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No, everyone has their own way of living, honest people are generally a very good bully in the eyes of others, as long as they live their own lives and are worthy of themselves, they can still survive, right?
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Just because you're honest doesn't mean you have to be bullied, you have your own principles, and everything has a certain limit, and that's fine.
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This society has everything.
It's up to you whether you lose or not.
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No, it depends on the circle in which each person lives.
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Category: Annoyance.
Problem description: Nowadays, people say that being honest is useless, and I am ridiculed everywhere I go.
I'm also trying hard to adapt to this society. But sometimes I'm crying alone for no apparent reason. I feel useless.
Can anyone tell me how to get rid of it?
Analysis: When you don't know what to do, ask a psychiatrist, read books on this subject, and get in touch with people. People should be chic, perhaps, honesty is your character, turn your shortcomings into your strengths.
People still have to be a little grumpy sometimes. People still have to change and adapt to society, and maintain the honest and good side, which many people do not have, and the honest and weak side should be discarded. But there are still some things that should be endured.
When you have capital, you have money, you have the ability, the right to do it, remember, Lincoln said that those people are just mad dogs. And honesty is not that there is anything wrong, often the quality of honest people is the true meaning of life. If, people are using a piece of skin on the surface, then.
The ghost saw that it would not and scared away. In addition, it is said that the Chinese are very smart, but China is still so poor and has so many contradictions today, on the contrary, foreign people are so stupid and so honest, but when they want to be cunning, they are more cunning than anything else, because they are all for the interests of the country, that is, their own interests, and they have made China so mixed. Isn't this just some traitors in China who think they are smart, so if they are smart, they should be smart externally, and if they are honest, they should be honest internally.
Don't do it the other way around. Good character and quality are a kind of sublimation, and being a human being should be. is a gentleman and a talented woman.
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No, I don't agree with you.
It is the same for everyone to survive in society. They are all facing the same things, the same relationships, the same efforts to make money, and the same support for their families. It's not because you're smart and cunning that you can live a better life, you have to have the right starting point.
First: do things.
Take doing things as an example, whether it is a boss or an individual, they don't like people who cheat and cheat, people who like to do practical things, people who do practical things are down-to-earth, reliable, and trustworthy.
Second: Make friends.
Whoever will make scheming friends must make trustworthy and heart-to-heart friends so that they will have long-term friendship and better development.
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It is not difficult for honest people to survive in society, it is precisely because of their honesty and kindness that people are willing to deal with this kind of people, just ask, who doesn't like such people, don't have to calculate everywhere, treat each other honestly in everything, even if you occasionally suffer, but it is in this process of suffering losses, make some good friends, easy to get, confidants are hard to find. Speaking of work problems, it seems that you will suffer, but do you really think that bosses like employees who are flamboyant and calculating all day long? It's gold that always shines, and before you know it, your boss will spot your highlights and reuse you.
In the enterprise, honest people work hard, do the most, take the least; There are many empty words to be gained, and there are few practical benefits to be shared; There are many who are exploited, and few are cared for; When you go to work, honest people go first, and when you, honest people go first!
In marriage, honest people pay silently, and shrewd people provoke thorns. If you are a little negligent, you don't love him, and if he deliberately makes a mistake, you have something wrong. You bring the child, you wash the clothes, you wipe the floor, and he just lays down on the sofa. Ask for warmth in front of people, and scold Huai behind people.
In social networking, if he borrows money, you don't borrow it, you don't pay it back, if you want money, he doesn't pay it back, you are stingy, if you borrow money, he ignores it, you recognize your brother, and if you borrow money and you don't borrow it, he doesn't pay it back, you are stupid, and if you don't borrow money, you show that you are a thief!
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People's hearts are diverse, each has its own scheming, regardless of daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so mutual suspicion, the mentality of deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but reluctantly, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key in their own life and things, and flexibly adjust their mentality. The way of thinking and the skills of dealing with people, struggle is a must, otherwise bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance the competitive strength, always remind yourself to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, as for the trust of others, get along well or not, not subjective thoughts can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.
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Hello, it is not difficult for honest people to survive in this society, the most important thing for honest people is kindness, but they also need to be wise. If everyone is not an honest person, then this society is really terrible.
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It is really difficult for honest people to develop in society, and it is easy to survive. It is easy for anyone to survive with ingenuity and hard work. Honest people are nothing more than bad at camping and sycophants, but this does not affect survival.
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I don't think it's necessarily very difficult for honest people to really survive in society, and they can't be generalized. Because sometimes you survive in society, not only your ability to work, but also emotional intelligence, and dealing with people is also very important, and sometimes the proportion is quite large. Although some people are honest, it does not mean that his emotional intelligence is low, his behavior is still good, if his work ability and behavior are good, I think it is still okay.
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No. Honest people still survive well in society. Because honest people have good qualities, their hearts are very kind.
And there is a bottom line of the principle of being a man. Possess basic moral qualities and will be recognized by the public. So honest people still survive very well in society.
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Honest people are not really difficult to survive in society, but they are very popular, they are worth socializing and cooperating, and honest people will definitely succeed.
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It is not difficult for honest people to survive in society, but they will live a down-to-earth and calm life. Honest people don't take shortcuts, as if they get less and suffer more, but they often always have the last laugh.
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Yes, it is difficult for honest people to survive in this deceitful society, because everyone is not honest, you always look stupid, of course, honest people, honest people are teachers, remember the blessings of teachers and teachers, don't worry too much.
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I don't think it's hard for honest people to survive in society. Because the interpersonal social environment that honest people encounter in society is different.
Some honest people encounter some very good interpersonal environment in society, then his interpersonal communication is very good, and everyone may like him more, I think his situation is a better one. But on the contrary, there is an honest person, he is easily bullied, so his living environment and social environment are not good, and he may be easily damaged in terms of survival.
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It's not really difficult for honest people to survive in society, because honest people are the easiest to be trusted, and honest people are the easiest to make friends. No matter what kind of person you are, when it comes to making real friends, you will choose honest people. Because honest people can be relied on at all times, and their kindness is the greatest treasure.
Take life seriously, honest people can also live well.
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It is not difficult for honest people to survive in society, and after a long time, people will understand you, and they will look at you differently as a person, and they will also respect you very much, so it is necessary to have a moral bottom line to be a man, and people must be an honest person, which is very respected by people.
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It is not difficult for honest people to survive in society, because honest people are very down-to-earth, if they can learn a skill, rely on their own skills to make money, to live, they can also live very well, because honest people do things that everyone likes and can trust.
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The concept of an honest person, an honest person is a person who tells the truth and does things practically. It is not easy to survive in society, even if it is a person who is delicate and eloquent, it is not easy to survive in society. What I want to say is that it is difficult and easy to survive in society, it is my own feeling, honest people are more likely to be recognized by people, and it is easier for relatively dishonest people to survive in society.
The concept of an honest person, an honest person is a person who tells the truth and does things practically. It is not easy to survive in society, even if it is a person who is delicate and eloquent, it is not easy to survive in society. What I want to say is that it is difficult and easy to survive in society, it is my own feeling, honest people are more likely to be recognized by people, and it is easier for relatively dishonest people to survive in society.
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Honesty, duty is a virtue, but it is not a survival skill, if you are too honest and don't know how to get along with other people, don't know how to protect your legitimate rights and interests, then this kind of honesty is meaningless and it is really difficult to survive.
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Honest people survive in this society.
It's not really hard to survive.
The premise is to have wisdom as well.
The most important quality of an honest person is kindness.
If everyone is honest.
Then this society is really the best.
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Honest people may not be difficult to survive in society, although honest people may be hit by a wall in society, it is possible to be the best way, but in general, most people are still honest and kind, they still recognize honest people, so don't worry as an honest person.
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Hello! I think honest people in society is not difficult to survive, everyone has their own way of survival, honest people also have their own way of survival, no matter how to survive, it is necessary personal efforts, struggle, hard work, will make themselves happier.
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No, it should be said that honest people can easily survive in society, but they may not live an easy life.
Generally, because honest people give people the impression that they are harmless to humans and animals, they will not pose a threat to others, so most people will not deliberately target, although there will be some contempt, but they will not pose a threat to survival.
However, honest people will not get the respect and recognition of others because they are too honest, and it is difficult to have better career promotion or other development space.
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It is not difficult for honest people to survive in society, as long as honest people are willing to work hard and endure hardships, in fact, they can survive in society.
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If the kind of honest person you are talking about is a social person who works hard, does not play tricks, and is willing to do it, I think this kind of person can survive well in society, after all, people who work hard can survive no matter how good they are. But if you are talking about honest people who are very straightforward and say what he thinks is honest regardless of the occasion, I think this kind of person can be regarded as low emotional intelligence, and it is indeed difficult for them to survive in society, because people with high emotional intelligence are more suitable for this society.
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People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. This is an old saying that has been used for thousands of years. Now this society can't be too honest, and it will suffer. Don't be too cunning, everyone stays away from you. Be tactful... When you see people, you talk about people, and when you see ghosts, you talk nonsense.
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Knowing how to protect yourself and how to deal with bad intentions is a necessary survival skill.
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Wrong, a shrewd boss likes honest people, so he can be a good bully.
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Society!! The meaning is too great! It's hard to be honest! I'm one of them! The feeling of not being able to move an inch!
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It doesn't have to be about the environment.
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No, honest people have the benefits of honest people.
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Honest and dishonest people do things like a passbook and a card. One is to go through countless setbacks and still keep to himself, and the other is to grasp various things flexibly and seem to be proactive. The honest person you are talking about should be the stupid child of the stupid kid song.
**The protagonist in Nezha, the magic pill in Nezha.
Honest people can withstand setbacks and can see the true face of people in order to survive. The purpose of survival is the experience that must be experienced in order to live well. He is not honest, he is flexible, and all kinds of nature in life give him convenience. But there is no steadiness of an honest man.
An honest man doesn't look and feel beautiful, and even anyone thinks he's ugly, and no one wants to look at him. I would like to say that beautiful things are like the feeling of people looking at the clouds in the sky for a moment, and only for the sake of life is the healthy mentality of people, and it is also the real and eternal spirit of progress. Something real and eternal is like the earth, it is never beautiful.
Honest people are very stubborn, and if you want to survive, you don't need to change yourself. There are too many floating clouds outside of yourself, so you do what you have to do and think about it. With the accumulation of experience over time, you will find that your own world is not smaller than the world of dishonest people, although you are not aggressive, but you do not play the role of mutual harm.
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