If you are poor yourself, will you feel inferior when you are with many rich people? How to overcome

More or less. After all, it's not a group, others may be discussing how much a piece of clothing or a pair of shoes is buying, but you don't feel like it's plugged in; Shopping with those people will also make you a little uncomfortable. You can only watch them buy it.

But I don't know how your situation is? Are the rich people you're talking about, your classmates or colleagues? If you want to continue to associate with them, be friends, and when they say something brand-named, you can listen or smile in the back, and you can find some "non-material" topics to discuss with them.

Anyway, I want you to be happy as a stranger :)

Hehe, I'm 20 today, and the people I work with are older than me. Even said it was older than my mom.

They are all richer than me, their children are richer than me, and I have improved my grade after spending time with them, just like you said, there will always be a little bit of inferiority.

The way to overcome it is that you have to get past yourself first, and you put your position right. It should be fine, you are you, they are them, they have money is theirs, and it is not your fault that you don't have money. That's the way this society is, and it's useless to have low self-esteem.

If it were me, I would not have low self-esteem, and low self-esteem can only mean that you envy others. Remember the saying: be yourself, go your own way, as the saying goes: people are more popular than people. If you take a long-term view and relax your mentality, you will naturally eliminate the psychology of inferiority.

Besides, your purpose in life is how much money you have? It should be happiness, although the two are related, but it is not inevitable.

BTW, I don't think that the first floor is not the answer to the question, he means that people should be compared with people should be ability.

A gentleman loves money, and he takes it in a good way, so you can also work hard to earn money!

What's more, whether he is rich or not does not mean that his ability is high, so many scientists are not very rich! But how much they contribute to society1

No, no, you shouldn't feel inferior.

Because your dignity is equal.

Perhaps your spiritual wealth is richer than his.

Money is not everything.

When a poor person faces a person who is richer than himself, he is somewhat inferior in his heart, and no matter how rich others are, it has nothing to do with us, so why should he be inferior? Because when people are poor, they are not only materially lacking but also extremely fragile in their hearts, and when they face people who are better than themselves, they unconsciously feel inferior in their hearts, so their inner inferiority complex arises.

People with low self-esteem are not necessarily often hit by others, but their inner world is not sound and healthy enough, the ancients left us a warning is to do things to be a person first, first to become a normal person, and then after accepting the nucleus can do some normal things, we must first correct our own values and world view, values are our life value orientation, world view is the corner of our view of the world, recognize and correct themselves will not be hit by the excellence of others.

I once heard a person say a very good thing, which probably means that when others compare what they are good at with what I am not good at, I compare what I am good at with what he is not good at, and when a nouveau riche talks to you about money, you talk to him about culture, he will instantly know that the gap with you is **, and he will no longer continue to show off his vanity, but many people are not compared with him by others, he first has low self-esteem, which is the result of his own blows, People are not afraid of other people's blows, they are afraid that they will look down on themselves, and other people's blows can be regarded as a "trauma" at best, and their own blows will be "hurt" to the bones.

Poverty makes people feel inferior, but having money does not necessarily make you self-confident. First of all, we need to understand the nature of low self-esteem, which is due to non-acceptance of oneself. The inferiority complex is compared to comparison, and in the constant comparison with others, I always feel that I am the worst.

People with low self-esteem are often insecure, suspicious, cranky, and even have a particularly strong desire for control and possessiveness.

Low self-esteem is a complex emotion of inability to help oneself and weakness. People with a strong sense of inferiority tend to despise and deny themselves, believing that they will never be able to catch up with others. This has a lot to do with their experience when they were young, some parents are too strict and deny their children at all times, causing their children to lose self-confidence and gradually choose to be silent.

Some children are ignored in the family for various reasons, and gradually carry out psychological self-denial, and some children are not valued and concerned at school, and gradually give up on themselves and have low self-esteem.

So when a poor person becomes rich, he does not necessarily become self-confident. Although he is rich, he may still carry out psychological self-denial, and his insecurity makes it easier for him to be unable to extricate himself from the vicious circle of low self-esteem. People with low self-esteem often have a pessimistic worldview on the background of their character, no matter how beautiful the world is, he always rejects positive feedback, and takes the initiative to absorb some negative feedback and negative feedback on himself, and he cares very much about what others think, magnifying his bad side too much, and ignoring his own advantages.

And becoming rich does not solve the root cause of low self-esteem from the heart, and he will not necessarily become confident.

Defeating low self-esteem and moving towards self-confidence requires more psychological construction. Build a sense of self-identity psychologically, see your strong side, and learn to affirm yourself. There is no need for affirmation from others, but a psychological sense of self-identity.

No longer pay too much attention to others and compare with others, people are more popular than others, everyone always has advantages and disadvantages, why bother to entangle and cling. Reading, through reading to change the understanding of self and the perception of the world, the higher the cognition, many things will be seen, and people will be confident.

When a person has no money, he will have a special low self-esteem, and when he has money, he will not be confident. But when he has money, you can see his movements and expressions, and it feels different than before. I feel that a person's low self-esteem is not a cause, nor is it a thing, that can save him from his low self-esteem.

To be honest, some people are just because of their personality, even if they become rich, it does not necessarily make the whole person more confident, and self-confidence comes from the feeling of the heart.

Hello! First of all, I wish you good health! For the sake of your fate and mine, let me talk to you about the rich and the "poor".

Your envy of the rich, and then inferiority is a normal phenomenon, you should not have too heavy psychological burden for this, in fact, many of your classmates also envy the rich, but you don't know.

But what do I want to know about them that you envy? Is it the abundance of material things they have, or is it their way of life? What do you think is a sign of your low self-esteem, and does it affect your daily communication?

Low self-esteem, that is, a person makes a low evaluation of his own ability, quality, etc., always feels inferior to others, pessimistic and disappointed, and loses confidence. It is a negative state of mind, a mental obstacle to the realization of ideals.

The trigger for your low self-esteem is the social environment. The main reason for the formation of inferiority complex is that you cannot correctly understand and treat yourself, so to change your inferiority, you must start by changing your own cognition.

Be good at discovering your strengths and affirming your achievements. In social interactions, the wealthier and the poorer are completely equal in personality, there is no distinction between high and low, and there should be no natural sense of superiority.

There is no intrinsic, inevitable and absolute connection with the inferiority complex, the natural living environment, and people's cultivation, knowledge, and ability.

If you want to make yourself feel inferior in front of what you think is "rich", you can try it like this, list your strengths, and compare them with "rich people", you always have a few things that must be better than them:

Try to remember what you have done that you have done and succeeded through hard work, and give yourself a positive psychological cue.

I'm still very capable, and my experience is richer than that of the "rich".

There are two types of people you can try to reach: one is classmates from relatively poor families who sincerely understand what they think of the wealthy; One is the rich people, who understand what troubles they have after they have money.

Love tips: Everyone is no exception to yearn for a better quality of life, you can transform your feelings of inferiority into the motivation to pursue a higher quality of life, continue to work hard, enrich your spiritual life, and make yourself a spiritually rich person.

Every master has been a big loser.

Rich people understand the order of success: to be—to do—to have.

If you're willing to do easy things, life will be difficult. But if you are willing to do the hard things, then life will be easy ......

If you are satisfied with the above, please don't disappoint my kindness and answer in time.

It's not because of the social atmosphere, to be poor and arrogant, it requires a high level of cultivation and ethics.

In fact, many rich people's money is dirty, and there is not much clean money, and the richest ones, which have not had dirty pit people's transactions!

When you feel inferior to others in some way, you will have low self-esteem, such as no one is tall, no one is handsome, no one has big breasts, no one is good, no one speaks English fluently...

I don't remember what I said.

Roughly speaking, when a person is ten times richer than you, you feel that he is superior to you, when a person is a hundred times richer than you, you feel that he is his slave, when a person is a thousand times richer than you. How, how.

So you're mentally normal.

If you have money, you will have confidence, and if you don't have money, you will have nothing to compare with others, this is the general heart.

There is a word "rich and rich", in fact, whether you have money or not, you have to live, and there is no need to feel inferior. Of course, the phenomena you are talking about are universal.

Usually the rich have the ability to spend in many places because they have money, while the poor are basically based on filling their stomachs and do not have much ability to spend. What seems ordinary to the rich is extravagant and flat in front of the poor, and they have not even been seen. Therefore, the poor appear to have less knowledge, less understanding, and less experience in front of the rich.

Some rich people will deliberately punish the poor in public places because they are rich, so most of the poor people seem inferior in front of the rich.

The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor in the downtown no one asks. A person's self-confidence comes from their own ability, status and money. People who do not have the ability, status, and live in poverty are generally people who lack self-confidence.

Others will not be too respectful of a person who is good for nothing and destitute.

In the current environment, as long as you are a down-to-earth and hard-working person, life cannot be too bad. Except for those who are impoverished due to natural and man-made disasters, as long as you put in the effort, life will not fail you.

The survival of the fittest is always the law of survival of nature and the law of our life. People are soft-spoken, which is the most realistic state of life. A person who has a bad life himself, a person who has been struggling above and below the poverty line, what advanced experience can I share with you?

All the confidence of an adult is brought by money and ability. If you have enough ability, you will earn enough money to improve your living conditions, you will be able to help the people you want to help, and you will be able to control your own life. You have no money, you don't have the ability, what do you use to take care of yourself, take care of your relatives and friends?

People who have no money and no status have no self-confidence, and even if you show blind self-confidence, others will scoff at you and will not give you face and believe your rhetoric.

Work hard to make money, money is the best medicine for all inferiority. When you make enough money, you will naturally become confident and cheerful, your good friends will become more numerous, and your life will become better and better!

People say that this era is becoming more and more materialistic, and it is true that this is an economic era, what is the economy? To put it bluntly, the economy is money. There is a saying that the grip of Laqi is very good, called a penny, Duan Ling is a hero, this is indeed a very accurate statement.

If you don't have money in the economy, then you're nothing. I also feel very inferior, and I can't hold my head up in front of people. So in this era, working hard to make money is the king.

With money, everything can be solved, and with money, you can ** your inferiority.