Question 20 about puppy love in a junior high school student

Why did you like her in the first place? Why don't you like her again now?

It can be said that children at this age don't know what love is at all, if you don't like the new and hate the old, then you are mature and grow up a little more, and understand more... Then I think she might have thought the same way. If not, you can keep some distance from her, just like ordinary friends, after a long time, the distance between the heart will be opened, and it may not be you who propose to break up at that time...

Most of the youth is friendship, I hope you think about it and bless you!!

When you enter society, you may be separated.

Maybe you understand something, and then you separate, and now all you see is everything in front of you.

Since you are together, you should cherish it, one day you break up, maybe you won't think about her anymore, but at least you definitely can't forget her, don't play love, it's not easy to meet someone you like and like yourself.

You tell her, "We still have a long way to go, but the most important thing at the moment is to learn." After learning, we can get in touch again.

I don't want you to waste your best study time because of me. Trust me, you can also take this as a test between us. ”

You can also use each other as a motivation to read, so that you can read good books without hurting anyone.

There are nine general culture exams in the high school entrance examination, more time to review, more knowledge points to review, six subjects in the college entrance examination, and the comprehensive can be directly brushed with the comprehensive test papers, and the difficulty of recovering the boring empty practice is much smaller.

3.Junior high school students talk early and affect their learning, and it is not easy to control their emotions.

Junior high school students are more likely to delay their studies and their grades will decline, which will also affect the results of the high school entrance examination and increase the difficulty of being admitted to high school. 4.Junior high school students lack restraint.

Junior high school students are generally exposed to mobile phones, which will affect their learning, and their test scores will also decline, which will affect the high school entrance examination.

5.Junior high school is generally not repeated, but high school can be repeated.

I remember that when I was in school, junior high school could be repeated, but now there are fewer repeaters, high school can be repeated, and you can take the college entrance examination many times, and there are relatively more opportunities.

It's normal, but it should also be moderate, because the scruffiness of the scholar can be said to be especially good, and the timidity of the woman cannot be said. Therefore, it is still important to focus on your studies now, but find someone with the same grades as you, and you can also improve yourself together. Hope to adopt!! Thank you.

I think it's normal. This is already a very common thing. Here are five tips for junior high school students to fall in love: (Take a good look at the suitable for parents and friends).

1. Face it with a normal heart.

For children's early love, there is actually nothing to make a fuss about. We ourselves have come from this period, who has not had a beautiful yearning in their hearts? Haven't you ever had your first love?

It's just that your first love is very hidden! But to be honest, first love should be the most beautiful and the memory of our life.

2. Don't treat children with early love roughly.

A child's development can be early and late. Early children are likely to fall in love when they are in junior high school. This is also a very normal physiological development.

As parents, we should be mentally prepared for this as early as possible. Don't feel embarrassed and embarrassed as soon as you find out that your child is in early love. So they interfere with the child or threaten the child with force.

3. Explain the consequences to your child.

Children at this time cannot yet think about too many things. They just do things out of curiosity under the influence of physiological growth. But it is impossible for people in this period to extricate themselves.

Therefore, parents should explain the consequences of doing this to their children, but resolutely do not threaten them. In that way, you can only make your child feel that he is not warm from you, so that he can only go to his love interest. In the end, it backfires.

4. Parents should be mentally prepared in advance.

In fact, everyone's children have to grow up. Therefore, as parents, we must be mentally prepared in advance. After your child enters junior high school, you should communicate with your child about this issue from time to time.

It's okay to ask them if the school has a partner. Make your child feel psychologically that you don't care very much about it. At the same time, the more he talks, the less curious he may be.

5. Don't take it too seriously.

Parents should not talk to their children about this as if they were facing a great enemy. Say it lightly, or even make a joke with your child when he's happy and tell him something like that. This way, your child will not be too nervous and will be very cooperative with you.

In fact, every parent hopes that their children can grow up healthily. Let's adjust our own mentality first.

Nothing is just out of order. Look at the right eye and talk.

Parents can calmly talk to him and let him focus on his studies.

The problem of early love is widespread, and parents of early love for boys in the first year of junior high school should have a good talk with their children, telling him that early love is not terrible, that falling in love means responsibility, and that children should develop in a good way and be responsible for themselves and each other.

I think you should look at the problem rationally, and then tell your children to become friends with the people you like, and you must study hard at this age, so that you can give your loved ones a better life when they grow up.