Would you force your significant other to erase all traces left by your ex?

I don't force my significant other to delete all the traces left by my ex, because deleting all the traces is not the same as erasing all the memories in her mind. Romance is an experiential learning that tells us who we are, what we want, who is best for us, and most importantly, it brings us some important memories. Whether you believe it or not, not all relationships are bad, and of course some people want to forget about their ex completely, and they will delete everything from their ex.

There are also boyfriends and girlfriends who have broken up, but they will still maintain a general friend relationship, two people cannot always be close, and we should also abandon the idea that the ex is equal to the enemy. ‍‍

I won't, since I choose to love him, I have to tolerate him, understand him, and respect him. In his previous life, when he was in love with his ex, I hadn't shown up, so it had nothing to do with me, I wouldn't mix, I wouldn't ask, leave him enough space for him to slowly melt away and forget. And some traces of the ex, I won't force him to remove, after all, they once loved deeply, after all, people have feelings, if you can quickly disappear everything about the person you once loved in your memory, I feel a little ruthless.

I love him and have confidence in myself, so what's the point in letting him make some memories? ‍‍

I will respect the choice of the other half, since walking together is fate, we must trust and tolerate each other, don't care about the past, because everyone has a past, and we must manage the feelings of the present and the plan for the future. And everyone is more or less secretive, hiding the secrets in their hearts, so that there is a sense of mystery between each other, which is good. Since you choose to be together, you have to trust each other.

If you're sincere with him, she'll be dead set on you. If you don't treat this relationship sincerely, then you can't go far, and it will be ineffective to ask the other party to delete the record in time. Empathy is the same thing, so the most important thing to be together is to understand and tolerate. ‍‍

No, since it's in the past, there is no need to pursue it. Since it's the ex, it's in the past. If you want to get someone, you have to get this person's heart, and if you want to get this person's heart, you need to have confidence in yourself, understand each other, and give each other independent space.

Mutual communication, mutual respect, and mutual tolerance are the ways of marriage. Only by grasping the lives of two people now can we be worthy of the future happiness of the family. ‍‍

I will not force it, this is the respect of the incumbent, I believe that since he has chosen to be with me, he will be able to deal with these problems, everyone has a past, if this person can't forget the ex, can he forget the traces if he deletes them? The answer is definitely no, two people still have to have trust when they are together. ‍‍

Although some memories can't be deleted in my head, I still can't accept that what can be deleted is disrespectful to me, so it must be deleted in front of me. People who have no selfless love have become very selfish in the face of love, so I will not give him the opportunity to see things and think about others. If he can't delete anything about your ex for you, I don't think he has as much affection for you as he has for your ex. ‍‍

No, I deleted it because I was afraid I wouldn't be able to put it down.

I would choose to delete it, or throw it away.

Breaking up, for most young people, is a chance, someone has only been in love once in their life, that is, marriage; While living in marriage, he began to grope for love; From being single in the mother and fetus to the age of talking about marriage, I met a person who was almost suitable, and I decided to live the rest of my life. There are also some people who have many twists and turns in their relationship, start a new relationship after breaking up, and break up again not long after falling in love; The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, dare to love and hate.

There are also some people who may only need 1 or 2 breakup experiences to consume all their courage and patience; He could no longer fall in love with anyone, and he could not devote all his love. Because of the breakup, he has lost half of his soul.

In fact, breaking up is an opportunity for young people; This kind of chance may not have results, but it will be a rare experience in your life.

When you are old, you will feel that this life has been in vain when you recall the love and hate of your youth, and the bravery and romance of your youth.

It is very normal to feel sad after a breakup, but how to face a breakup is a difficult problem.

Whether you are 20 or 40 years old, you have the right to pursue love; Whether you're 20 or 40, it's going to be sad when you break up.

It's just that ending a relationship at different ages has different ways of coping. Some people spend it easily, and some people need to spend months, or even years, to digest the scars brought by their broken love.

Falling out of love is not a trivial matter, compared to the feelings you yourself experience; But if compared to your long life journey, falling out of love is a small thing, the key is how you look at it.

02 The way to break up, you should make some decisions, do not procrastinate, decide, and break up, which are some suggestions I give to everyone who has fallen out of love.

There is a saying that "long pain is better than short pain". What awaits you is a long period of pain.

Every time you see the dynamics of your ex, the ** of your ex, and the gift given to you by your ex, you will touch the scene, see things and think about people; The feelings that have been in the past for a long time have resurfaced in your heart.

If you say that my current incumbent finds that there are still things in my mobile phone, and he says that he wants me to delete it, I will tell him that he can, and delete the other party in front of him, in fact, you can think about it from his point of view, when you find that his mobile phone or his luggage, there are things related to his ex, what will you think, will you think more, whether he still can't let go of his ex, whether he is with himself just to get rid of loneliness, and feel that he actually loves his ex the most, That's why after breaking up for so long, after being with me, I still keep my ex's things.

We will all think more, so our current will also think more, the ex is a fatal problem in front of the current one, even if nothing is discovered by the other party, the other party is likely to think more because we have had an ex, not to mention that we also found out that we have an ex in our mobile phone, then imagine how sad the other party is.

I don't want my current to be sad, because I am serious about every relationship, I want to seriously talk about a future relationship with the other party, I don't want to let my current become my ex because of my ex, since I am willing to start a new relationship after separating from my ex, it means that I let go, I want to start my life again, I don't want to let the past love affect my future love.

Personally, I think that if the current one asks me to delete everything about my predecessor, then I will definitely delete it all properly, because there is no need to keep the past things.

I will definitely comply with the current demands, because I feel that the ex is the ex, and the relationship is gone, so I will not let it exist.

I will immediately delete the contact with my ex, and I will not have any more trouble with the other party, because now that I have a current one, I will not let the current one be suspicious again.

In order to avoid misunderstandings between the incumbent, I will delete all the contacts with my ex, and say goodbye to the past completely, and concentrate on falling in love with the incumbent.

I might take my incumbent and delete things about my ex because these things can affect the love lives of two people.

I will follow the advice of the current one and delete all the things of my predecessor. Because the person who is with him now is the current one, so let him feel safe.

I will delete it, because after all, there is already a current one, and the current one is the most important thing to me, and the former is just a memory.

I will do as he says, and I will ask him to delete everything about my ex like I do, and to achieve equality in love.

I will delete it directly, because the past is the past, and people always have to look forward.

In fact, I can understand why the current person asks him to delete all the things of his predecessor, he just has a sense of crisis, for fear that he will get back together with his predecessor when he will get back together, and he wants to see his place in his heart, so he has such a request. I definitely don't want to have a conflict with my other half because of this matter, after all, I'm with him now, and I really like him, and I don't want to have a disagreement with him because of my ex. But if the relationship with my ex is not bad now, there is really no need to delete it, but I will tell him separately in this case, and I believe he will understand me.

Yes. Those who have passed should be let pass, why keep the current you and him sad, this will not only affect the relationship between the two parties, but also leave hidden dangers for the future.

Yes, because the past is in the past tense, there is no need to keep it to influence the present, only the present can affect the future.

Actually, I'm going to delete them all, because everything from my ex doesn't mean much to me either.

I'm going to delete them all, so that my current can feel safe, and since I choose to be with her, I have to treat her well.

Not excessive, but not at all. There is a popular saying on the Internet: you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep.

If he really loves you, he just forgot to delete his ex's **, and the moment you see it, he will not hesitate to delete it. If he really loves you, you don't have to let him delete it in front of you, he has already deleted it. Or else?

The ceremony is over, and it is just a moment of peace of mind.

In fact, for a person who no longer cares, even if she is in front of him now, he will not have any thoughts. If there is, even if ** is deleted, there will still be. Feelings are controlled by the heart.

I love you, and I only have you in my heart. If not, no matter how much you do, it will be in vain. The sense of ritual is precious, which is based on two people who truly love each other, such as weddings, such as anniversaries.

What we should do is to cherish each other when we love each other. Your past is her, but from now on, it can only be me, if you can't do it, then I won't be too entangled. I love you, but I don't want to spend the rest of my life pestering you.

It is very important that there is no right to delete the ex**, and whether the other party is willing to delete it is the key. Sometimes deletion is just a façade, and it is the will of the heart that determines how far your relationship can go.

However, we all have to remember that breaking up and still connecting is extremely disrespectful to the incumbent. Since you want to start anew, you must delete the past, otherwise it will be unfair to the present, and you must break it cleanly! So as not to plant unnecessary bombs in the relationship.

It's not too much, he retains his predecessor's **, which shows that he still has thoughts about his predecessor.

It's not too much, since you want to fall in love again, get rid of your ex, and if you can't forget it, don't mess with flowers

I don't think it's too much, after the breakup, you should delete everything about your ex**.

It's not too much at all, if you really love you, you should take into account your feelings, and there is no one who doesn't mind the current and keep the ex**.

It's not too much at all, I think you're also doing it for the good of the relationship between the two of you.

Not too much! You can't use one mind for the other.

Whether to get rid of the ex or not, everyone has a different opinion. So, what about you?

It's better to delete, it's embarrassing to keep. It also adds to the distress.

Always remember the phrase that being an ex should be as quiet as dead! Since you are separated, life has already told you that it is not suitable, and you will only fall into the quagmire of emotions and cannot extricate yourself, but it will not bring good results. A lot of people's lessons learned, applicable to the general public, if you are the exception there is nothing you can do.