Moments that make you feel that reading a book is useful?

That's all the idea that someone else gave me, and I sniffed it out from them, and it was supposed to be the only way to take shape, and it should be in infancy.

Those who have a heart will naturally be helped by those who have a heart.

Reading allows me to live confidently, elegantly, comfortably, and with dignity.

Reading is a rewarding experience.! Who told you that reading is useless?

Distinguish between right and wrong, integrate knowledge, truth, and be empathetic.

I used to live in a claustrophobic room in almost total darkness, and reading was my only small window. Now, the little window gradually opened, and the sunlight poured in. The first self-confidence in life is reading. ‍‍

The greatest use of reading is to broaden people's horizons, break the rigidity of thinking, and deal with problems more effectively but not radically.

When I was a teenager, my family was extremely poor. My mother was bedridden for many years, and my father suddenly fell ill, and the project could not be done, so I went home to recuperate, and I suffered from the same problem as when I was a child. All the money in the family was spent on me, my father, and my mother's treatment.

More than ten years have passed, and I still can't forget the scene when I went to the provincial capital with my grandfather to seek medical treatment. It seems that no matter how hard and difficult the days are, I have not given up the habit of reading, and it seems that even in the boundless darkness, reading always gives me a glimmer of light; It didn't seem to put any pressure on me to shake off the book in my hand. A girl, a girl who has no stunning beauty and whose family background was not even ordinary at that time, a girl who is physically weak and unable to engage in heavy physical labor, what way out will she have besides studying?

God closed many doors for me, but left me a window to read. Later, I realized that when I opened this window, everything that was closed would come flooding in. ‍‍

The university club recruits new students, and a primary school girl comes to sign up for my club, and she has a single name. When I saw this word at that time, I said casually: The sassy west wind is planted all over the yard, and it is difficult for the cold fragrance and cold butterflies to come.

As a result, the younger sister gave up on helping me for a few days, and then stayed. Later, when it came to this, the school girl always looked happy and excited, she said that her name was often called wrong, and most people only knew that she was heroic, but I said a poem. At that time, it dawned on me that it would be a real surprise to see a little more stuff.

The spirit also needs to be constantly metabolized.

During the Chinese New Year, a very annoying relative laughed at me in front of the whole family: "What's the use of going to college now, our company has an undergraduate student who graduated from two universities, and after graduation, he came to our company to be a salesman, and he brought us water and food every day, what is the use of studying?" It's better that I didn't graduate from junior high school.

After a few seconds of silence, I told him: "I read to be reasonable, to understand reason, to learn to be a man, if I were you, I wouldn't say something like that", I didn't understand the meaning of reading before, but now I understand that things gather people in groups.

In the past few years, the most important thing I have learned is to keep learning, keep growing, focus on self-iteration, and constantly update my cognitive system and way of thinking in any situation. ‍‍

Reading is always useful, and if it is useless, it only proves that you are just wearing the cloak of reading and have never read well. Do you know, the classmates around me are all those who studied back then. Most of the rest got married early or were urged to marry a daughter-in-law at home, and lived a life, standing on the edge of life in their twenties, you can see what it looks like when they are eighty years old.

Reading is useless? Do you dare to ask yourself, are you reading a book? Are you really serious about your studies?

Reading is not useless, it is the person who reads the book that is useless. ‍‍

Reading, writing, and starting a business gave me a lot of security, and the least sense of security was that I knew that I would not starve to death on the streets and have no income, because I had a skill, because I was practicing this skill. I have never believed that reading is useless, and it is not books or universities that are useless, but people. If you are still in college and read this article, I hope you study hard; If your family is not wealthy, then I hope you study hard, because you have to understand that you don't have a superior family condition, you don't have connections, if you don't even read, how can you have a bright future?

In recent years, I have felt more and more the benefits of reading. And the changes that have occurred in me because of reading have been very significant, and the changes have been so great that I feel incredible.

Because I often share my reading experience on the Internet, export my writing knowledge, and hold a reading and writing community, I have connected with many partners who also like to read in different fields. We brainstorm in the community every day, break the shackles of knowledge gap, improve our reading and writing skills and cognitive level, establish cross-domain thinking, and look at problems from a more comprehensive perspective.

Secondly, reading has made my relationship between husband and wife and parent-child more harmonious.

When my son was a child, my wife and I were separated because of work. At that time, I was in the rebellious period of my son, and I had to work, take care of the child's daily life, take care of his studies, and I was really lacking in skills, and I couldn't help but complain about my lover, and I was full of powerlessness for the child. During that time, as long as you communicated with your lover ** and sent **, without saying a word, you immediately went to war.

My lover was also very depressed during that time, and I knew that the nature of his work was also very hard, but I always couldn't help but complain that he didn't care about his home, and shouted at him that he was blind before looking for him. Anyway, it's just something hurtful, something to say. You can imagine how tense our family atmosphere was at that time.

Later, I specifically looked for a series of books on child psychology to read, re-learn the psychological changes and emotional needs of children in the process of growth, lead children to read together, do parent-child games together, and let children tell me what is in their hearts. Then I also went to study some books about intimacy between husband and wife, and learned about the reasons for the transformation of the relationship from infatuation and fragmentation to being true to yourself, and I also had a deep talk with my lover about the future of the family, and finally my lover's job changed and I spent more time in our house. Before I knew it, my family relationships had changed significantly, and I couldn't help but be amazed at the gift of reading.

In the end, reading books allowed me to get out of the fog and see my true self and my own real needs.

We can treat others with kindness, but we may not see ourselves correctly. Most of us have an optimistic bias about ourselves, believing that it is easier for us to master a skill or do the same job more easily than others. There are also some who always look too low at themselves, their sense of value and existence is very low, and they always feel that they are not as smart as others, not as capable as others, unlucky, and have a bad life.

After reading a lot of books, I realized that only by finding our true selves, understanding our true inner needs, and embracing our inner selves, can we objectively and correctly look at what we think and need, and only then can we regain our vitality, be full of strength, and continue to move forward.

Go to study, get out of the shackles of your heart, and embrace a new life!

When someone asks you a question, when you answer it, this is the time when you feel that reading is the most useful. In today's society, in the vast rural areas, everyone feels that reading is useless, and they all say: the more people who have no knowledge, the more they look down on knowledge.

But our grandparents and fathers' generation, they face the loess with their backs to the sky, live on one acre and three points of land, and only deal with crops all their lives, they can only beg for a living in the soil, they have no knowledge, but they respect the scholars and believe in the power of knowledge.

This is even more true now, the whole society is developing very fast, only brains work, and there are many ways to make money. But when we talk about the uselessness of reading, isn't it measured by "money"? They say that "reading is useless" because they think that they have been reading for so many years but have not earned a lot of money, but in fact, there are many benefits of reading, not only to earn money.

Even if we have a successful career, even if our family is rich, even if our children can inherit your family property, at least, you will have less happiness as a parent! In life, there are many, many beautiful things, which are hidden in the ordinary daily food, clothing, housing and transportation, because there is no reading, because there is no culture, it will make us lose a lot of experience and miss a lot of beauty!

Some people will ask, as a girl, after studying for so long and reading so many books, in the end, she still has to go back to an ordinary city, work an ordinary job, marry a wife, wash and cook, and teach her husband and children, why bother to toss like this? However, our persistence is for the sake of even if we end up falling into tediousness and washing away the lead, the same work has a different state of mind; The same family, but with different moods; The same offspring, but with different qualities. This is what Eileen Chang once said, and I think it makes perfect sense.

Yes, reading is not only about life and soul, but also about literacy. Why, then, should we use only material things to deny the whole of reading?

I think that when I look for a job, I feel that studying is really useful, and even if I have the strength without a diploma, there is no way to be admitted.

I think the moment that makes reading useful for me is when I use some knowledge in my work, and this knowledge is what I can learn from textbooks.

When I participate in the debate competition, I will find it very useful to read books, because at this time, I can draw inferences from others, quote scriptures, and when I get the final victory, I am very satisfied.