What are some things you didn t know about before you fell in love?

Love is like a wall, and you will only find out after you go in that there are a lot of little secrets hidden in it, which are difficult for people who are not in love to think of.

A relationship goes through many stages, and it is not easy to find someone who will never get tired of being with you for a long time, so in love, you must learn to maintain a relative sense of distance from close people. I have heard a theory before that people in love should hide their good and let the other party take the initiative to dig it little by little, so that he will cherish you. At the time, I thought it would be insincere to get along like this, but now I'm quite in favor of that.

People have to maintain a certain sense of mystery towards others, and those who give everything to each other at the beginning will often not be cherished in the end. The kind of people who can maintain a constant and continuous liking for each other are actually relatively rare, most people like to pursue freshness, and what we have to do is to learn how to maintain this freshness.

If you like someone, no matter how boring your personality is, you will try to take the initiative to understand each other. Personality has a certain relationship with our attitude towards love, introverted people may express their feelings a lot more introverted, but on the premise of liking someone, no matter how boring the personality is, they will try to express it, and the person who is liked, even if they are nervous, can also feel the other party's heart.

When you are in love, you can quarrel, you can be appropriate and unreasonable, but you must avoid a cold war. The Cold War is terrible, and if two people are not deep enough in the process of the Cold War, it is likely to cause a breakup. The Cold War will make people think too extreme about the problems in the relationship, and both sides will think that they have calmed down, but in fact, they are gambling that the final result is likely to be a lose-lose situation.

Communication is the most basic thing in love, even if you accidentally have a cold war, you have to find a way to find a step, even if you can communicate with someone, and then deal with the problem itself.

Of course, it's the little thing between men and women, I thought that if I kissed my mouth, I would have a child.

In fact, the girl is not as well-behaved as you see, and she will also have very naughty and annoying moments.

I didn't know what it was like to kiss before, but I didn't know until I fell in love.

For example, his personality, which you don't know when you're in a relationship.

Boys or adult males are not as strong as they seem, and they may be very fragile inside.

No, there's nothing special, he told me a lot of things, I think it's acceptable, and it's good for everyone to be honest with each other.

It turns out that he also has this kind of hobbies and some small habits.

I've always thought boys were sloppy, but after falling in love, I found that it was okay.

If a girl is unreasonable, she is simply a shrew.

1.Don't start a relationship casually, and don't let your relationship become very cheap. You have to know what kind of person you want, what kind of person you like to get along with, and what kind of relationship mode you like.

You need to know your personality so that you can choose the right person. Once you have decided, please give your sincerity seriously.

2.Be sure to have your bottom line. In love, you must set your bottom line, what you must not accept, once you cross this bottom line, say goodbye, even if it is painful, you have to say goodbye, otherwise the other party will only gain an inch.

3.Don't talk angry or do angry things. In the process of love, it is normal to quarrel, but when you are angry, you must remember to calm down first, and never make any decisions or say anything angry when you are angry.

When they return to calm, most people will regret it. When you get angry and lose your mind, your words are very aggressive, and you only hurt each other after the most burning chain is destroyed! The best thing to do is to remind yourself to choose to remain silent and wait for both parties to calm down before continuing to communicate!

If you make a mistake, you should honestly admit your mistakes, reflect on yourself, and how to avoid it in the future, not only to give the other party, but also to your own posture.

4.Men are children and need to be praised and cared for. Praise him more, and if you like it, you have to show it!

Don't just look at his thoughtfulness and concern for you, but also remember to give back to him, love is mutual. Say it if you love it, don't be embarrassed, whether it's in person or on your phone. When he encounters difficulties and is in a bad mood, they can help find solutions together.

5.Always stay attractive and keep improving yourself! Read books, learn to call, exercise!

Remember to constantly enrich yourself and improve yourself, not only internally, but also externally! makes you better and better, your boyfriend is not tied up, but attracted, so that the relationship can last.

6.Don't always blindly ask and don't give, this kind of person is the most hated. Don't always think that I am a girl and should enjoy his goodness, remember that he is not your father, only your father will be selflessly good to you. Whether it's money or emotion, girls also need to give.

7.When you meet a man who likes to flirt everywhere and cast a wide net, find it early, stay away!

1. When you fall in love, you know that the object is sent by God to anger you.

2. When you are in love, you know that as long as you pay sincerely, you can't be cool.

3. When I fell in love, I realized that I was so fragile that I couldn't afford to hurt it.

4. When you are in love, you know what it means to switch emotions freely and capriciously.

5. Only when you are in love do you know how happy it is to be pampered by someone.

6. When you are in love, you know how rich you are when you are single.

7. When you are in love, you know that the man's mouth is the water in the toilet.

8. Only when you fall in love do you know that your boyfriend can play more than yourself and can act better than yourself.

9. After falling in love, my aunt didn't come, and I was scared.

10. When you fall in love, you know that when a man is coquettish, a woman has to stand aside.

11. I only know when I fall in love, and I will become brothers after a long time.

12. Only when you are in love do you know how good it is to be single.

13, when you are in love, you know how sweet the sweet love is.

14. When you fall in love, you know that women are all monsters.

15. I only know when I am in love that drinking water and eating can be praised for being great.

16. When I fell in love, I realized that TM didn't find a boyfriend but found a son.

17. After falling in love, I realized that painting cakes was also a science.

18. When you fall in love, you know that a man pulls for 23 hours a day! (Another hour on the way to).

19. Only when you are in love do you know that it is not enough to fall in love with someone.

20. You don't know until you're in love, and it's interesting to watch others talk.

21. When you fall in love, you know that when two people fall in love, they should not change each other's minds, but they should be with people who think the same way.

22. When you are in love, you know that it is impossible for two people to be glue all the time after being together, don't always pester each other, and leave a little personal space for each other.

23. Only when you are in love do you know that you are with the same three views, and don't change yourself in order to cater to others.

24. When you are in love, you don't know that you don't try to touch the other party's bottom line.

25. When you fall in love, you know that people outside the city want to go in, and people in the city want to come out.

1: Don't start a relationship when your motives are unclear.

There are many kinds of love for a person, especially some young people, and it is difficult for them to tell whether they are restless and want to get out of this state, or whether they really have a good impression of each other and want to start this intimate relationship. If it is the former, you love for "love", expecting a relationship to change your state, and after getting along for a period of time, when love does not meet the expectations in your heart, you will quickly have the idea of breaking up. Because your so-called feelings are just a state.

Therefore, when you can't figure out your true motives, you blindly have a relationship, and the ending of this relationship is often not happy for everyone.

2: The marathon of love, at the beginning of the force, most of them can't go to the end, his words can make you speculate for a long time; All his requests, you will try to meet; Send him a message, if you don't reply in seconds, you feel restless, you feel like you've never cared so much about your family since you were a child, but your relationship only lasted for a short time.

Because if you like it, you will use force, and the result of too much effort is that many things will be exaggerated and deformed, which invisibly gives the other party a sense of oppression.

People who are overly addicted and persistent are prone to regard feelings as their own efforts, forgetting that feelings need to be interacted with. In other words, you are touching yourself, but you don't really care about the other person's feelings.

This kind of fire emitted by a very strong love, the other party may feel warm, but it can also be burned. Therefore, treat feelings with no excessive force, otherwise you are consuming your feelings.

3: The sense of security is given by oneself, and it has little to do with the other party.

The beginning of a relationship is based on mutual trust. The fact that you can build a relationship with the other person shows that your level of trust is okay, at least in the early stages of the relationship.

The problem comes later, and after really starting to get along, some girls will always say, "I'm insecure, I'm always worried about ......."In fact, the "lack of security" they call is actually a suspicion. In a relationship, suspicion really shouldn't be too serious.

You're always suspicious of the other person, and you're actually focusing on how to prove that the other person has betrayed you, which is a knee-jerk process that you may not even be aware of.

You have never trusted the other party, always rely on your own series of subjective assumptions to process external information into a way that confirms your thoughts, and then rely on your conclusions based on speculation to adjust your behavior and attitude, so a vicious circle, mutual trust is reduced, how can the relationship last?

Remember, security is given by oneself and has little to do with others. And two-way trust, once broken, is difficult to re-establish, so be cautious about your suspicions about him.

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