My classmates said that I was too stubborn and so on, and I was very confused, what should I do?

The shortcomings have been raised, and it is good.

They say that you have a tendon, too stubborn, should be usually with people when they get along, do not listen to other people's opinions, admit death, they think right on a tendon to the end, in fact, many times, is to listen to what the people next to you say, when others have different opinions, do not rush to refute, first listen carefully, and then scrutinize, maybe there are also problems that you have not found, if the other party is really wrong, you can put it forward, elaborate your different points of view, OK.

This will give people the impression that it will be rational, try to correct it. At this point, look at everything rationally, in the future, you work in the society, get along with people, it is very useful, while it is not too late to correct.

I think you should just calm down and think about what you usually do, look at yourself from an outsider's point of view, and if you think you're really doing too much, then pay more attention to it! If you can change it, you can change it!

Find a classmate who is nice to you, ask her what is wrong with you, and then correct it. Usually you should get to know your classmates more and care about them. You have to understand and care for your classmates first, and your classmates will also understand and care for you.

Maybe it's your personality that they really can't accept.

You might as well be more casual and get along with them, and maybe you can change their perception of you.

。Mr. Ellipsis.

Everyone has their own unique personality, doesn't they?

You are stubborn in seeing what people you want to face and what things you are facing.

In the face of some important things or people, it is better to be able to restrain yourself.

If you are convinced that you are right and there is no room for refutation, then please continue to insist and be assertive. But more often than not, it is better to calm down and discuss the problem well, and it is best to get a neutralizing method.

Classmates say you're stubborn! If you usually change, you care about everyone and know more.

What to do, since someone says you, you have to change it.

Isn't it true that no one will talk about you?

If someone can point you out your problems and pass them on to you through expression, you should be happy.

Why? Because there are some problems that you may not be able to perceive yourself, and others directly raise them for you, then you can correct them.

Knowing what your problems are and finding ways to correct your mistakes is a great opportunity, and there is no need to feel inferior at all.

No one is perfect, everyone has their own faults and problems, some of which they can find and some that they can't.

When others point out your shortcomings, you should be aware of these problems and deliberately adjust yourself.

In fact, many people are arrogant, self-righteous, and have no experience of others, and judge and reject other people's opinions. Low self-esteem is a lack of self-confidence developed by the living environment. Although the impact is far-reaching, it can also be changed, and cultivating self-confidence starts with being gregarious, participating in activities with more than three people, or organizing activities.

Don't care what others say, and don't feel inferior. What's wrong with a tendon, recognize it, choose the right one, you have to do it in one go, what I want is a tendon.

People with a tendon temperament can do both bad things and achieve good things, because of perseverance and tenacious perseverance, the goal of success is finally achieved is a good thing, because of rigidity and obsession and missed the opportunity to succeed caused by failure is a bad thing. So don't be too stubborn in dealing with things and interpersonal interactions. Don't have low self-esteem, just be yourself.

First of all, you have to have faith in yourself, no matter what others say. People say that you have a tendon, so just change it. Which person doesn't have any shortcomings, don't cause yourself to be inferior because others say that you are not good.

The shortcomings pointed out by others are good, mainly how to deal with it and how to change. Because sometimes you can't find your own shortcomings. It's a good thing for others to say it, and you have to treat it right.

You have to have faith in yourself, otherwise it will be difficult for you to face yourself and live under the eyes of others.

"A tendon" is a description of people's paranoid or stubborn character, rigid and unenlightened, admitting death and not knowing how to be flexible, and doing things "one way to the black", in a complete sense, people with a "tendon" temperament, even if they can do bad things or achieve good things, because of perseverance and tenacious perseverance, so it is also specific to look at personal performance, is.

Don't pay attention to what others think of you, you can also increase your knowledge by watching more news on your mobile phone, read more books, you will be smarter when you are rich in knowledge, and I hope you will become more and more beautiful and smarter.

When others say that they are a tendon, they don't have to feel inferior, they have to make an excellent appearance, and get rid of the perception that they are told.

There is no need to feel inferior, individuals have their own personality and temper, but they should consider what others have to evaluate themselves, recall what they have to do, and be tactful about some things, not too direct. The important thing for people to interact with is sincerity and trust, character and temper are secondary, but for bad temper should also be appropriately changed, people will become in the process of growing up, and people will change after experiencing some things. So don't feel inferior, low self-esteem will lead to depression, a threat to physical health, the body is the capital of the revolution, once the health is not good, everything else is not important, a good life can not be enjoyed, I hope you live a good life, just be yourself, don't care too much about what others say, good health, good work and life is the most important.

I wish you a happy life and do your best to yourself!

In fact, others say that you don't need to have low self-esteem for a tendon, but you don't know how to be flexible, and you can slowly change yourself.

Always remind yourself not to fall into the whirlpool of "hostile psychology", learn to respect others, empathize, compare hearts with hearts, equal weight to each other, and be lenient with others.

Understand the basic truth that only by respecting others can we be respected by others.

Learn to smile at people you know, divert your attention, and find ways to add some hobbies and interests to yourself in life to make yourself cheerful.

Learn to be patient and patient in life, learn to listen, express your ideas appropriately, and avoid conflicts.

Don't question yourself for the sake of what others say.

Don't care, what others say is not something you can control. You can control what you think for yourself.

If you have been trapped in the small emotions of your own inferiority, it is a manifestation of a tendon.

Let go of others, and let go of yourself.

Be confident and cheerful, and life will be different.

Change slowly, don't rush.

Take control of your emotions a little bit.

There is no point in defeating others, and there is no joy in defeating yourself.

A tendon means that a certain Hu carries people with simple thinking and stubbornness.

To adapt to the society, we must have insight into human feelings, and at the same time, we must have our own principles of life, and we must be sleek and sophisticated.

I will be very tired, such a person will not be happy in his heart, and he will not succeed for a long time, no one likes other people's false smiles, it is not an ideal state of life.

It is not easy to adapt to society, it is not difficult to be stupid, no matter what, you must have your own principles, treat others sincerely, and there will be no mistakes.

I wish you a happy social person

To put it simply, a tendon oak means to drill the tip of the horns.

If this kind of broad-core person believes in one thing, he will be persistent, think too directly about the problem, insist on considering the problem according to his own way of thinking, and find it difficult to accept the opinions and opinions of others.

There is also the meaning of stubbornness.

But sometimes stubbornness is good, but if it becomes stubborn, it's not good to be cautious) It can be said that a tendon is that this person is very stubborn.

Not a good type).

I appreciate this personality!

At least it's better than being timid and giving up.

At least know if the results you insist on are worth it.

At least there will be no regrets and regrets.

But what you need to pay attention to is whether it's worth it or not.

For example, for family, friendship, and true love, I feel that if you persist, you will definitely see the rainbow, and may your "stubbornness and dead brain" bring you happiness and good luck!

There is character, but the society is realistic, you can stick to your own ideas, but don't forget to revise your goals in time to achieve your goals better and faster, and sometimes you have to have team spirit, which will have greater gains.

You must learn to listen, follow the person with a tendon, and let the person with a tendon do it after speaking, so that you can achieve your goal. In real life, people with a tendon can often be met, when you meet them, don't keep reasoning with a tendon person, especially when you have different opinions, let the person with a tendon calm down and don't argue.

Remember that people with a tendon like this, there are some things that people with a tendon can't think about, and you need to explain it slowly with time and experience, and get along with such people, don't be in a hurry, and don't get angry. Don't be reasonable with a person with a tendon, because this kind of person is not reasonable at all, and talking to him too much is only a waste of tongue.

If you meet a family member with a tendon, you may be unable to avoid it, so when a family member with a tendon speaks, you must learn to listen. Home is a place of intercession, not reasonableness, and sometimes family members don't need you to give reasonable advice, because they have an idea in their hearts before they speak, and they just want to find someone to nag a few words.

If it is not a matter of principle, give some advice to the family of a tendon, but do not force the family of a tendon to accept it. Otherwise, they will not only not listen to your reasoning, but will make the tendon family insist on upgrading. On the contrary, gentle listening not only makes them feel respected, but also gives them the space to think again, and it may be impossible to change their original intentions and achieve their goals.

If you encounter a colleague with a tendon, you should also treat it differently. Small things talk about friendship, big things talk about principles. After all, everyone's growth background, education level, and work experience are different, and their perception of a thing is also different.

If it does not hinder the overall goal of the work, in the communication, it is enough to explain the reason, and there is no need to talk too much, which takes up too much time and affects the work efficiency.

If you meet a friend with a tendon, it depends on your own personality, and if you are sure that your friend's "tendon" approach will not cause you any harm, then explain your suggestion to the other party. If you feel that his or her persistence will have an adverse impact on your future work and life, and you are powerless to change this situation, you should find the right time to get out as soon as possible to avoid future troubles.

Don't compete with him, do your own thing, otherwise you will easily be brought into his realm, and you will become a tendon yourself.

When you meet a person with a tendon, let them have a tendon to the end, we as others don't say anything, he will know to turn back when he hits the south wall.

Then don't talk to him so much, stay away if you can, and people with tendons will stick to their own ideas no matter how much they say, so it's useless for you to say more, let him hit the south wall by himself!

Try to avoid direct conflicts or arguments with people with tendons, because even if you are more reasonable, they will not listen to you, and it will only give you headaches.

Personally, I don't pay attention to it, why, because her own thinking is fixed, she can't listen to what you say, so it's much better to wait for the facts to prove her point than to convince her.

If he accostes you, learn to excuse yourself and tell him tactfully that you haven't had time to listen to him yet, or find an excuse to get out of the situation when he talks too much and too long.

People with tendons are very stubborn in what they do, no matter how correct you say, they will not change their minds, so when you meet such people, don't talk too much to them.

Try to minimize communication and collision with the other party, stay away from the other party, unless it is a last resort, and when you contact the other party, it is best to be as gentle as possible and follow the other party.

Try to stay away from him, don't try to convince him, the human brain circuit with a tendon feels different from us, and you can't convince him at all.

It can't be explained with a tendon person, so don't explain it to him, guide him to discover the truth by himself and he will understand.

People who have been tempered by setbacks are always more tenacious, more mature, and braver, and they can see success at hand, that is, we are one step closer to success. Suffering setbacks can make life accumulate experience, and setbacks can also make life continue to be sublimated. Those emotions that have lost to small grievances can always be won back in the face of big rights and wrongs.

Under the fall of the city, you can see the truth. Because some roads are too difficult and dangerous, you can only go together.

The thinking is too simple, and the mentality is good.

I'm like that too, but I want to change