What is she thinking, and what am I going to do 30

Strong.,The lyrics are all on Haha.,I encourage you.,The pure friendship between students.,I can understand it.,I'm only 18 years old after all.In a situation like this, don't write a letter, you just find a time to ask her out to play, directly confess to her, see how she is, and the manly man will bravely tell her. Writing a letter is really too old-fashioned Girls want sincerity, and this kind of thing is too vague to write letters, only sweet words.

Since others don't like it, don't force it

After all, you're too harsh, why can't you be friends or buddies?

Why do you have to be together, what can you do together?

If you force it, you won't get anything

If you really like her, you might as well reveal yourself and chat with her about life and the past Let him know you Like is based on two people understanding each other!

If she still doesn't agree, then let her be it, if you really like it

Summary. You can see your helplessness at this moment, and you don't know exactly what's going on, but it seems that you should see a lot because of this.

The idea is that she can't help it, and she can't think of you what she wants.

You can see your helplessness at this moment, and you don't know exactly what's going on, but it seems that you should see a lot because of this.

This sentence is actually very true, and it is also pursued by universal psychology.

When I expressed some thoughts about my husband's behavior, and then he told me that the idea was mine, he couldn't help it.

What do you say I should do.

Okay, I'll help you figure it out.

I think you are a little disappointed to hear your husband respond like this, and your husband is resistant to expressing it. Assuming your relationship is solid, try responding like this: (Title) Maybe my expression makes you feel uncomfortable (empathy), but my original intention is that I hope we can get along better and I may get to know each other better.

Can you tell me about those thoughts that make you feel uncomfortable? (You can ask the other person to try to communicate with you) so that you may be able to know the reason for the other person's emotions.

Broken love is like this, often people.

I can't help myself, and the one who suffers the most must be the person Du really loves. But you have to zhi

Knowing that feelings are a personal matter for two daos, not one person can have the final say. The person you really love can't be forgotten, you can only put her in the depths of your heart and never touch her again. Believe that time will heal everything, but don't dwell on it.

I usually have nothing to do and read more books, communicate more with friends, distract my attention, and slowly get better, and I believe that I will be able to do it.

People don't think much about you.,Some things are about fate.,Have you tried to fight for it.,If you do it, it's over.。 The world is so big, hurry up and stop next! Looking back at the history of young first love is also a kind of beauty.

Not all love has a perfect ending, all you can do is improve your superior conditions so that the next relationship will not be so passive. Some people are cowardly, they don't have a sense of superiority, they are swishing, and modern young people don't like this anymore.

If a young person has just fallen out of love, he thinks about the other person for sure, take your time, you should put your mind on your studies or work now. Keep yourself busy, you won't have time to think about it, and it will get better after a long time.

That means you want to forget that she is fake, really miss her is true, you can throw a coin, set the positive is to think, the negative is to forget, when the coin is tossed, you want to be heads or tails you know best, so you can measure what you want to do! Give it a try!

I think you're doing it on your own. There is no spectrum at all, you blindly go to lovesickness, is it useful for others? Aren't you asking for trouble?

If it doesn't belong to you, you should put it down immediately and don't think about it. I have delayed my studies. For the sake of a person who has no results, you really don't deserve it.

Your own affairs should be opened, don't worry, and then drill the horns. Doesn't that delay you? When you should put it down, you should work hard to learn, you only have to work hard to learn yourself, and if you develop well in the future, someone will naturally like you.

If you're nothing, and you really want to find a good girl, it's not easy. Therefore, in the stage of learning, people should work hard to learn and enrich themselves, so as to lay a good foundation for the future. Don't think about things that have no boundaries, things that can't be done, isn't it in vain for you to think about him?

Whatever you do, you should have some self-control. Don't waste your studies, you should study hard, this is the biggest thing in your life, marriage is fate, it will naturally appear when the time comes, what doesn't belong to you, you can't ask for it. So what should be put down should be put down.

You can only let it go if you put it down yourself, and it's useless for others to say anything. You should figure things out, and let go of what you should let go.

If you really miss her, you can talk to her. White, see what she really thinks, and if she wants to, you can get along. If she doesn't agree, you should also let go, don't think about it, and find a new love again. Find a girl who truly loves you.

It's the same, everyone has to encounter this kind of thing and it's hard to forget, because I want to love each other deeply, so I can't forget it, but it's too long. Adjust your mood. Since.

If you can't get together, you can be friends. Then find their own happiness, don't be so miserable, and free themselves from it.

First of all, I don't think it's time for you to fall in love. The mind is also immature. If you do this now, you will delay him and yourself.

Again. Falling in love is when two people are attracted to each other. I like each other.

You belong to unrequited love. It's people who treat you. Saying thank you is also a polite word to you.

Other girls don't take you to heart at all. An elephant like you will hurt yourself if you die. And it will affect your life.

And you have one of the biggest drawbacks that is. Men should dare to do it. If you do this, I will use a promise.

Anything can be done, not done.

You care about her a little too much and you can forget about her.

I think you're thinking too much about it now, and sometimes you have a lot of ideas, and it's a good thing to think more comprehensively.

Later, you said that you miss her, but you want to forget her ambivalence, in fact, I think you should have the answer in your own heart, and know the solution, but the solution is a bit difficult and the process is a bit long.

If you want to find it, don't let your life leave regrets, if you still rush now. It is said that it is all a problem, and only by moving can we get the result.

Your situation can be said to be a situation of falling out of love, but what about when you are out of love? Surely you will miss him, and you will miss him, and then you want to forget him, and it is right to forget him, and I personally think that you are trying to give up on him now. Otherwise, you'll be decadent.

You really can't continue in this state of emotional out-of-control, don't get along with yourself, if you don't extricate yourself, your spirit will collapse. You are self-inflicted, tossing yourself to death, and people don't know it, why do you bother? Wake up, friend.

The most important thing you should do right now is to divert your attention and get out and travel, watch a movie, go shopping, eat a stew or go to the gym to relax, and you will be in much better shape.

That means you don't think about her, since there is no love between them, why are you pursuing each other? This kind of relationship will torment each other even more, and you should choose a better life to cherish each other.

You've talked a lot, a lot, about your junior high school days. At that time, you lingered on it and couldn't forget it.

In fact, I think the ignorance in junior high school may only be the initial stage of dealing with love, and your liking for him and the things you did to him have also made you unable to extricate yourself for 1 degree, so I think you must see clearly whether you really like him?

A person's life for their first love, for the love they want to get is unforgettable, there may be times when you have matured, think about your past, or feel unable to let go.

So I think I forgot about it. Find your true love.

It's painful to miss someone, but it's your right to love someone, as for whether he loves you or not, you can confess to her, I think you don't have self-confidence, you don't have the courage to love, you can't be a girlfriend, you can be an ordinary friend as a classmate, and it will be good to correct your attitude.

It shows that you already love her very much, love so much that you can't forget, love so much that you only have her in your mind, the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, in this case, why not chase her, so as not to miss a good marriage!

It's the boys who don't take it seriously. At least his status in the hearts of boys is not very high. He protects the boy everywhere and thinks about the boy.

The boy didn't think about protecting her pet. I advise you to give up as soon as possible. We won't be happy together in the future.

You're an introvert, right? I don't like to socialize, but people can't only interact with relatives and friends, living in the crowd, you have to learn to deal with all kinds of people, you can't do it in all directions, at least you have to be able to adapt to changes, interpersonal communication is a great knowledge, you have to exercise yourself in the workplace, try to communicate with people more, it is helpful to go into the society to enhance personal charm, sociable people, work ability is very strong, good at using human resources, for their own maximum interests, so you have to exercise! If you don't like something, you have to try to do it, and it will become a habit.

I read your description very carefully, and in view of your situation, I personally think that many of the ideas are your own speculation. Although you are silently watching the other person, the other person is not aware of what you are doing. It's just your own unrequited love, if it's always like this, you're just a passerby A and a passerby in the other party's life, and you're just a former classmate of the other party, maybe because you haven't studied in the past few years, the other party may not remember who you are, and your name may also be a code name in the other party's heart.

So your so-called missing may not mean anything at all. The interaction between people lies in communication, and if there is no communication, even the best friends may become strangers. The same is true for feelings, and feelings also need to be maintained for a long time, accumulated for a long time, and accompanied for a long time.

may not be nice to say about the relationship between you and her now, there may not be anything between you at all, you have loved deeply, and it is possible to continue the relationship. But what is there between you? You haven't started, you haven't confessed your heart, you just ask about other people's life trajectories and other people's emotional states again and again, what does this mean?

Charge members for each other, send red envelopes for each other, and the other party doesn't know who it is? None of this says anything. The most important thing you should do now is to get in touch with this girl, maintain your friendship, and confess your heart through a long period of communication.

No matter what the outcome is, you will not be left with regrets.

Who is she, is she so charming, does it make you so worried? Have you known her, have you spoken, her situation includes the family's finances, parents' feelings, and these private information, you have inquired about it. I'm a girl, I only know that girls also like to be remembered, but this person can definitely get into her eyes, for example, you are good, your family is not bad, and you are handsome, otherwise to be honest, even if you are very ordinary, you will not compromise.

Don't you know what to do, I can't control my thoughts, I miss her so much, you're temporary, you'll forget it after a long time, and the fastest thing to forget is to find a girlfriend again.

Why are you upset? What you have lost is just a person who doesn't love you and doesn't care about you, and it should be her who is sad, he has lost someone who loves him.

Hey, unrequited love, maybe you will never contact again for a lifetime, but you will remember it for a lifetime; Maybe there is no longer a heartbeat, but there is still heartache. Leave a place that never changes, watch, read; Wait for a distant but clear name, remember, save. It's not that I don't want to, it's just that I don't bother anymore; It's not that I don't love it, it's just that I don't look forward to it anymore

What I can't forget is not the past, but the feelings. It turns out that the most painful ending of fate is that the heart has changed, and the feelings are still there.

How many people have nothing to talk about; How many fates, from once met to separated overnight. The depth of fate is always near and far; The warmth and coldness of people's hearts are always changing. The familiar is strange, the strange is far away; People are in love, and people are cold when they go to tea.

Your story is very long, I feel that you love her very much, but you are tormenting yourself, you have missed the opportunity to confess again and again, you have to confess boldly if you love her, even if she rejects you, at least you have worked hard and fought for it, and now you are completely living in your own world, what you do may not mean anything to her, maybe she has been moved by you, but every time she really has to face her, she disguises herself so indifferently, maybe she has caused an illusion and does not feel your deep affection for her, So, guy, since you can't forget her, you should be brave and tell her that all your heart,,, even if you are just disappointed, but your heart will be easier than before.