What s the biggest price you ve ever paid to achieve something?

The most important thing I can think of is probably studying, my God, in order to study, I have spent more than ten years of my time, and I am still in school in my 20s, you say that if I don't go to school, I have become a rich man, so let's talk about the price is not big? <>

In my junior year of high school, I paid too much for the college entrance examination, and in that year, I had no vacation, no entertainment, no travel, no **, and I even gave up my girlfriend. <>

Everyone has their own goals to achieve, so when I have a goal I want to achieve, for example, I want to improve my math to 80 points, the biggest price I have ever paid is to do math problems every day during that month, and do several sets of math papers every day.

I don't think it's worth paying the most price for a goal, because if I sacrifice some of my own qualities or things in order to achieve this goal, then I feel that I will lose a lot in your later life.

Once, when I was in a competition, in order to win an award, I remember staying up for several nights in a row, staying up late every day to do this project, trying to win the award, and that was the biggest price I ever paid.

In order to be admitted to the ** college, I soaked in the piano room for a long time, and my stomach was a little bad when I came back, and now I am prone to stomach pain if I don't eat, and the price is my body.

At that time, I was really studying day and night in order to get into a good university for the college entrance examination, getting up at four or five o'clock in the morning and going to bed at one or two o'clock in the evening. I really lost ten pounds before the college entrance examination.

When I was in high school, in order to get into a school I liked, I could stay up late every day, study all night, and even sometimes my body was about to collapse, but I still persevered in brushing up on the questions every night.

Sometimes I want to do my homework a little faster, and then I just write the answers without thinking about it, so I will, and now I basically don't know how to do those questions, which is very costly.

This question reminds me of the semester when I was about to take the college entrance examination in high school, at that time, I was really working on questions every day except for class, eating and sleeping, and I was really tired at that time.

In order to get one thing, the craziest thing I ever had was in the second semester of my freshman year of college, because in the first semester of my freshman year, some of my classmates in my dormitory not only had their own mobile phones, but at that time, they were using color screen mobile phones that had just begun to become popular, for which I was very envious, and I didn't have a mobile phone myself, although my parents gave me 500 yuan to buy a mobile phone, which was only enough for me to buy the cheapest single-screen mobile phone, in order to buy a color screen mobile phone, What I did the following semester.

Because I know very well my family conditions, it is not easy for my parents to go to college, and my parents have given me 500 yuan to buy a mobile phone, I can no longer open my mouth and pretend to be at home or ask for money, but if I want to buy a color screen mobile phone, I need at least 2000 yuan, and there is a gap of 1500 yuan, I can only rely on myself, in order to be able to let myself have a color screen mobile phone, I can only save from my daily living expenses, calculated, my monthly food expenses are 400 yuan, At that time, the food cost of 400 yuan a month allowed me to eat well in the school cafeteria, but in order to ensure that I could buy my own Caiping mobile phone at the end of the semester, I had to compress the food expenses to between 150 yuan and 200 yuan a month.

So every day I try to reduce the number of canteens to eat, I bought a large box of instant noodles in the supermarket, and change one of the meals at noon or evening every day to instant noodles, even if I go to the canteen to eat, I also try to lower my food standards as much as possible, only order a bowl of rice, a plate of vegetarian dishes, just like that, I insisted on four months, but even so, I only saved less than 1,000 yuan more, and there was a gap of 500 yuan, fortunately, I used the next holiday to recruit temporary waiters in restaurants around the school, I went to the surrounding restaurants again, and used this holiday to work as a waiter in the hall for a month, and earned another 500 yuan, and when the new semester was about to start, I finally saved enough money to buy a new color screen mobile phone, but I didn't do it, because I really felt the hard work of making money, I still kept this money, I wanted to let this money do something really meaningful to me, I only used 500 yuan to buy the cheapest mobile phone.

In order to get one thing, the craziest thing I ever had at most should be in the second semester of my freshman year of college, because in the first semester of my freshman year, some of my classmates in my dormitory not only had their own mobile phones, but at that time, they were using color screen mobile phones that had just begun to become popular, for which I was very envious, and I didn't have a mobile phone, although my parents gave me 500 yuan to let me pretend to be a divination or I buy a mobile phone, this money was only enough for me to buy the cheapest single-screen mobile phone, in order to buy a color screen mobile phone, What I did the following semester.

Because I know very well my family conditions, it is not easy for my parents to go to college, and my parents have given me 500 yuan to buy a mobile phone, I can no longer ask for money from the family, but if I want to buy a color screen mobile phone, at least 2000 yuan, there is a gap of 1500 yuan, I can only rely on myself, in order to be able to let myself have a color screen mobile phone, I can only save from my daily living expenses, calculated, my monthly food expenses are 400 yuan, At that time, the food cost of 400 yuan a month allowed me to eat well in the school cafeteria, but in order to ensure that I could buy my own Caiping mobile phone at the end of the semester, I had to compress the food expenses to between 150 yuan and 200 yuan a month.

So every day I try to reduce the number of people who go to the canteen to eat, I bought a large box of instant noodles in the supermarket, and changed one of the meals to instant noodles at noon or night every day, even if I go to the canteen to eat, I also try to lower my food standards as much as possible, only order a bowl of rice, a plate of vegetarian dishes, just like that, I insisted on the cheating for four months, but even so, I only saved less than 1000 yuan more, and there is a gap of 500 yuan, fortunately, I used the next holiday to recruit temporary waiters in restaurants around the school, I went to the surrounding restaurants again, used this vacation to work as a waiter for a month, and earned another 500 yuan, and when the new semester was about to start, I finally saved enough money to buy a new color screen mobile phone, but I didn't do it, because I really felt the hard work of making money, I still kept this money, I wanted to make this money do something really meaningful for me, I only used 500 yuan to buy the cheapest mobile phone.

The craziest thing I ever did to get something was probably in the second semester of my freshman year, because some of my classmates who dismantled their socks in my dorm room in the first semester of their freshman year not only had their own mobile phones, but at that time we were all using color screen phones that were just starting to become popular. I am very envious of this, and I don't have a mobile phone myself, although my parents gave me 500 yuan to buy a mobile phone, which is only enough for me to buy one, the cheapest single single mobile phone, and that's it. What I did in order to buy a color screen phone for the next semester.

Because I know my family conditions very well, it is not easy for my parents to provide for me to go to college, and my parents have already given me 500 yuan to buy a mobile phone, and I can no longer ask for money from my family. But if you want to buy a color screen mobile phone, you need at least 2000 yuan, and there is a gap of 1500 yuan, I can only rely on myself, in order to be able to let myself have a color screen mobile phone, I can only save from my daily living expenses, and my monthly food expenses are 400 yuan. At that time, the food fee of 400 yuan a month was able to allow me to eat in the school cafeteria, which was not bad.

But in order to ensure that I can buy my own color screen mobile phone at the end of this semester, I have to compress my food expenses to between 150 and 200 yuan a month.

So every day I try to eat in the cafeteria as little as possible, I bought a large box of instant noodles in the supermarket, and changed one of the noon and evening sections of the day to eat instant noodles, even if I go to the canteen to eat, I try to lower my food standards as much as possible. I only ate a bowl of rice and a plate of vegetarian dishes, so I persevered for four months, but even so, I only saved less than 1,000 yuan and a gap of 500 yuan, fortunately, I used the next vacation, restaurants around the school, recruiting temporary waiters, I ran to the surrounding restaurants, used this holiday to work as a waiter for a month, and earned another 500 yuan, and when the new semester was about to begin. I finally saved enough money to buy a new color screen phone, but I didn't do it, because I really felt the hard work of making money, I still kept the money, I wanted this money to do something really meaningful for me, I only used 500 yuan to buy the cheapest liquid companion phone.

The reason why I paid a terrible price was naturally because of my failures in my studies, in my relationship and in my work. <>

1. I used to feel that I was different when I failed in learning, and I thought that as long as I studied seriously, I would definitely be able to achieve good results. After all, he is always praised by teachers and parents as a smart child, and he feels that he is very powerful because of this sense of trust that has been shaped. But after the results of the college entrance examination came out, I found that compared to some powerful people, I was just an ant.

The so-called pride that used to be nothing to mention in front of tens of millions of candidates. I still fantasized about that ideal university in my heart, but I didn't expect that I was too self-conscious and failed too much in my studies, and finally went to a pheasant university. <>

2. Emotional failureI am a very controlling person, and I also want to control all aspects emotionally, hoping that the subject can listen to me, and I hope that the subject can be very good to me. So I always make a couple of rules to limit each other's behavior and ask the other person to do something to me. Maybe at first, the other person thinks it is very fresh and will play with me, but after a long time, the other person feels a sense of pressure.

But I didn't know it, but I still intensified it, and finally aroused the disgust of the other party, so that the feelings also said goodbye. And then in many relationships, I didn't know how to repent, I still felt that I was not wrong, and I thought I had high standards. But in fact, this is a disgusting little problem in my relationship, and the failure of my relationship has made me spend countless time and energy, and I feel that even life has become sad.

3. Failures at workI will also face various problems at work, and sometimes some projects are not done well, and I will be criticized by my boss. Sometimes some things do not meet the boss's standards, and the performance cannot meet the standards, and many blames will be received. Because of his lack of outstanding ability at work, he gets very little salary, and his natural life is very poor, and he always feels that he has achieved nothing.

I feel that the main reason for paying a painful price is my youth and willfulness, and I only look at the immediate and do not consider the consequences.

What can make me pay a heavy price is often my sincere feelings, and when we really give something, their betrayal will make me very painful.

The main reason why you can make yourself pay a heavy price is that you are too impulsive and irrational in doing things.