts, then what is the point of getting along; If there is suspicion between love, then why continue. Time, let the deep things get deeper and deeper, and let the shallow things get shallower and shallower.

    After a long time, the love faded and dispersed. Only by paying affection will you be really distressed; As long as we tolerate each other, there will be true feelings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    then I'll recite you out.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What are you crying about when you are dumped? Isn't that a good thing? At the very least, a clearly identified irresponsible person leaves you and avoids hidden dangers in the future, isn't it a great thing?

    You should be glad it is, what are you crying about? There are many good people in the world, shouldn't you be happy that someone who is not good to you leaves? It's a good thing he's gone from you now, otherwise wouldn't it be a disaster if you change your mind when you get married?

    Besides, isn't his departure just a chance for you to find a suitable person to stay? He can leave you now, which means that he is not yours in the end, leave early and get rid early, good people are waiting for you in front, don't cry, wipe your tears and go to see others, he really belongs to you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Everything goes with the flow, it's normal for you to be dumped. Of the boyfriends you're in contact with, you don't incorporate normal thoughts into your choices. There are many reasons for this, one is that you only look at appearance and money in dating.

    Second, it is possible that you only pursue pleasure and have a problematic point of view, and secondly, the boyfriend you have is just playing with you and does not take feelings as the same thing. These are all the main reasons to dump you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Cry if you want to, don't hold back, it's even sadder to hold back. Have a good cry, cry all your tears, cry whenever you want to cry, don't hold back. It's fine to cry a lot of times, but pay attention to your body and don't cry badly!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Even if you think about it again, it's okay, everything goes naturally, there must be a reason for separation, don't look for answers excessively, live every day, be your true self, not everyone lives for others, you are willing to pay, you are willing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    by a guy and then tired of being played, you're sad and sad if you don't want you? It's just that you didn't see clearly in the first place, whether he loved your person or your body! Giving it easily can only mean that it is not worth much!

    Playing with you and looking down on you, the more sad you are, the happier he is that he thinks you can't do without him, hurry up and find a replacement, just hurt a few more times, and be able to laugh at the rivers and lakes if you are numb.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then cry happily, and then cheer up, it's useless to be sad, accept the reality, there will be better people for you in the future, don't hold a tree and don't let him dump you, you don't rare him! That's right! The world is big, and there are people who are better than him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What is there to cry about, everyone has everyone's merits. There are so many people in the world, why care about this person!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't cry, time will heal everything, your sadness is only temporary, it's fine after a long time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's go out and have fun, I always think about him by myself, keep myself busy and don't think about all those bad things.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What's wrong? He dumps you! Is he an irresponsible scumbag.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    To make yourself strong, but also to improve your ability and charm, in the boyfriend years to maintain elegance and reserve, don't think that they are all together, just unreservedly expose some of their shortcomings and bad habits in front of their boyfriend, some shortcomings and bad habits need to be kept in front of the husband for a lifetime, only their own ability, charm can win the respect and cherishment of the boyfriend.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Thousands of people are dumped every day. There are also thousands of people who are in love. It will be fine in a few days.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then stay with me! I'll let you dump

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is no choice but to work hard to be excellent.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Fate came back, and there was no grass at the end of the world, didn't it?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everything you cherish will dissipate, and everything you don't care about will make you cherish it slowly. People who are in love tend to be dizzy and can't see clearly, so it's not bad to calm down and keep a little distance. After all, if you want to form a family and marriage, then you have to think about it.

    When there is time and passion, I love to die and live, and I can manage the future life and family well. Therefore, you don't have to worry about this, don't worry about it, just do your own thing.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The chance of success in online dating may be smaller than the probability of a small event, you must learn to cherish yourself and protect yourself, if you can't love yourself, how can others love you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No matter how you look at that man, it seems that he is specialized in mixing on the Internet, and it is estimated that you are not the only one who has been deceived, don't be too sad, just take an emotional lesson.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I'm the same experience as you, I'm so painful that I haven't slept yet, I happened before I left with him as a soldier, but he didn't hit a ** for more than ten days after he left, and he couldn't get in touch, and he dumped me from a few words on the Internet. So we know very well that this kind of person is too rubbish, it is not worth being sad, and don't say something demeaning about yourself, you have to be strong to live a good life, don't have anything to do with this kind of person, people have to go through it to mature. Let's work together, don't be stupid, a good life is the greatest revenge for him.

    Let him go to!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Forget about him and start living again. Love yourself more, work harder

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's not cheap, it's not clear about feelings, forget about it slowly, start a new life, think he'll only be sad!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Eat a trench and grow a wisdom, forget it, don't trust others easily in the future!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Hehe... This is very common now. Don't worry too much about it.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What to do?

    Put it down? Forget?

    If it were me, I would show him that I was better alive than he was.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Study hard, work hard, forget about the past, go out for a walk, chat with friends, drink to kill your sorrows, find a new one, start over, start from the heart.

    I wish you happiness ......

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    A woman of that power is not worthy of love

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's not a matter of money, everyone's first impression is very important, and if you use practical actions to prove it to your girlfriend's parents, you will be impressed one day.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If she loves you, no matter what her parents think of you, she won't break up with you, so there's no need to be sad for that woman, don't do it. Maybe there will be a better one in the future.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Now people are very realistic, and there is nothing to look for again.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You first go and tell her whether she loves you or not, if you love, go with her to get the parents, have faith, as long as it is true love, there is nothing that can't be crossed If she says she doesn't love you anymore, then you give up, bless her, and then get through the period of falling out of love, and work hard to go to work and life until you meet your real other half, come on, bless you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Of course, this is only short-lived, you have to believe that time is the best medicine to solve this kind of problem, and try to think about her as little as possible, or this thing, and find a new one.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's going to be sad at first, you can travel or go out with friends, find something to distract yourself from your experience, and you'll meet good girls.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Eun: I just hate you, what's wrong with having no money to buy a house?

    It's very realistic, you don't have money, people have money, of course, people want to live a happier and rich life

    What are you. So, people look down on you in their hearts, and you hurry up where to go.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Love one more and forget about this one

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Go out with friends more, don't stay alone, try to keep yourself busy, sadness is inevitable, trust the time!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Don't be sad to find another one

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Maybe the relationship has really changed. Or accept the realistic arrangement. Because there are too many feelings in this world**. That ** may be time, or maybe it is some reason. Don't give up the whole forest for the sake of a small tree. Good luck.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    is still strong, pretending that nothing happened, the world is so big, not afraid that no one wants it, she doesn't want you to be her loss.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Uh, it's going to pass, it's just time, this kind of scumbag, don't be sad, it's not worth it. Without him, you would have lived a wonderful life. I'm sure you'll soon find someone better than him, come on!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    In fact, it depends on the opening point, since we didn't get together in the end, maybe we didn't have that fate, in fact, it is said that it is so, but it is not easy for anyone to accept, after all, so many years of feelings, but life still has to live, don't you, go out and relax with friends, start a new life in a new state, come on!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Uh, it's going to pass, it's just time, this kind of scumbag, don't be sad, it's not worth it.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It can only be said that he is not the person you are destined to be, and I believe that you will meet someone better than him, so don't feel sad for someone who doesn't deserve it.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Ten years together... Why didn't I marry you.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    I rely on ten years how old you are.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    If you haven't been married for ten years, it's no wonder.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Unfortunately, I also wanted to ask how old you are.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Don't want such a man, leave him as soon as possible!

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    In 10 years, he can't just leave, unless you always have conflicts during the period, try to make amends.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    It's impossible to quickly forget about the distraction and emotion.

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