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1.From the definition of success, it can be refuted: the representative of success is not rich, powerful and status, but each performs his own duties and is in his place.
Give some examples of people who moved China. They are not necessarily knowledgeable and learned, but it is undeniable that they are successful people.
Ask the other person if they have the wrong definition of success.
2.Refuting from the level of learning: Judging a person from the level of learning is wrong, how can we talk about decision?
Name some people who didn't go to college or didn't graduate but are respected and successful. Let's also cite some of the unbearable behaviors of people who have gone to college or have a high degree of education.
3.Refuge from the success of life: The success of life is not only in career, but also in family, interpersonal relationships and so on.
A person may have achieved good career success because of his studies, but it does not mean that he has also succeeded in other factors such as his family, so he is not successful in life in the full sense.
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It would be good to give a definition of "success in life" first, and then refute it with your definition, and you can focus on character and morality as the main determinant of success in life. I think the focus of this debate is on the relationship between learning and doing.
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A person went to fortune telling, and after the fortune teller touched his bones and counted the eight characters, he said: "You fell in love at the age of 20, got married at the age of 25, and gave birth to children at the age of 30. ”
This person was first shocked and then angry, and said: "I am five years old Chinese New Year's Eve today, doctor, single, and in love. ”
When the gentleman heard this, he pondered for a while and said, "Young man, knowledge changes fate!" ”
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Without achievement, a happy, happy life is not better.
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Generally, those who have graduated from university are working part-time jobs for those who have graduated from elementary school!
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1.If you don't, you won't succeed.
This seems to have become a decisive proposition, is it true that all successful people have achieved their achievements because they are known by influential people?
2.A valuable and accomplished person is not to make people pay attention to themselves, but that influential people have to pay attention to themselves, because values and achievements have shown that you are a successful person, and the appearance of influential people is just to make others more aware of this.
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The other side argues that we have never denied that adversity is also conducive to people's growth. But the topic of our debate today is whether good times or bad times are more conducive to human growth. Do we have to fail in order to succeed, why do the opponents have to follow the wrong reasoning to prove the wrong path?
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What school are you from?
I am from the Shenzhen Vocational Institute, and I just finished this question, and my class is square.
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Quality is originally improved through learning, because human nature sometimes needs some rules.
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You tell them that those who do scientific research do a large part of scientific research, they just say that they are high school five buckets, but they are different groups of people, they have tried to have no quality, looking like Chaolu invested in them, their knowledge content is very high, through learning a lot of things, but I don't see that the quality is very high!
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Quality is the innate quality and self-cultivation, and the acquired growth will help improve the quality and make people more cultivated.
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There is also an innate quality thing, and some college students and doctoral students do not have it.
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That explains that the university professors are still like that ... Didn't want to say anything.
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What is Success?
Some people think that there is an endless amount of money to spend.
Success, some people think that being able to do anything is success, some people think that villa BMW is success, and some people think that the enterprise is success when it becomes bigger.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with these views, but they should not be all right. Because if there is only material enjoyment and no happiness and peace of mind, it really cannot be regarded as success.
The other criterion is to be introverted and retreating, believing that peace of mind is success. Everything has two sides, and in this commercial society, if you don't have the money and materials necessary to make a living, just living in a fantasy utopia is certainly not a success.
Therefore, successful people should have a healthy body, a happy family, a good career or career, money that can cope with a relatively high quality of life, a house or living space that can bring a sense of security, comfort and pride, and a group of like-minded friends, healthy and happy interpersonal relationships and leisure and entertainment activities.
That's what I consider to be success.
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It is indeed the case, one person, one view, ten thousand ideas, on the road to success, people do not do the same. Although some people succeed in the same field, they take different paths, and perhaps if they fail, the reasons are the same.
In fact, in my opinion, everyone's understanding of success is indeed different, in my opinion, the meaning of success is that you have done this to the extreme, participated in this whole process, and made this thing satisfactory and happy for others, this is success.
In fact, success has to be divided into multiple steps, as the so-called how you should do this success, how you should do it, you must believe in yourself, you must believe that you can do it.
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In fact, when it comes to success, a person's lifelong pursuit is to have enough food and drink, eat and drink without worry, and occasionally live a luxurious life. With material satisfaction, there are some spiritual pursuits, and this life is sufficient. There are also some close friends, and this life will be content.
Success is family harmony, parents and children are healthy, and life is sometimes a choice. If you choose the right one, you must also have the courage to move forward and perseverance. Most people may have the right choice in their lives, but they just can't stick to the end.
If a person only does one thing in his life, then he will definitely be able to achieve something. I'm afraid of half-heartedness, this mountain looks at that mountain high. Attitude towards money is important.
As long as you live your life, there's no need to worry too much. A person who runs his own home well all his life is a kind of success.
In today's society, we often have many pursuits, and many people gradually lose themselves. Some people work like crazy, but ignore their families, and go farther and farther away from their wives and children, even if these people make more money, what's the point? It's easy to prove that you're successful.
Clothing, food, shelter, and transportation are not much worse than others. The size of the house, enough to live in. The car is good or bad, and it is enough to be able to do things on your behalf.
Don't compare!
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Success as I understand it is: having a person who loves himself and the people he loves lives with, facing the joys and pains of life together, and having a simple and happy family that is not wealthy, and life does not need to be rich and expensive, but only needs to be safe and secure. What children want can be satisfied, and they can take their parents and children out for travel after work, which is what I understand as success.
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My favorite writer of scientific love, Feng Tang once said ......I don't remember what I said, but it probably means that success is a lie.
I am of the same mind as my male god, and I also think that success learning is a lie, and the biggest trap of success learning is that he can't make you successful at all.
There is a joke that has been circulating on the Internet for a long time, there is a little boy who asked a rich man why he is so rich, and this rich man said that when he was a child, his father once gave him two apples, and he sold these two apples for four apples, and then this little boy pretended to understand, oh uncle, I understand. This rich man said, you know what a, and then my dad died and I inherited his inheritance.
Therefore, Success Learning will only tell you that Bill Gates is taking a leave of absence to go back to start a business, but he will not tell you that Bill Gates studied Harvard University, and being admitted to Harvard University itself is one of Bill Gates' abilities. Success only tells you the importance of hard work, but it does not tell you the economic foundation, network, opportunity, and ability behind the effort.
She will only tell those who are successful, but never tell you that there are some things in them that cannot be copied by the public, he defines success as a shallow science, and misleads the values of the public.
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Success can be imitated but not copied, most of the imitation can not go far, there are thousands of ways to succeed, and there is only one reason for failure to make excuses! Instead of spending so much time looking for reasons and excuses, think about ways to solve it.
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I think success is not about how much money you make, how many people admire you, what height you have reached, I think doing what you want to do is to live as you want to be successful.
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I think success is when you make a career out of your own life and make your family live a good life, and that's success.
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When I was in school, I thought that success was to achieve my goals, no matter how difficult the process was, as long as the result was satisfactory to me, it was success! If you work, your boss will be promoted and raised, and that is success. Success is no matter how big or small, so success is to realize your wishes step by step, so that you have a sense of accomplishment and happiness!
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Success and success means that all your wishes come true, and the merits are immeasurable, and you can complete what you want most in your heart, and you can also make a series of contributions to society, which is what I call success.
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There is only a thin line between success and failure.
Success is just a system.
The success of the method bai.
Failure is just a failure of one approach.
Their specific paths are the same, but the results are different depending on the way you choose the DAO.
Out of 10,000 ways to eliminate the obvious wrong path, the rest must be tried for yourself to know which one leads to success.
Refusing to fail is refusing to try, and if you refuse to try, where does success come from?
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There are thousands of ways and means of success, and failure is the bell that begins to succeed, so Qiu Shaowen accepts all the failures and ends up disappointed.
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We Chinese do not have to shoulder any mission of world peace, any heavy responsibility of human development, and I have heard too much the stories of the ancients who sacrificed themselves for others, sacrificed themselves to save tigers, and cut meat to feed eagles. To be honest, if I saw someone falling into the water, I would never jump into the water to save someone, and similarly, I would not chase after a gangster robbing someone, but I would definitely call or call the police on 110. Don't call me unloving or cold-blooded, maybe you don't believe me and say to me, "What if the gangster robs you?" If there is such a situation, I can only consider myself unlucky, I will not chase, but I will shout, hoping that a dutiful policeman nearby will hear, (it is not your fault that the gangsters can do anything on the street in broad daylight). If you have no money, you can be suspicious again, but there is only one life. You must know that it is not easy for my parents to raise me so big, I still have to support them when they are old, my kind and hard-working wife, newborn children still need my care and nurturing, for them, I must take care of myself, if I have any three strengths and two weaknesses, who can take care of them? ?
Relying on you? It is a great blessing for this society that you can be filial to your parents, wife and children! Dependent on the state?
My parents were not workers, they were peasants in backward mountain villages, and I don't think many people would think that even if they lived longer, not many people would think that there would be such two people living there.
Since I was a child, I didn't have much interest in the so-called good things, and of course I would do bad things, and I always felt that it was superfluous for the school to organize some cleaning on the streets. So what do you need a cleaner to do? If you can't do a good job, don't occupy this position, let someone who is competent do it.
Don't "occupy the pit and don't". Similarly, in the company's work, a person who always asks for help from others is definitely not a good employee, and I don't believe that the boss spends money to ask you to come back just to ask others to help you.
However, if you are really free and want to do good, I have no objection, but I just want to remind you that it is better to give charcoal in the snow than icing on the cake! For example, instead of donating money to the disaster areas of rich countries, it is better to send charcoal to the 99 million poor people in the central and western regions of our country, and I suggest that you go there and see what is called a disaster area, what is the real disaster area, and that it is actually China's eternal disaster area!
If people don't do anything, the heavens will destroy the earth." This great truth has actually been verified by Comrade Lei Feng. If he dies while helping others or while saving others, then he is a true example of self-sacrifice to save others, but he is not. To do good deeds is to do good deeds, and it stands to reason that those who do good deeds regularly will accumulate a lot of yin virtue, even if they are not very rich and noble, they will also bless their descendants to become rich.
But he didn't, Lei Feng was an orphan, he had never been in love, and of course he wouldn't have illegitimate children. Facts speak louder than words, Lei Feng has really left us for a long time, and he doesn't even know how he died (everyone said that he was smashed from behind by a wooden pillar for drying clothes), is it the misfortune of society or the injustice of God?
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Man should live for himself, and there must be one"The old and the old, the young and the young"of fraternity.
Tell a story:
Both heaven and hell have a large pot of broth, and each has a big spoon with a special length
The people in heaven scooped the broth from the big spoon to others to drink, and as a result, everyone in heaven drank the broth, and the atmosphere of happiness filled the heavens
The people of hell scooped the broth from a big spoon for themselves, and as a result, the people in hell rarely drank the broth, and there was an atmosphere of grumbling everywhere in heaven
This question doesn't mean anything, but it at least proves that the saying "if you don't do what you do, heaven and earth will perish" is not true at all times
Of course, if we go a little deeper into "for the have" or "for the person"**, we can make such an assumption: to be the have, is to make oneself achieve the best material and mental state under the existing conditions; To be human is to recognize others as the best in their material and spiritual state under the existing conditions
If you are really good for yourself, then you must ultimately consider the interests of others, and realize that creating convenience for others is to create convenience for yourself (for example, we will not throw garbage away, just to make ourselves have a good living environment, if everyone does not throw garbage, then everyone has a good environment).
If we are truly good for others, then we must ultimately consider our own interests, for example: we must take care of our own body and mind, because physical and mental health, in order to do more meaningful things for others
So, in general, if everyone's quality is very high, everyone is for themselves, to achieve the real for themselves, and everyone for others, to achieve the real for others, then the result is the same, that is, everyone is good!
The reason for the creation of "everyone for himself, or everyone for others?" This proposition, mainly or the quality of people is uneven, at this time it is not suitable to advocate the values of "people do not do it, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed", only emphasize, advocate, and promote the value of everyone for others is more beneficial to everyone With the continuous development of economic conditions, the quality of people will also develop to a certain extent, and when that person comes, this problem naturally does not exist!
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