What kind of psychology do you analyze me, what kind of psychology do I have?

In fact, a lot of people's pain is waiting out, because of waiting, so the work is always not settled, they will make a negative evaluation of themselves, feel that they can't do it, there is no hope, this state will lead to people's psychological nameless troubles and irritability.

Solution: 1. Act immediately and find a job. If you can't find a job that you're satisfied with for a while, find a transition job, no matter what the job is.

Before looking for a job, don't set yourself how to do it, don't be too demanding, the purpose is to find a job, on the one hand, you can relieve your psychological pressure, on the other hand, to alleviate the family's financial constraints to do some practical things.

2. Before looking for a job, you should have the belief of suffering. Because you have been at home for so long, the conditions at home are better than outside after all, so, after going out, you will feel uncomfortable, and you need to give yourself some time to allow yourself to have a process of adaptation, so, you will definitely encounter all kinds of difficulties. As long as you are mentally prepared to overcome difficulties, you will have the courage and strength to overcome them, and nothing will be able to stump you.

3. When looking for a job, as long as the job is suitable for you, don't put forward too high requirements for the time being, such as treatment issues, and work for a period of time first; Besides, after using it for a period of time, seeing that you are a talent that people need, they will naturally consider your treatment.

18 years old and 2 years of junior college? Secondary school bar.

In fact, you can change your mentality, everything has to look a little away, in fact, everyone will encounter setbacks in their lives, the key is to see how you face it, now we are very envious of those stars, their idols, successful people, but which one does not have a bitter story, we can first find a job to adapt, increase some of our own experience, and then find a good job that suits us in the future, after all, we are still young, and there are many opportunities to choose their future, Think about it and wish you success.

You can go and recharge again....It would be better to learn other skills, or just go for an apprenticeship first...

Hello, it's really a coincidence, you call this guy I have his problem. (Although there is a high probability that you are alone in these two problems.) snickering).

If you ask these two questions yourself, I think you really care, if you really like him, I think a hug is not an overreaction, love should be expressed in the most primitive and direct way, let the other party know, there is a saying: The first sign of true love is bold in girls and timid in boys. Because you like it, you will be like this, and because you like it, you will have the idea of jealousy, control, and possession.

Of course, pure ambiguity is not to like it, I think you have done it too much. So why do you do this, in fact, the most important thing to ask yourself is whether you like him.

What are the initial ambiguous performances of male bosses? The most troublesome thing in the workplace is the ambiguous relationship, if you do well, you will get up, and if you don't do well, you will fall into misery. The following tells you which male bosses should be avoided, and the reasonable handling of ambiguous relationships in the workplace really cannot be ignored.

1. Male bosses who often work overtime alone.

This kind of boss is always trying to create opportunities for the two of them to be alone, so that even if he doesn't want to, the female subordinate should guess what will happen.

At this time, you should take care of things during working hours, or invite other colleagues to work overtime to break the relationship between the two alone. You can also directly refuse to work overtime in the office and take the work home directly.

Second, the squinting male boss.

Male bosses, who often look at female colleagues, should flee as soon as possible. Dressing conservatively and dressing up without new ideas are all ways to reduce one's self-attractiveness, and the second is to join forces with female colleagues to resist such male bosses. Whenever he makes an excessive move or request, learn to say no.

3. Male bosses who often ask for business trips.

Traveling between colleagues is a very fast thing, which can bring life and work closer together.

If you encounter frequent requests for business trips with female subordinates, then you should be wary. Give up the opportunity to a male colleague, or simply refuse to say that you are uncomfortable, etc.

Ambiguous performance first.

1. Deliberately sit next to each other.

Ambiguous performance first.

Second, come up to **.

Ambiguous performance first.

3. Implement small actions.

Ambiguous performance first.

Fourth, the mouth is like honey.

Ambiguous performance first.

5. Send home after drinking.

If a stranger asks you, you certainly won't say, why ask me? And you dare to say that you are ambiguous because he is your ambiguous object, and everyone can say anything directly. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, it's just that I'm too straight.

Men care about your attitude, and rightfully so. It's someone else's attitude towards me again, give me a question of why I ask, and I will care. Because others don't take my problems seriously.

The problem you are talking about is just a petty fight among couples. If you have to say what psychology? That is, everyone cares about what others say about them. Care about your inner feelings, so as to embarrass yourself.

I don't know if the supervisor is of the same sex or the opposite sex with you, if it is the same sex, it means that you are jealous of the fact that you are giving her a gift to the object of your relationship.

It's normal for your ambiguous partner to get angry, because he originally wanted to ask you to help provide information, but instead of helping him, you sneered, so in general, you overreacted and should think of making up for it.

I don't think you're reacting wrong, it's normal. On the other hand, it was him, who originally wanted to please his boss through you, but he was stingy for something that was not a trivial matter, and he ignored you, as for it. It only shows that the man is too small-bellied, and it doesn't really take you to heart.

If you are really lucky and meet someone who loves you very much, please cherish it. If you're unlucky and never meet a love, live well. Whether you're single, in love, or out of love.

May you understand that the goal of life is not love, but happiness.

It is not recommended to play ambiguous. If they are both unmarried and have no partner, they are affectionate and righteous to each other and worthy of entrustment, and they are brave together. If there are other circumstances, it is not recommended to be together.

I didn't feel any psychological game.

Hello, I have had this kind of thinking of yours before, which is actually a manifestation of a weak sense of self-worth, a lack of self-confidence and security, and low self-esteem.

Self-worth is an emotional experience of whether oneself has value, simply put, how a person sees himself, whether he is worthy, whether he is worthy of love, and whether he is worthy of being affirmed by everyone.

Relatively speaking, a high sense of self-worth is manifested in the feeling that I can, that I am worthy, and that I am worthy. People with a low sense of self-worth are embodied in, I can't do it, I'm not worthy, I'm not worthy, I'm afraid of other people's eyes.

Buying new clothes is supposed to make you happy and happy. But your subconscious always thinks that you should keep a low profile, worrying that people will say that you may have experienced it before, wearing new clothes, attracting the attention of many people.

A confident person, a person with a high sense of self-worth forms a positive feedback in her heart, she sees everyone's eyes, she will think that everyone is envious and praise her, so this sense of success experience will enhance her self-confidence and sense of value; On the other hand, if you see other people's eyes focused on you, and you are worried, worried, and suspicious that everyone is saying that you are wrong, that you are not dressed well, that you are not serious, etc., this is actually because you have given all the decisions about your own value, likes and dislikes to other people, which is the result.

Mr. Yang Jiang said that my world has nothing to do with others. We are in charge of our own lives.

Of course, people who lack a sense of self-worth have a lot to do with the lack of love in childhood and the frustration in life experience.

If you want to improve your sense of self-worth and get out of the quagmire of low self-esteem, you can reconcile with your inner child who is not confident, lacks love, and hurts by writing about your deep pain or chatting with someone you trust. You can also encourage and praise yourself in front of the mirror every day before going out, make mental hints, and tell yourself that you are the best, and that you are worthy of love; You can also insist on keeping a success diary every day, and summarize and ...... everything you do every dayAll of the above can help us successfully improve our sense of self-worth, fill our hearts with love, fill our eyes with light, and live for ourselves.

This situation is a suppression of the desire for self-expression.

Self-expression is a psychological need that a person needs from childhood to adulthood, that is, everyone craves affirmation, support and applause. On the other hand, suppressing the desire for self-expression is the opposite, hoping that you will not be noticed or praised, even if you are often good enough.

There are many situations that cause this situation, which may be caused by the family environment when I was a child, for example: parents are careless and picky, and often criticize their children more than praise, ignoring their children's shining points. The jealousy of classmates, speaking ill of themselves, and so on.

In many cases, children no longer have the courage to show themselves, and they are afraid that they will get the attention of others, so that their desire to express is suppressed.

Suppressing the desire for self-expression is a mechanism for self-protection of children who have been injured before. But it can often be exhausting in public, and we need to break through these barriers and learn to identify our strengths, to show them, to show them.

Low self-esteem, you must overcome this kind of psychology, which is not good for your future development, you have to find a way to fight, let others know that you are very good, don't be a little transparent, I am like this, this feeling is very bad, but don't care about other people's eyes, just do your best! Come on! ヾ(

This kind of mentality of yours is not advisable, people go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. It's the law of nature, you are misled by the shot of the first bird! Today's society is an era of fierce competition, where the superior wins and the inferior loses. Or be outstanding!

When one day you find that you are doing well or not, and others are just addicted to it, you will understand that life is all for yourself. People who really care about you will only give you positive remarks, even selfless dedication, and learn to be grateful; No matter how good you are or not, the villain is always entertaining others, you listen to it and embarrass yourself, and you are proud of the villain. No one can decide whether it is right or wrong to have a strong or weak sense of existence, just think that not everyone has to be successful, and ordinary is also a kind of life.

Being happy is the most important thing, more than 20 years of studying, more than 10 years of struggle, more than 10 years of worrying about family marriage, more than 20 years of worrying about children, so many important things, you must bring your own sunshine when you set off, come on!

Introverted and a bit socially impaired. This situation is not unique to you, but it is also relatively common. In essence, it is psychological timidity, that is, the fear of causing trouble to oneself.

In general, it is just to ask for all things to be safe. The key is to slowly break through the psychological barriers. For example, when wearing new clothes, don't care about whether the people around you are saying good or bad, after a few experiences, this psychology will gradually improve.

You might as well give it a try.

Introverted, has some low self-esteem, is not confident, and does not want to be noticed by others. I used to be like this, but as I got older. Although there are some now, they are not as serious as before.

This is the psychology of the public, and I am like this, I instinctively have an inferiority complex, there is no self-confidence, and self-confident people are always wanton and unassuming.

This is a very subtle, introverted character, low-key and unassuming. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is a manifestation of low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence. I hope you can overcome your psychological barriers, be a brave person, and dare to show yourself in front of outsiders.

Let others discover your strengths! This can be exercised slowly! Give yourself more encouragement and confidence!

Shy, not confident in myself, I've had this experience before; Later, a friend suggested that "you smile in the mirror every morning and say three times that you are the best", which was a mental suggestion;

If you have this kind of psychology, it belongs to a kind of inferiority complex, it belongs to the lack of self-confidence, and then you feel that other people's eyes are very concerned, you just need to be confident, in this way, you will become more beautiful.

You are exactly the same as me, you should have a little inferiority complex and are unwilling to stand in the spotlight. It's okay, everyone has their own way of living, do your own believing.

What kind of psychology do I have? Most people buy new clothes. I'm a little afraid to wear it.

I'm always afraid of others staring at me. Sorry to wear new clothes. This is the psychology of inferiority.

There is no self-confidence. People who dare to wear and dare to bring. Be willing to dress up.

Such people. It's very confident, high on top. ‘

This is the heart of the world, thinking that the ordinary is the most valuable, if you are too showy, you will also have pressure, so you choose to be bland.

After all, it's shy, I don't know if you're more introverted, go to participate in more on-campus activities, and communicate more with people.

This is inferiority. You should be very unconfident, you will be very nervous when you encounter things, and you will be very envious when you see the self-confidence of others.

Most people have this kind of mentality, if you want to overcome this psychology and overcome yourself, you have to go out and walk more, communicate with people more, participate in more activities, and enrich yourself more, so that you can have more confident capital.