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Everyone has their own characteristics, not necessarily you are a bad thing, maybe it's because you are very honest, there will be people who appreciate you, if you are really so inferior is your problem. In addition, if you are very focused on doing one thing, and by a little achievement, others will not think you are wooden!
Good luck!
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Go and read that book that hit the nail on the head, and call people not to be too honest. I used to be like you, but not now.
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Watch more comedies and have a more sense of humor, and it will be easier to get along with people.
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Just like Xu Sanduo, they can all get mixed with the old A
You can learn from him, if you don't like that type, then you can get in touch with people more, and you will be clever after a long time, but you should first make your mind more flexible, and your mind will go faster
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Contact more people, and the more outstanding ones will naturally be smart!
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How to see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. Experiences and experiences are accumulated little by little. So men are still old.
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If you find your shortcomings, you can buy some related books to read
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If you are a girl, it is recommended to watch more Korean dramas;
If you are a guy, it is recommended to have more girlfriends.
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It depends on what kind of environment you're in.
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Except for myself, I'm all stupid" ok?
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Have you ever been in such a situation?
Cleverness means to be smart and clever, which is different from scheming and conspiracing, it is a kind of praise for people. The opposite of cleverness is stupidity. Stupid people are mostly unlikable, mainly because it takes more energy and time to interact and communicate with stupid people, and the final result may be that the bamboo basket is empty.
And dealing with clever people gives people the feeling of being comfortable, which is the upper level of interpersonal communication.
In what ways can you tell if a person is clever (not clever):
A clever person has a pair of observant eyes, can pay attention to what is in front of him, and can see not only the superficial things, but also the hidden content.
Clever people, with a measured mouth, know to be polite and take the initiative to greet and show goodwill, such as the person who takes the initiative to say hello to you when you meet, it is definitely easier to get your favor, and this mouth can also get more information and resources in the active consultation and understanding, so that when others mention, they have a better chance to have their own opinions, so as not to be asked.
Clever people have a thoughtful mind, can see the true thoughts and needs of their hearts from the words and deeds of others, and provide a reliable basis for their own actions. For example, if someone else doesn't make a request directly because of the situation, but if you can understand the difficulties and needs of the other person through pondering, and take the initiative to give advice and help, you will definitely be able to make a better impression on the other party.
A clever person has a pair of diligent hands and feet, and can respond as quickly as possible at any time when there is a situation, reflecting his enthusiasm and ability. For example, if someone is smoking, you quickly hand over an ashtray to make people pay more attention to you.
A clever person has a huge and restrained heart, and is always humble and low-key, and can tolerate people's mistakes. This kind of behavior makes the usual social circle more harmonious and likable.
The real cleverness is not a momentary cleverness, but a reaction to a person's comprehensive quality, which needs to be shaped wholeheartedly from the inside out, from top to bottom. Through continuous experience, making mistakes, learning, practice, perception, and reflection, we can train a smart person who is liked.
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In fact, it is easy to make yourself smart.
Landlord, in fact, get along with people, I give you a few suggestions:
1. Remember that everyone has an excellent side, and when you see the advantages of others, you will not have a sense of disgust;
2. In the usual contact, we should treat everyone sincerely, communicate more and often talk about family things, so as to enhance friendship;
3. Listen carefully when others tell you what is in your heart, so that the other party can feel that you care about him very much, analyze them carefully, and help them get rid of their troubles;
4. Take the initiative to greet each other when you meet, don't ignore others, sometimes be modest, and treat each other as equals in general;
5. The time made with others must be punctual, if you can't arrive, you must let others be psychologically prepared;
6. When listening to others, you should look at your eyes squarely, don't look left and right, otherwise others will think that you are absent-minded;
Landlord, remember, everyone is the loveliest person, your heart must be relaxed, so that your mood and behavior will not be affected. The watchtower lord adopted.
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Doing more math problems will make you smarter, and you will naturally become smarter.
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Do more questions that are similar to test responses.
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If you want to make yourself a little more shrewd in dealing with people, first of all, you can read more books on interpersonal communication, and if you can afford it, it is recommended that you can participate in some interpersonal communication training courses, so that the progress will be faster, but the most important thing is our practice. That is, it is necessary to combine theory and practice. When you learn, you have to practice to get results.
Read more books, practice more, and participate in more courses and trainings like this, and you will quickly become clever in dealing with people.
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Hello, you ask this, I think you are very clever in terms of dealing with people, I think it's the opposite, just think about it, in front of others, is to show each other's strengths, collect our shortcomings. So, communicative, bold is the main thing. Anyway, everyone has their own point of view, so you can slowly summarize the set that suits you.
I wish you always success.
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Things gather by like, people by groups, first of all, you should find such a circle, and secondly, watch more Wei Xiaobao TV series, or something like that**.
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1. Remember that everyone has an excellent side, and when you see the advantages of others, you will not have a sense of disgust;
2. In the usual contact, we should treat everyone sincerely, communicate more and often talk about family things, so as to enhance friendship;
3. Listen carefully when others tell you what is in your heart, so that the other party can feel that you care about him very much, analyze them carefully, and help them get rid of their troubles;
4. Take the initiative to greet each other when you meet, don't ignore others, sometimes be modest, and treat each other as equals in general;
5. The time made with others must be punctual, if you can't arrive, you must let others be psychologically prepared;
6. When listening to others, you should look at your eyes squarely, don't look left and right, otherwise others will think that you are absent-minded;
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It depends on how much exercise you usually have. Chat with others more often, and you will get used to it.
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First of all, you must control yourself, so that you do not think crankily in your head, so that you can concentrate, and then do a few things that are useful for your work and life. So that your mind can rest for a while.
Secondly, let yourself be fully confident, don't always hesitate to do anything, don't believe in yourself, and end up thinking a lot and doing very little.
Third, protect your kidneys, many people are just because of their bad kidneys, and then they always feel mysterious, as if there are ghosts or gods around them.
Fourth, sleep well, a good sleep is not about sleeping for a long time, but about effective sleep can be guaranteed. This will make you energetic and smart.
Fifth, eat more brain-nourishing foods such as walnuts, which can also refresh your mind.
Sixth, strengthen physical exercise, the body is good, and everything else will naturally follow.
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Go to different places and see more different worlds.
Me too, I sat in the first row, I used to cry when the teacher inadvertently swept me, but now, I dare to ask the teacher questions, that is, my heart beats very fast, laughs a few times, looks in the mirror a few times, keeps praising myself, and when I am thick-skinned, I am extroverted o( o haha
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