Is this state of life right? Should I continue? What do his parents mean?

Girl, have you ever heard of the "Seven Year Itch"? I hope your problem at this time is not the negative side of the seven-year itch. But I still want to remind you to calm down.

If your son likes his girlfriend for five years, there is no reason not to like it as a parent, you can rest assured. Maybe because of regional differences and dialect barriers, his parents communicate with you too little, hoping that you understand. What's more, the father-in-law rarely talks to his daughter-in-law in the marriage family.

Next, you should communicate with your parents, bring your boyfriend home once, remember the first time you come to the door, remind him to bring some small gifts, and don't leave empty-handed. After all, it's a matter of two families that you're going to get married, so both parents have the right to know who you're dating with, what work, and so on. When you spend the moon before the moon, remember to probe his tone, is the love for you still the same?

Have you ever thought about when to start your own little home?

The first time I came up with the question of netizens, hehe is still to complete the task. I hope you're still satisfied. We can communicate more in the future, after all, I am from here.

Although I have a family, because my husband and I are in the same place, his parents have known me for a long time, so I am lucky and save a lot of trouble. Hehe. There are still differences in different places, but now the parents are much better, and they won't do too much with their sons.

But you just don't understand the language, the number of times you meet is limited, it will be good to communicate more in the future, you must communicate more, now you have met twice, you can't talk about whether you like it or not, as long as you think you have done what you should do, they will like it. Desserts will help you in the future. Wishing you happiness!

This is normal, mainly because you haven't entered their circle yet, and his parents will slowly change if you go a few more times, your boyfriend should not be ready, and I myself am like this, the family has introduced a lot of girlfriends to the suitable, not that I am demanding, but I don't know what to look for, that is, I am not ready to find a girlfriend; I guess your boyfriend should be like that too.

I remember the saying: Love is endurance. After getting married, two people get along day and night, and there must be many shortcomings that you didn't find before, and maybe in his eyes, you are the same.

We are originally a rough stone, with edges and corners, and only in real life can we better fit together by constantly colliding and rubbing each other and smoothing each other. He is not motivated, maybe he is content with his little days with you; He doesn't help with housework, maybe because you're usually too diligent and take care of everything; Every man, subconsciously, wants his wife to be virtuous and capable, and it is clear that he enjoys this kind of you and his current life.

What you are experiencing now is the true face of marriage, and it has nothing to do with your distant marriage. Judging by your description, your life is far from being unpassable. You will quarrel, this is a compulsory lesson between husband and wife, the so-called respect for each other is pure nonsense; The in-laws also treat you well, and you have a relatively solid family background; It's a life that a lot of women dream of, and you want to get out of it.

According to your husband's current conditions, even with children after divorce, it will be easy to find another woman. You are different, as you said, the possibility of you wanting to get custody of your children after divorce is almost zero, even if you get it, a divorced woman drags a child, let alone remarry, just the future life is enough for you. Also, no matter who the child is with after divorce, it is an incomplete home for him, and the lack of love and the impact of personality are far beyond the estimation of adults.

You have a job and a good income. So you should be a working woman and not a housewife who is at home with children every day. Can you imagine how they feel?

Isn't feeding, bathing, and washing clothes for a child what a "mother" should do? I believe that most of the time it is your in-laws who help you take care of the children, and all you do is fulfill your mother's obligations, if you don't even do this, you will definitely not enjoy the sweetness and happiness when the elf at home calls you mother. Of course, these things are not to be done by a woman, if you feel tired, you can communicate with him, for example:

I really don't have the strength to move, can you help me wash the clothes? I don't believe that if you communicate with him in a soft tone, he won't do anything like throwing clothes in the washing machine.

There is no problem with your life now, the problem is yourself. You said at the beginning that you wouldn't marry your husband if it weren't for being pregnant out of wedlock. reluctantly got married, and married life shattered your original beautiful yearning.

That's the crux of your life. Believe me, divorce will never bring you the life you want, and once you do, it will be difficult to recover, even if you regret that your husband accepted you again, the rift between husband and wife cannot be repaired.

One question made me type so many words, for a woman I didn't know and didn't know what to do in the midst of blessings, I was really a dog.

Men are very afraid of trouble, he doesn't tell his parents because he is afraid of his parents' reprimand and complaining...

But if you are divorced, you should make it clear, paper can't hold the fire, the sooner you know, the sooner you don't have a heartwarming thing, you can discuss it with your ex-husband and tell the old man.

Even if they are divorced, their parents still have to call, it's nothing, there's no need to be awkward, after all, they are still the grandparents of the children! Be kind to the elderly, you can't break off with your children, and you can't break off with your grandparents, so you still have to treat them as relatives.

It's hard to go back once, so let's buy something, I can save the following, and I want the old man to be happy.

Finally, you must work hard, enrich yourself, change your fate, and don't let the days go on so tightly!

Good luck! Wishing you happiness!

After the divorce, you are not legally husband and wife, but it is impossible for the children to be separated, right? To his parents, I think you should find a time to explain to them, and you can't not tell them about such a big thing. As for how to treat them after the explanation, I think we should be friends, right?

In addition to the divorce that dissolves the legal relationship between your husband and wife, don't let anyone else be too "absolute", right? You tell me?

Want. She has to go and explain it to her parents, tell them the truth, and then find a job for herself, and she can't go back to her parents to get money. I also have children, and I find a job to honor my parents. Believe that you are not a useless person.

Let's say it clearly, don't have any scruples. Men are so hypocritical. It's useless to save face for them. And he wants living expenses, what he wants, what he wants. Then do a good job yourself. Have a good time. Wishing you happiness!

Before you go back, talk to your ex-husband to see what he thinks, as for whether to call your mother or you to decide after you hook up, you must want to buy something, how much is a little thought, at least be a friend to his parents, no matter what, they take care of your children and respect them.

How much is something worth? It's time to send the child. After all, it's not easy for two old people to look at a child at such an old age. Be a little more generous.

Paper can't contain the fire, so go back and tell his parents this time.

There are also friends on the 2nd floor, what is called a man is hypocritical, you may meet such a man yourself, there are still good men in this world.

It's normal to say a good thing.

Since you have chosen to marry her, you must do the responsibility that a man should have, and don't regret your choice.

Life is two-fold, and from what you said, in fact, it can be seen that your wife is not stupid, you can think about it from another angle, she is quite responsible, and it can also be seen that she is very obedient to you, and it is the responsibility of a man It does not mean that you have to make a lot of money, give them a lot of good life, and in such a situation, you should always accompany your wife.

When you accompany her, open your heart, talk more about your heart, tell her what you think, she will slowly understand, don't think that everything is boring by herself, as your wife, she should understand that you are not making movies or TV series, that is impossible.

Now many young people like to be whimsical, talk more, the heart is a great help to both parties, in short, I hope you and your wife can have a new understanding, live a good life, fight very tired, prohibit plagiarism!

It seems that she must have just given birth to a baby, right?

Women who have experienced pregnancy, childbirth, and confinement will be vulnerable. Not only physically, but also mentally, mentally. Please love her and care for her. Spoil her. Hurt her.

As long as you think about it and don't want to get divorced, it's okay. Don't complain.

It's normal not to work, the body is too weak.

In addition: Many people will have postpartum depression and a bad temper. It's normal.

Don't keep complaining about her.

Try to change it yourself, you think she is 250 and a robot in your heart, then you already look down on her in your heart, you already look down on her, how can you still be good to her?

A woman's feelings are very spiritual, what do you do to her, she knows, but she doesn't say it, have you ever thought about what she thinks in her heart? Maybe when she does say it, you will feel that you are wrong.

In addition, I would like to add that the most loved child in the world is definitely his mother, please don't say that she doesn't feel sorry for the child, taken out of context.

Hearing you say this, you know that the two of you are not suitable at all, divorce, there is only a painful life, this is that you are too hasty to get married in advance, you don't understand, and it is better to cut the mess quickly than to live a painful life.

Blame yourself for this, why do you have a child with her if you don't love you??

Where did you think your own mind went?? You don't care about anything for a while, right?

Now that this is the case, then as a father, you should still take your responsibility, no matter what, the child is innocent, and give the child a complete family.

According to you, she is almost responsible, but you can do it yourself to show her, and take her with you, and it will be okay slowly. People need to learn.

Didn't think about how to be together? Didn't think about why you want to get married? Try to change yourself first and see the results before you talk brother!

I don't like why I want to provoke others, it's really karma.

It's a bit of a hassle, and I think only you know what to do and trust your choice. I wish you all the best!

Hello landlord:

What you should do now is to work hard, not to be complacent and complacent, since you know the situation of your family, in the future, no matter what you encounter, you should solve it with your own ideas, instead of complaining about your family and your life experience!!

What's wrong with the extremely poor households, can't you work hard to change the status quo? Nothing is fat, people's pursuit can not be unrealistic, even if there is someone you like, you know the gap between yourself and her, why not take out your confidence to pursue it???

Now the society should not always complain about anything, because complaining can't solve any problems, and the real society still needs us to work hard by ourselves!!

Set yourself a goal and think of ways to achieve it!!

Self-improvement is the last word, and it is useless to say anything else!!

You yourself are a treasure.

People, who are born after death, are 26 years old, still young, and already have such a rich experience in the past, which is rare.

How can a money-worshipping society pollute you!? Parents have their parents' business, and we can't choose it.

When I bought a house, I had to give money to my family. You have your own business. Who is not difficult?

When you envy others, others envy you.

I want to open my own small shop, but I don't have the courage and experience, I can't start it, so why talk about hard work!?

Brother, you are a beggar with a golden bowl, and what you are poor is not money, but consciousness, self-esteem.

Don't think about getting married first, marriage is not the only thing in life, and you don't necessarily have to be in your 20s to get married.

The focus of life is on one's own career, preparing for the worst, and doing the best effort.

Even if you don't get married, what can you do?

If you don't have money, don't compare yourself with those who have money, because you're making it difficult for yourself.

You should first settle down and exert your perseverance to endure hardships and stand hard work.

Cervantes once said: "Thought determines action, action determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines destiny".

This requires you to have a "clear and feasible goal, perseverance and perseverance, an optimistic and sunny character, and harmonious social relationships".

Secondly, we should also develop the habit of doing everything well, and pay attention to the three conditions of doing things: that is, pay attention to "time, place, and people", and try to develop our own career in the direction of success, so that we can get rich as soon as possible.

1. Time - that is, whether the time is ripe to solve things, which needs to be observed and waited, don't be in a hurry, can't get married, don't complain about your parents. Zhuge Liang is like "If the east wind doesn't come, the grass boat can't borrow arrows."

2. Geographical advantage - is the environment, is to support the solution of things, or the resistance is great, the conditions are unfavorable, like a talent, the boss blocks your way, and there is a bad you at the same time, for such an environment, only change, jump ship and walk, analyze your business, distinguish the pros and cons, do not change jobs, do not hang on a tree.

3. People - for individuals, it is their own internal talent, whether they are competent to solve things, then you need to strengthen your learning, improve your ability, try to use your friends and other social relationships to help yourself develop, and even if you are now the boss's girlfriend at home, don't necessarily get married, even if you go to the door to learn to do business, it is okay to be modest.

You generally pay attention to these three aspects, that is, you have developed a good habit of thinking and action, even if your economic conditions are not good, but you have more opportunities for success, failure is away from you, your ability to adapt to society will be formed, and your confidence in life will naturally increase.

Your destiny is in your own hands, and your marriage is also in your own hands.