How did you see through a person thoroughly in college?

Among my college classmates, there was a girl who was very well-behaved and very considerate. She was very serious about the cleaning work that the school arranged for the class every day, and after mopping the floor, she dragged the mop along the corner of the wall and put it away. I always remember this detail, because a wet mop would leave a mark in the hallway, and there would be standing water.

She said that it is not so easy to leave standing water along the corners, otherwise someone walking by may accidentally slip and dirty the freshly mopped floor. A person who pays attention to details will think a lot, at least a person who thinks more thoughtfully. Although it is already an old-fashioned story to judge the character by the details of a paper ball when applying, the character of a polite and cultivated person is revealed in the details.

The topic of dormitory conflict is a knot that can not be avoided in any college life, and you must understand one thing about the dormitory relationship, and some roommates are inherently incompatible, and some people can only be roommates and cannot be friends. You have to be clear that you come from different places, your living habits and values are different, and the educational concepts you have received since childhood are also different, so don't force others to be the same as you, and don't look down on anything at every turn, as long as the other party doesn't invade your privacy, don't worry too much about everything, and look at everything to the point.

Many times some small actions can see a person, to see whether a man has grace, in fact, it is very easy. What kind of people attract what kind of people, and what kind of people his friends are, he is also the same kind of people. Just imagine, a person who behaves frivolously and does not respect women.

In fact, it can be seen through some small actions. I think I am very chic, but in fact, in the eyes of our girls, it is a mess. Thinking that it is the fun of catching the clouds and the moon is indeed stupid in our opinion.

In fact, in the open classes offered by many universities, because there are many people who take the courses, the classrooms are very large, the desks and chairs are connected together, and the students in the front and back rows feel that the desks are shaking when they move a little. When it comes to this kind of class, everyone is reluctant to sit next to someone who loves to shake their legs. Whether it's writing homework, taking notes is difficult.

The table shook so much that no one could think of writing on a stable table in such a situation. I can't understand why those who step on the sewing machine can't stop, everyone knows that the tables and chairs are connected together, and it can be said that there is a person who keeps shaking his legs, and a domino effect can be produced in minutes. This is a behavior that many people don't like, not to mention that you can't control yourself and can't shake your legs, but in terms of politeness, you should pay attention to it in public.

If a person is a boy, then I will pay more attention to his gentlemanly demeanor, and all kinds of details of his conversation will be something I value. For example, when I was walking with my boyfriend, he always ignored my feelings and ran to the front by himself, and he wouldn't let me take him by himself. I feel like that's what I don't like the most, many times, and I've seen through him from that.

Detail conversation is the impression that a person has the most direct contact with others. Because every gesture reveals a person's character and upbringing, and the way of speaking and the words used reflect a person's cultivation. Or you can't say that you can see a person's character cultivation so directly, but at least you can see whether he is a polite person or not, and everyone can feel it very directly in the relationship.

I think eating is the best way to see a person's cultivation from the details, and anything will happen at the dinner table. And eating is a thing that should be very good, I am with a person, if he only cares about himself eating alone during the meal, other people don't care about it at all. I will even put all the dishes into my own bowl, and all kinds of bad habits will greatly reduce my impression of a person.