How to discipline your husband, please advise, how to discipline your husband

Updated on society 2024-05-25
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you should talk to him, how can your husband forget his wife's mobile phone number, and don't let him do anything, sometimes you have to lose your temper with him appropriately, or he will think that you: just like his friend said it is too easy to handle

    Men can't get used to it, and I believe you will handle it.

    Wishing you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I thought, if he likes to play games so much, why don't you play them? Why don't you try to enter his world and get a feel for the characters in his game world? Are you his wife, at least you loved each other before, so you got married?

    I wonder why your husband is so obsessed with playing games. It may also be external factors, he can't find self-confidence in real life, can't find a sense of success, maybe it's family, maybe it's work, so once the pressure is high, he wants to find something to perform, and your husband may choose the game because of this. If you can be considerate of him, you don't have to push him to come home every day, and then he will be more disgusted with you.

    You can take care of him more attentively, sometimes he comes back late and you can leave a small note, write something to make him feel warm, maybe he will be moved? But it's up to you to do it, and we can't help you here, we can only give you advice.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let him play. I'll be back when I've had enough.

    You just have to do your home business.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Upstairs said that as long as you play a game, it doesn't hurt, you think you can give him a tooth for a tooth, give him some color, heh.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then you also play online, a tooth for a tooth, if you are soft-hearted, you have to endure it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ask him if he wants to live with you or live with the game, if he can't leave, this kind of person is not promising.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It makes sense to have Zhang Youchi.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A good husband is in pain.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello, how can you let your husband manage the money for you? If you can do the following, I guarantee that your husband will take the initiative to manage the money for you! 1.

    Don't do Voldemort 2Able to manage money and have the ability to keep the wealth in hand growing. 3.

    Life is frugal, spending money is not extravagant, not admiring vanity, no bad habits such as playing mahjong, living within your means, and discussing opinions before encountering large expenditures. 4.Emotional intelligence is good and cold, leaving enough basic expenses for her husband, and she is more generous to her in-laws.

    If you can do the above, I believe that no man will feel comfortable handing over the money to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Actually, my husband and I don't have any major differences of principle, but we can't reach a consensus on some small issues. At the beginning, I was so strong that I always wanted to manage my husband obediently, but every time I took care of it, he was annoyed and always felt like a fascist. Strangely, he would secretly change it afterwards.

    After countless conflicts like this, I finally understood: husband, he just hates being managed.

    After realizing this, I and the old convention law three chapters. I will no longer point fingers at him in the future; However, he has to set a set of rules of conduct and self-restraint; Once a violation is found, it will be handed over to the wife for punishment. Now, I gave him enough freedom and respect.

    I saw my husband stay in the room alone for half an hour, and listed ten major behavioral norms such as not lying to his wife, not socializing outside in the middle of the night, and not playing games at home. As for me, I attached a penalty clause for violations next to each rule. After the unanimous approval, the signatures of both parties take effect.

    Now this guideline is posted on the back of our cabinet door, and you can see it every day when you open the cabinet. Because these ten codes of conduct are all rules set by my husband for himself voluntarily, and occasionally there are small mistakes, as long as I mention the first few rules, he immediately has nothing to say. Since these ten codes of conduct have been listed, my husband has been a lot more self-disciplined in all aspects, and we have fewer quarrels.

    Generally speaking, the consensus of women is that if they want to control a man, they must grasp two aspects of the man's wallet and mobile phone. The economy and whereabouts are well managed, and it is difficult for a man to spend it.

    It is said that men become bad when they are rich, which is not absolute, but it is not unreasonable. Men, usually when they have a lot of money in their pockets, they get upset. For this reason, some women are in a hurry and simply collect their husband's salary from the state treasury first, and then pay them monthly.

    I think this method, although it is very thorough in terms of management, but it is not close to people in terms of technique. My approach to management is to go home and pay taxes. Every month, my husband and I have to pay a tax to the family, as the family's public **, and the rest of the after-tax part is spent separately.

    Because the two of them pay taxes equally, it will not make her husband feel oppressed by inequality, but also achieve the effect of shrinking her husband's wallet. Of course, the burden of taxes cannot be too heavy, and men ask for money to fill the façade when they go out.

    As for controlling her husband's whereabouts, women must not learn Lin Xiaofeng's personal tracking method. Checking the post every two or three hours not only annoys the husband but also hurts the man's self-esteem. I spent my time running my husband's social circle.

    The first thing to do is to get into your husband's social circle, make friends with your husband's colleagues and friends, and if possible, make friends with those wives. Once the alliance of wives is formed, the whereabouts of the husbands are under control.

    After my management method was implemented, my husband didn't feel that I was exercising harsh control over him. Occasionally, my husband compares himself with others, and even feels that he is very free. If you manage it, you don't like you don't manage it, and you still make your husband grateful, which is probably the highest level of management.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Lighting cigarettes for my husband, a little money for wine, in short, let him have just enough money to spend, and not so much money, just master the degree, you know???

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's up to you, in fact, there is a bit of personal space between two people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You will be respected for doing your own thing!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Properly satisfy your husband's vanity, give him enough face in front of outsiders, as long as it is not illegal to interfere with him, you can encourage him, you can also be coquettish with him, talk about small love words, he will feel that he is the most beautiful existence in your heart, and the most important thing is to maintain your financial independence.

    Men are vain! The wife may be a strong woman outside, and when she returns home, she must learn to be a bird, and she must not be a woman everywhere. When it's time to be soft, you should be soft, lie to your husband, ask him something, he will feel that he is needed, his vanity is satisfied, and he will be even more desperate for you!

    Also, don't create conflicts at home. When you have a disagreement with your husband, you must know how to compromise appropriately, don't be a person who is entangled, and always imposes his ideas on your husband, and your husband has some time to think, so that your husband will be more considerate of you.

    The most important thing for a husband and wife to get along is respect and trust. As long as you exchange sincerity for sincerity, even if you don't have to deliberately care, your husband will be obedient to you.

    How to get along with husband and wife:

    1. Don't talk about things, don't quarrel, and don't make disrespectful remarks, or use divorce to blackmail your husband.

    2. Learn to complain less about him and care less about him.

    3. Don't compare others with your husband.

    4. Praise your husband more and encourage him more in life.

    5. Give him space to choose what he wants to do.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I am a man, I will be able to tell you very clearly and directly about this question, a man has lost his freedom, just like the outside and the inner world of a sheep in the sheepfold, it is meaningless to him, he has lost his vitality and combat effectiveness, of course, I don't know what you are asking, which aspect you want to control your husband?

    If you mean that he doesn't care about his family, doesn't think about his family, eats, drinks, prostitutes, gambles outside, and does all kinds of messy things, then this problem needs to be guided, and this is a problem that many people will have, and it can't be cut off directly, so that he understands that for the sake of the family, is your happy future, otherwise, the family will collapse sooner or later, if the family collapses, he can think about the consequences for him and for you in the future, first you have to let him understand what he should do, What are the consequences of doing something? Instead of pinching it off directly, you have to take care of him, if you want to take care of it, it will only make this thing backfire, and you don't want to pull out the seedlings to help it!

    I think if you ask this again, you must be looking for the answer to communicate with him, not to say that you want to make this family and him, the consequences you didn't expect, sometimes, no matter how old a person is, people are rebellious, and some people may always have a rebellious heart, so to fundamentally solve this problem, we must let him understand the consequences of this matter.

    People say that the symptoms are cured, if you control him, then the symptoms are not cured, so the method I give you is to let you solve all these things, not let you solve the problems on the surface, so communication is very important!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The wife manages her husband like this.

    The wife can first understand the husband's temperament in managing the husband, if the husband is a more short-tempered, has his own ideas, is very independent, and has a good face and machismo. Such a person tries to overcome rigidity with softness.

    Don't talk to him with a tough attitude, but with a tactful attitude, not with an accusatory attitude. Because the more you make and complain, the more he won't listen to you.

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