At what moment do you think anyone s encouragement is useless, and you can only rely on yourself?

There are many things in the world that cannot be completely solved by just asking for the encouragement and support of others, and many things often need to be solved by ourselves. That is to say, it is better to rely on no one than on yourself, and only your own shoulders are your biggest support, which no one can compare.

I remember the year I was about to graduate from college, and I was very confused. Since I went to a junior college, most of our class chose to upgrade to a junior college, and I didn't have any plans to upgrade to a junior college, but after two-thirds of our class applied for a junior college, I couldn't be completely calm. I was thinking what should I do?

Should I follow the crowd or should I stick to my own opinions? I also consulted with many friends, and they were all encouraging to me, and they were supportive of whatever choice I made. But their support, for my inner conflict, did not solve the actual problem in my heart.

Of course, your friends will encourage you mentally and verbally when you are frustrated, but what about when they have finished encouraging and supporting? Don't you have to face it alone, and then solve the real problem on your own? So in the end, you're on your own.

I've heard a saying before, which basically means that other people's comfort will not have any good impact on your body and mind, nor will it cause any harm to your body and mind, it is all nothing.

I really experienced this feeling two days ago, this feeling that even if a lot of people give you encouragement, it doesn't help. Later, I realized that there are some things that you can only rely on yourself, not the encouragement of others, which are what others expect from you, but they have nothing to do with you.

I was very sad two days ago, because there was a problem with the ** I was doing, I encountered a bottleneck, I didn't feel how to write, and I felt that something was missing no matter how I checked the information. I was anxious, anxious, and talked to a lot of people about my problems. Some of them will help me see what is missing, some will help me check the information, and some will help me sort out my thoughts.

But unfortunately, none of this helped, because I felt that everything was wrong, as if the whole world was wrong in an instant, and I couldn't find my way and I couldn't go on haphazardly.

Then I would look up the information over and over again, sort out my thoughts over and over again, try to find the inspiration I had when I first started writing, and sometimes I would go to the playground to run if I couldn't write, hoping to volatilize what I had stored in the depths of my soul so that I could continue to write.

Fortunately, I finally completed the writing, and the teacher also gave a pertinent evaluation, and this matter ended successfully. But I understand that sometimes you can only rely on yourself, and the encouragement of others is an encouragement to you, but it is you who make the final result, so you have to redouble your efforts.

I just feel that no one can redeem me, I am kind and enthusiastic, and I love life, but I was pushed into the abyss by the death of fate, I can't take care of others, and I can't take care of myself.

Chicken soup is good, but the only thing that can really be your own is your own persistence. That's what I learned when I went to college.

Let's talk about me first, I think I'm a person who has a lot of things, I don't know how many times I was depressed in high school, I went to talk to others, and most of the time it was my mother. I would also like to thank my mom for listening and teaching me most of the time. Even with such a mother, I still didn't open up in high school, and I still let those negative emotions occupy a lot of time, and I don't know how many questions I have consumed enough energy, so I failed the college entrance examination.

Ever since I went to a university that I never looked forward to, I have met some students who are super independent and brave, at least they dare to give speeches on stage. As far as I know, most of them live in their own encouragement. That's when I began to realize that compared to them, I was like a three-year-old doll, dependent on others for everything, as if I couldn't survive alone.

From then on, I made up my mind to take on something on my own, because not everyone wants to be your trash can, and they are not obligated to do so. Although you are sad and sad, you must grit your teeth, encourage yourself, and learn to digest yourself, because you can only rely on yourself in the future.

When I grew up, I thought so, and I hated it when people treated me