If your boyfriend is poor, will you have a claim for a bride price?

This kind of question should be asked to the mother-in-law.

Yes, I didn't go out to borrow, I can't post it upside down, mainly to see how much capacity your family has, one day in the future, there will be no money to wait for death, can't you borrow it?

No, and will not choose him.

within the scope of the man's affordability. But the premise is that this man must be responsible and self-motivated.

The bride price doesn't matter, let's look at the reason for poverty first

No, because it won't be with him.

No requirements, no house, no car, let him marry me directly.

I won't, but my family probably will, and I'll try to give myself a wedding that I'm happy with.

I wouldn't marry my daughter to a very poor man! You don't have to be rich, but you can't have no money, I will give my daughter a dowry, so I started teaching her since I was a child, I can't make friends with children who don't have money! Because there is no money in this society now, it means that parents are not motivated and do not want to make progress, and this kind of person has no way to give their children happiness!

All of them are better than they are sung, but I like them.

Of course, the feminist must know that the man is poor, and he is too ugly, and he also forced the man's parents to lend money to the bride price. The most important point is that the man's parents are also!

There will still be a little. Because I think no matter how poor he is, you still need a bride price. After all, the bride price is also a kind of face for a girl.

I will ask for it, but I will ask for the bride price according to the situation of their family, it is impossible not to have a copy, or I will post it upside down.

Yes. Breaking up a pair is a pair.

Accept the curse of the single dog.

You: I want to get married.

No! You don't want to.

I don't have any special requirements for the bride price, but I try to have it as much as possible, and I can't make the steps of the wedding minimalist because he is poor.

It depends on how much we love each other, and how well we know each other, if he is a very hard-working and considerate and loving person, I think I will ask less.

No, when we are together, we know that the families of all parties are average, why do we still have requirements for the bride price, we can fight together for money.

No, because my parents don't care about the bride price, they just want me to be well, as long as my parents don't mind me.

Yes, because only things that are not easy to get will be cherished more, and my parents have raised me for so many years, so they will be worried if they marry like this.

There will be a request for a bride price, but not too much, and he will understand his family. It's not like there's a saying, either you're given a rich enough environment, or you have a heart that loves you.

I don't ask for the amount of the bride price, but the bride price is a must, not too much, and will be within the scope of his manager.

Don't ask for less bride money, because after asking for less bride price, your boyfriend's parents may or may think that you are very talkative, and he may or may not be bullied for his married life, which is very unfortunate for your future career, and he may or may feel sorry for you.

Don't ask for less bride money, because after you ask for less bride price, your boyfriend's parents may think that you are very talkative, resulting in them may bully you in married life, which is very detrimental to your future life, you feel sorry for them, they may not feel sorry for you.

At this time, you must think clearly, because your parents raised you, not to let you suffer in the other party's family, the other party's home and ball, if he really loves you, he will do his best to give you the best so in this process, you must see your boyfriend's attitude clearly.

Yes. In this way, it will appear that you are very generous, it will make the other party respect you very much, and your relationship will become better.

If you have some unhappiness with your boyfriend because of the bride price, you can express your thoughts at this time, and you don't need to break up with this man right away. Many people will encounter this situation, but girls must also be reserved, because your parents also want you to live a better life.

What should I do at this time?

Everyone's situation is also different, if the other party doesn't have any money, you can still choose to be with this man at this time, because the two of you also love each other, so you don't need to give up this boy right away, but the economic foundation is also a very best thing, if the two of you don't talk well, then you can tell each other's parents what you think. Therefore, you must choose carefully, and at this time you can also tell the other party about your situation, if the other party can accept it, the two of you can discuss it together at this time.

What kind of issues should I pay attention to?

In fact, this is also a problem that many girls will encounter in life, but there is really no need to be overly anxious, because this man may also love you very much, if this man really loves you very much, then this boy must need to give the bride price, and he must also provide you with a better life. Having a house is a very important thing, if a man can't even afford a house, then you may also encounter a lot of troubles after getting married, and it will be especially difficult to have children.

Summary. Therefore, girls must keep their eyes open, and they must have the correct concept of love. If you like this person very much, then you can express your liking, and at this time you can also make relevant preparations in advance, so there is no need for everyone to feel so anxious, and you should also tell your boyfriend what you think at this time, so there is no need for everyone to hide it.

Your boyfriend's family is poor, that's the matter of the two of you, the two of you can discuss to solve this matter, don't make trouble because of the bride price, if your boyfriend's family really doesn't have so much money to give your family a bride price, then you can talk to your parents about this marriage, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, you can't stop getting married because your boyfriend's family is poor, it's impossible.

It depends on the relationship between the two of you, if the bride price is given to the family, you also plan to go long-term, so you can only borrow money to get married first. If you don't have that deep feelings, forget it. Substitution.

The person you marry should like you, have the ability, and have a good character.

Such a person, even if I can't give a bride price, I will have a good future.

Without these qualities, even if you have money now, you won't have a good future.

If you are a single parent and have no ability to earn money, you can consider not a bride price, fate is not determined by money, so it depends on your inner feelings.

In people's traditional culture, marriage generally requires a bride price, and it is believed that there are such customs in most places in the country, but the bride price is higher in some places, and the bride price is lower in some places, and it will vary from person to person. If my boyfriend's family is poor, should I ask him for a bride price?

1. Of course, the bride price is required, so that it will not be despised by the in-laws.

The so-called bride price refers to a kind of gift or dowry from the man to the woman when two people get married, and the amount of the gift money is also different, which is determined according to their actual situation. Everyone's family conditions are different, although the man's family conditions are poor, but the bride price still has to have, this is a custom after all, and if there is no bride price, the woman has a feeling of being despised, and even in later life, the in-laws will have a contemptuous attitude towards the woman. Therefore, the bride price can be small, but it cannot be without.

2. The amount of the bride price can be negotiated according to the boyfriend's family conditions.

Although when getting married, the man needs to pay a certain bride price, but the amount is not specified, if two people are true love, then you can decide how much bride price is more appropriate according to the actual economic conditions of the other party. If the other party's family conditions are better, you can pay a little more, otherwise you can give less. In fact, the relationship between two people will not be affected at all because of the amount of bride price.

3. The bride price can be used in your own small family to reduce the burden on your boyfriend.

Although this gift money is for the woman, after marriage, if the relationship between the two people is very harmonious, the money can also be used to subsidize the family, which can also reduce the financial pressure in the lives of the two people. The bride price is a kind of etiquette in a sense, and the amount is not necessarily large. Moreover, the so-called sky-high bride price is not advocated now, which will not only increase the man's financial burden, but also easily cause a wind of comparison.

I don't think you should ask him for a bride price, if his family is relatively poor, you ask him for a bride price, he can only borrow it everywhere, and in the end this cost has to be borne by the two of you, so I don't think there is any need for this.

I don't think so, because if you ask him for a bride price, he will be in debt, and you will have a bad time in the future.

Should. If the other party's family conditions are very poor, you can ask less, and try not to be too large.

This is a true story, a colleague from the countryside, but because of the reason for going out to work, I met her husband, this gentleman's family economic conditions are much better than their family, when we first talked about marriage, my colleague said according to local customs to ask for 80,000 bride price, but his husband's mother-in-law began to cry poor, saying that she had just bought a new house for you, and it had just been renovated, and there was really no money to give a bride price.

At that time, my colleague was also a little girl who slapped me, I couldn't listen to the complaint, and I thought that I would be a family in the future, and I couldn't be too embarrassed. If a neighbor hadn't told her these words, she wouldn't have known, and she was so angry that she regretted it so much that she wanted to slap herself.

In fact, when you want a bride price, it's best to stick to your own point of view, just because of these points:

The bride price is just in case

For the sake of parents' face

This is not anything else, if your local custom is generally a bride price of 80,000 yuan, then it is okay on this average level, but if your bride price is 2 or 30,000 yuan lower than others, then there happens to be someone whose bride price is 100,000 yuan, and your parents' face is also unbearable, and those people will spread it everywhere, saying that you are not married well, and your parents are a money-loser when they give birth to you, think about it, how do your parents feel after hearing it, they also want to save face.

In case of in-laws

If you marry a good family and really treat you as a family, then you can ask for a little less bride price considering the other party's economic level, but if you marry and find that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to deal with, or your husband is a mother-in-law man, at that time you will have endless anger and unbearable losses, so for your own good, you can have a little bit of your own bride price money, at least you can suffer a little less. Therefore, when the bride price, the girls must not be soft-hearted, otherwise it is themselves who will be hurt.

You can't reduce the amount of the bride price, and if you think the bride price is too expensive, it proves that your boyfriend's family is not in a good financial situation, and the bride price is not only a matter of money, but also their family's attitude towards you. The bride price is the same, other people's daughters-in-law are not too expensive, why is your boyfriend an exception, such a boy does not marry, I believe you can find a better one.

The boyfriend feels that the bride price is too expensive, which can be communicated according to the boyfriend's family situation, since it is a marriage, even if you lend money to the bride price, it makes no sense for the husband and wife to repay the money together.

If your boyfriend really can't accept the bride price, and his family is more difficult, it should indeed be lowered.

It depends. First of all, figure out whether this bride price is the amount that your family has calculated after weighing the strength of your boyfriend and the other party's family, or is it just for the sake of looking good on the other side and the amount that the other party can't afford? Secondly, your family will dispose of the bride price, plus the dowry, give it all to you, take part of it or even take it all.

If it is an unreasonable request and only thinks about "selling daughters", then it is not undesirable to reduce the price; But without these reasons, there is no need.

Make a decision based on the financial strength of your boyfriend's family. A large part of the bride price reflects the man's attitude towards the woman, and if the man's family economic strength far exceeds the gift money, then don't drop it.

1. First of all, in this case, we must first look at the actual situation. If the boyfriend and his family situation are really not very good, then we should not worry too much, because he has no way to choose the family environment. However, the family environment cannot be chosen, and your ability can be improved diligently, if your boyfriend does not work for a long time and really can't get the bride price, then you can be considerate.

If you've been working for many years, don't settle for anything.

2. The bride price is not particularly important, but on the one hand, it is also a way to show whether the man's family and the man himself attach importance to the woman. Therefore, after marriage, we can use these bride prices for the family life of both parties, but not giving it is a lack of attention to the woman.

3. If the man's parents don't want to give the bride price, and the boyfriend is more difficult, then don't embarrass the boyfriend, the two of you like each other together, and the future life is yours, don't care about others.

4. In addition, the problem of the bride price is that it is better for both parents to discuss, in order to avoid affecting the relationship between you and the future man's parents, as well as the feelings between the two of you, finally discuss with your parents, and then let the parents talk to the man's parents.

5. If two people have been together for many years, or have a deep relationship, then everyone can choose not to care, but if not, then you still have to fight for it.

In addition to the judicial interpretation of the Supreme Court, the restrictive provisions on the return of the bride price also follow the following principles:

1. Follow the principles of local customs and habits. In the application of the law, there is such a rule, that is, "there is a law according to the law, there is no policy according to the policy, and there is no policy according to custom". Therefore, local customs and habits should be followed in the determination of the bride price, the scope of the bride price, whether the bride price is returned, and the proportion of the bride price returned.

2. Take care of the principle of the innocent party.