Why is love so complicated in reality?

Hello! I've experienced your current mood. You're struggling right now.

On one side is the person you love the most. On one side are his own parents. It's really difficult.

What your mother said also makes sense. I'm afraid that you will suffer after marrying into his family before. Bullied.

It's not what you think. You can get married if you rent a house. The reality is not as rosy as imagined.

So you should be realistic and think about your happiness in the future. Your mom is all for your good. Of course your father obeyed his daughter.

Did your boyfriend's family decide not to buy a house? If it's possible. I still want them to buy it.

If your boyfriend really loves you. I think he can do that, Lord. His parents first proposed this, saying that they would get married and buy a house.

Their family should have the money to buy it. Maybe it's some reason now. Or I'm afraid that you will ignore them when you get married, and you will not be filial.

Maybe I won't buy it. Maybe it's because of these reasons. You can't listen to your boyfriend and say that if you don't buy it, you won't buy it.

You give it to him because you reason. As for your mother's side. Your boyfriend is supposed to do a lot of work.

The human heart is made of flesh. Your parents want you to be happy, too. If the boyfriend really doesn't have the money to buy a house.

I also decided that I had no money to buy a house. Then you should let your boyfriend do your mom's job. It is to impress your mother with the most sincere heart.

Let your mom know. He is a good son-in-law. It will definitely be good to you when you get married.

It will definitely be good to your parents. Impress your parents with the heart that loves you. I think your parents will approve of you.

It's been a year together, and it's not like it's divided. It is more important for two people to love each other than anything else. In case it is true that the family does not have enough money to buy.

You'd love to be together. That's all there is to it. It is said that behind a love story, there is a bitter experience.

I guess that's how it is. If you really want to get married together. Then do what you want.

Just live together. It is also difficult for parents-in-law and mother-in-law to get along. But if you treat your own parents like you do.

They will also be nice to you. Now there are a few young people who are not good for the elderly. I guess you are too.

I hope to have a good relationship with my in-laws. Feelings come slowly. So think about what's in front of you first.

It's all for your happiness. You still have to choose your own path. If it's just because your mom wants you to share.

Then you will be divided. Do you think your relationship is deep? Will it stand the test?

Maybe it's a test of your feelings. Test your boyfriend's sincerity. Hope you are happy and happy!

There is always a good side and a bad side. It's up to you to think about it. Have fun beauties!!

The landlord took the liberty to ask, how old are you two this year?

In fact, your mother is afraid that you will suffer in the future, in a word, she feels sorry for you, just like you said that she raised you.

I have loved you for more than 20 years, and I am afraid that you will find a master to suffer in the past and leave her.

It's like you said that for him, and he can be together, and he is willing to rent a house, you are just saying stupid things, naïve, think about it yourself, his family is cheating, understand?

In fact, every parent hopes that their children can live well in the future, and in an economy like the present, the top priority for both men and women to get married is the house, but it is all up to this, and your relationship is not bad, if someone does not have the financial ability for a while, as long as his house is not crowded, and your parents-in-law live together, I don't think it has anything to do with it.

Besides, there's nothing wrong with living together, and if you have children in the future, it's easier for them to bring them for you, right? If you do what your mother did, wouldn't a boy who doesn't have a house find a wife? Don't be shaken by this incident, you must be in love, you are going to get married, and if your boyfriend is very self-motivated, responsible, and loves you very much, it is worth more than a house, and it must not be married and there is really no house to live in, right?

Let's talk to your mother about it, it's not easy for these heads to meet someone who really loves each other, take advantage of it, I wish you happiness!

Many lovers in this world will encounter the same distress as you ... The reality is indeed very cruel ... These cruel tears apart countless lovers who love each other ...

You have a good relationship with him ... Then have faith ... Lovers will be together after all...

I advise your mother to take your time here ... I suggest that your boyfriend please your mother more... Go to your house for the New Year to give some gifts...

When I usually go to your house... Bring some nutrition... Or what she loves to eat...

The mind needs to change slowly ...

If your mother doesn't agree ... You can save money with your boyfriend... Save more in your salary...

Get married later... Saved enough money... Use a loan to buy a house...

Just enough money to afford a down payment... But life after that was hard...

But you have to know ... The path of love will not always be so straight ... There will always be ups and downs ... There are deep and shallow... It is a test of the resilience of your love ...

I wish you all the best to solve this problem ... Living happily together ...

There are very few party girls like you, and I envy your boyfriend. Marriage is a matter of two families, not just the two of you. There will be a lot of problems, but as long as the two of you love each other, you can help each other.

I think the difficulties will be solved. You should be obedient to your parents' opinions, and be flexible. It will take time to solve the problem.

I wish you all happiness.

Have you watched "Spring Grass", have you watched "The Sky of History", there are many ways for a man to move his mother-in-law, the main thing is to have the quality of perseverance and a heart that loves you.

What kind of person is your boyfriend? Is it worth it for you? But your mother's objection is not unreasonable, I suggest you compromise, if you have economic problems, don't buy a big house, can't you buy a smaller transition?

One is to make your mother feel at ease, the second is to show the sincerity of his family, and the third is to avoid living with his parents after marriage, which is the root of the conflict. So you have to think twice.

Mom is all for your good, think about it carefully, in fact, you understand the truth, and you know how to do it.

Just want to be affirmed by others, right?

Do what you want and support you

Be strong.

Because there are interests, because of the selfishness of human nature.

If you really love each other, no problem is a problem!

Your mother is really not a thing.

thinks that love has become complicated, but they don't understand the basis of love. The germination of love is particularly sacred, from the appreciation of the other party to sprout love, but the maintenance of a love is not only by appreciation or sexual impulse, the maintenance of love is also a science, and even directly reflects a person's emotional intelligence, that is, communication ability.

The maintenance of love is similar to the essence of most friendships, which are based on the exchange of interests, so those who only want to blindly give, or blindly harvest, it is impossible to maintain a love, for example: some girls often say to their boyfriends: Do you like me, or just like my appearance!

Girls who ask this kind of question can only say that they deserve not to find love, the so-called love at first sight is mostly based on appearance, regardless of men and women, your appearance is one of the conditions for the exchange of love, many girls fall in love for a period of time and become less and less dressed up, making themselves very sloppy, overly dependent on boys, boys have a little opinion, you will say that he doesn't love you. Why does he love you? He loves you who was slim and well-dressed at the beginning, not the unkempt and sloppy you now!

Many girls are the kind of over-harvesting, but they never thought about what they would pay for each other, how can such a love last long, how can it not be complicated? The boy is the same, he found a girlfriend, at first he asked for warmth, he took care of everything, and after a long time, he treated his girlfriend as a mother, and he came and went immediately, he played games all day long, and he didn't want to make progress, and his girlfriend endured the discomfort of the menstrual period to wash and cook for you, and you didn't even say "drink more hot water", and when your girlfriend couldn't bear to break up, you went to complain to others about her substance? She cheated on you?

And then shouting that I don't believe in love anymore!

Therefore, love is not simply I like you, you like me enough, love needs to be managed, and each other needs to have conditions that can be exchanged, whether it is your own advantages, or other resources, these conditions are based on exchange. Recognizing this, love is not complicated!

Because the current love is mixed with certain interests, and marriage does have to have a certain economic foundation.

This is because there are many complex factors that go into love in modern society. And there are also many people who will weigh the pros and cons in love, so it will cause love to become more and more complicated.

In this day and age, it's not that love has become so complicated, it's that people's hearts are more complicated, because some love now has impurities and is not as pure as before.