What does it feel like to break up with someone you ve been with for a long time?

I always thought it was family, never abandoned, got married and had children. So breaking up is like stripping you out of my life. I can't adapt, I can't adapt, I still dream of you at night, I still hope you call me, I want you to say, dear, I love you.

There are some bursts of pain in my heart, after all, we have been together for a long time, and when we are together, we will cause labor pains when we think about it! But I believe that time will dilute everything ...

I feel that I can't complete everything that the two of you have planned, and I have left a lot of regrets, so I just want to think about doing more things together before.

When he has long been a habit of yours, a part of your life, he takes away a part of you, no matter how you are separated, it will hurt.

It's a man who has been very lazy for many years, and suddenly one day he begins to become unusually manic and extremely diligent, and he dares to go back to sleep every day when he is tired to death, and when he wakes up in the morning, he runs out of the house to find something to do, but he has no goals and objectives, he is confused, he has no expectations, and he is just passing the time.

After a long time, many things will be habitually smoked, and it has nothing to do with love or not, just like I used to bring soup for dinner, and one day I will think about it if I don't bring soup.

Now that more than half a year has passed, I still feel that that person is still there, and he has always been a very strong person who refuses to admit defeat, but he is particularly fragile when he thinks of him.

I'm afraid that he's not happy, and I'm afraid he's happy but not me. He's still as important to me as he was before 1. ‍‍

Subconsciously thought they were still together. And then at some point, the sky fell when reality was smothered. ‍‍

I've figured out what I'm going to say to him if he comes to me one day, and I'm going to tell him that I really miss him. ‍‍

People who have been together for a long time will break up inexplicably, and I think there will be the following reasons.

The first reason may be that they have been together for a long time, and the two parties have understood each other better, and the habits of both parties have been revealed. At the beginning, it can be tolerated, but over time, the party who pays more will be tired, and the party who is tolerated will become a matter of course. If both parties cannot tolerate and understand each other, then a breakup will be ushered in.

The second reason is that people will attract each other together, and at the same time, people will also exclude each other together. When people's emotions are high, two people are attracted to each other, and they occupy a major position. When two people get along for a long time, each other's hearts will appear, and a lot of boredom and dissatisfaction are just hidden in the ordinary little things of daily life and do not explode.

But if you can't give each other happiness, you just get upset or don't understand each other, and there will be rejection between men and women. When the repulsive force reaches its peak, the two people naturally separate.

The third reason is that there is no inexplicability, and the time is too long, from the beginning of tolerance to the final tolerance, there is a lack of serious communication in the middle, and countless small contradictions and dissatisfaction and the grievances of both sides that they think they are accumulated, and after a long time, it will explode in a particularly small matter, but this small thing is not the source of the outbreak and the emotions that have been accumulated for a long time, so there is no inexplicability, but the time bomb is time to explode.

The fourth reason is that maybe two people are not suitable to be together at all, maybe the love has grown old after a long time, and there is no longer the original appearance. After getting married, the shortcomings of the two people are exposed, even if it is a living habit, a small ** habit may be exposed to each other, so there is no privacy at all. The beauty of each other fades, so love is old.

When neither of them can stand each other, it's time to break up. Unless both are able to accept each other's shortcomings.

There is no emotion, and the real emotion has faded; The other party's character was finally exposed, and he couldn't bear it; There are some bad habits in the other party's life, such as smoking and drinking, which their own people can't stand it; The other party is not motivated at all, and it is very likely that they will rely on themselves.

I think it is possible to break up because of emotional discord, or it is possible to break up because of some conflicts, and it is also possible to break up because of disagreement, or it is possible to break up because of family factors, and if the situation is very serious, it is also possible to break up because of some quarrels.

Two people have been together for a long time and have no feelings, maybe the other party has done something to hurt their feelings, the other party has been waiting for the opportunity to break up, the other party has done something to hurt the other half, and has never considered the feelings of the other half, so they will break up inexplicably.

People who have been together for a long time want to break up, then there are many reasons. It may be that two people are tired of this relationship and feel that there is nothing new anymore. Or it was defeated because of some problems in reality.

There are no emotions anymore, or the environmental conditions have changed. Others have changed. The two of them themselves understand the reason for the breakup very well, but outsiders find it inexplicable.

There are several reasons, the first is the individual, the second is the family, and the third is the economic situation, which may lead to a breakup.

I think it may be because the two people don't love each other anymore, can't communicate, can't communicate, can't speak, and have a mistress.

may be because the relationship between two people has slowly changed, and secondly, because two people live together, there is no emotion, and there is no fun, or because one party has a new love.

I think people who have been together for a long time have broken up inexplicably, and I think there are some reasons, maybe it is because they have caused some contradictions, and the contradictions have not been resolved.

I think if two people have been together for a long time, there will be some unevenness in life, there will be some contradictions, and then the contradictions will pile up and break up.

People who have been together for a long time will break up inexplicably, and I think there will be two people who have not solved the problem for a long time before they break up.

Because this person has given a lot in this relationship, and this person has also put all his energy into this relationship, so it will be very sad.

Because a breakup is a big blow to a person, and there are many people who are very shy, so this situation will occur.

Because their reaction arc is relatively long, and they will feel that they have no other party after a long time of breaking up, and they are very sad.

Because there is no mindfulness determination to go down with the draft of the key sleepy.

Many couples are together because of good feelings and impulsiveness, but once they enter the cold period, they feel tired and bored, so they break up.

This kind of relationship is just playing, a really good relationship can still get through the cold period, and both parties are each other's spiritual pillars, can go through a long time, and finally enter marriage.