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My Values:
In general, I don't call it values, I call it social outlook, and the following knowledge is all made up by myself.
The social outlook contains two systems, one is the view of interests, and the other is the concept of values, the concept of interests refers to the benefits to oneself, and the values refer to the benefits to others. In general, to do something, we must combine the concept of interests and values.
Principles are the standard of behavior that I have for society, and everything I do is based on my principles. This principle is like the law of a country, and it is similar to the code of morality. For example, one of my principles is called:
Respect local customs and laws and regulations", apply to real life, if you have a friend who asks you to help him fight, according to human feelings, it is because of the reason, but I must "respect local customs and laws and regulations", I am in China, therefore, I must abide by China's "customs and laws and regulations", and because there is a saying in China called "harmony is precious", then, I must take harmony as precious, and fighting violates the principle of harmony is precious, therefore, I help my friend fight is contrary to my principles, therefore, I wouldn't have promised him.
But if my friend says that the child is being bullied, he tells us to go and help the child. There is an old Chinese saying that "punish evil and promote good", therefore, I must "punish evil and promote good", and go to fight, which is an act of abiding by principles. But what if I go to fight and violate the principle of "peace is precious", then what should I do?
Therefore, my social outlook involves a kind of power issue, and the so-called power issue is that when there is a contradiction between two principles, it is implemented according to the principle. For example, someone goes to make an appointment with me tomorrow and I say yes, obviously I have to go because it's a credit issue. But if I'm a doctor, and I'm halfway there's a ** asking me to go back to see a doctor, and now there's a very important patient waiting for me to save me, or I'm going to die.
Therefore, I had to go back to see a doctor, even if it was against my principle of credit, because the principle of life is greater than the principle of trust. But if on my way to the doctor, I receive another ** saying that I want to go to war somewhere on the border of my country, and the national interest is more important than the principle of life, so I must go to war, even if that person dies. Got it?
Anyway, there are many famous halls, so I won't explain it here.
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Maybe every young person is as confused as you are.
A little bit would be fine. The important thing is to have faith in yourself.
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I used to think that I had a lot, but I thought it was like my hand in a rice bowl, and the palms and backs of my hands were full of rice.
Nowadays, there are very few inventions that are really owned, just like a hand taken out of a jar, and there are only a few rice in the hand.
So from this moment it really slowed down the outward expansion and seizure, and deliberately cherished what he had.
I used to think that my thoughts and words carried a lot of weight, and they were loud and sound.
Subsequent inventions are nothing more than a drop in the bucket, and it doesn't matter whether they say or not, do or don't do it.
Now I realize that although the influence of a person's private thoughts and words is not far-reaching, it is indeed nervous, and a change of thought may rotate my own life, and a word from someone else may reset the path I chose.
Therefore, they are more and more cautious and rational in their own choices, and they cannot be capricious; Be more vigilant and self-controlled in other people's words, and do not interfere with them.
I used to think that if I couldn't find the most beautiful flower in the flower garden, it would be better to leave with my own hands.
Now I realize that the most beautiful flowers are not blooming in the flower beds, nor are they shining brightly. The most beautiful flowers bloom on my balcony, from the bones to the blooms, it is my waiting and nurturing that makes it beautiful.
So I know that the common experience in the eternal catastrophe is the source of true love - what you meet around the corner is love, and what you have been tempered is love.
In the past, I thought that I only needed to grit my teeth and break through the cocoon, give birth to henchmen, and then fly.
Now I know that there needs to be wind.
So I got acquainted with the so-called probability of success, and there were thousands of people with commensurate strength and hard work, and only one stepped on that gust of wind. Even if Yunyun continues, he must continue to be happy, maybe if he holds up for a second, the wind will come.
I used to think that I had a crown on my head, and I had to raise my noble chin at all times, and I couldn't bend my waist.
Now I realize that if there is a battle in my heart, I can be humiliated by my crotch; If there is only an enemy in his eyes, he only wants to die happily.
So I know that the courage of the temporary and the speed of the temporary plan are by no means conducive to the long-term.
I used to think that everything in the mortal world was like the tide of the waves, but today it recedes, rises up, and all disperses, and finally returns.
Now I know that what is rising is no longer the trend that has receded today; Neither is it all that was scattered that day.
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