My parents strongly disagree with me to continue dating my boyfriend, but what if I like him very mu

It is a happy time for two people to love each other together, but if this relationship is not blessed and agreed by their parents, it is unfortunate and sad for two people in love, and the relationship needs to be recognized, if you are a girl, your parents do not agree that you continue to have a relationship with your boyfriend, but you like your boyfriend very much and don't know what to do, then there are several ways to solve the problem.

The first way is to make a big decision between affection and love, listen to your parents. A person will always make a heartbreaking decision in his life, but the results of these decisions are all helpful to himself, your parents have eaten more salt than you have traveled the road, so you have to believe your parents' words and break up with your boyfriend according to your parents' wishes.

My mother and my father are in free love, at that time after the relationship was established, my mother told my grandparents, but they disagreed, and then said that my father was too wild and uninhibited, and then let my mother not follow him, but my mother did not listen, and then after following my father was not very happy, a few years before the marriage of my father was very restless, his heart could not be settled, and he spent all day drinking, I clearly remember when I was a child waiting alone at the dark door.

The second way, if you really love to the bone and can't give up, negotiate with your parents. Girls are always so impulsive and sensual to admit death, and don't listen to the old man for the person she likes or things, since that's the case, talk to your parents.

Tell your parents that if you don't marry this boy in your life, you will directly show your heart, so that your parents will feel sorry for you and will not force you to give up too much.

The third method is to go with the flow of the relationship, your parents' objection means that you are not yet old enough to talk about marriage, so try to talk about love first. What your parents object to is that the two of you continue to be in a relationship, and you can continue to try behind your parents' backs.

If you believe that your boyfriend is the right person, you should encourage him to make him better, and when he has achieved something, you can bring him to meet your parents, and your parents will be more receptive to him.

I feel that I have to rely on myself for this question, what you think in your own heart, you have to work hard to make what you want come true, if you love him, you have to go to him without hesitation, and if your parents don't agree, you have to get your parents to agree.

I think I still have tried to change the relationship between the three of you so that I won't regret it later, because you have tried to match the two parties, communicate more with your parents, let your boyfriend behave well, and your parents will see your efforts after a long time. Even if your love is not favored by others, you just know that you love each other, right? <>

The road of life is so long, I think it's better to be with the person I like, at least my own feeling is that I believe in love, no matter how difficult the road in the future is, I think as long as there is love, I am not afraid of anything, like him without hesitation, if we are not crazy, we will be old, which is really embarrassing.

If you don't make the right choice when you're young, then don't regret it when you're old, because there is no restart in life, and there is no regret medicine for you to take, so take advantage of your youth to do what you like, like the people you like, and your parents, I believe that as long as your attitude is sincere enough, it is enough.

Parents don't want you to continue with your boyfriend, it must be because they love you, they love you, so they don't want you to settle, so you still have to let your boyfriend behave well.

It is precisely that your love is not favored, and you also have to work hard to live and let others know that you will become better, it is only a matter of time.

So you still have to work hard to chase your love. This is the right way to open love.

In life, it is not easy to find someone who likes you and happens to like it in the vast sea of people. So once you meet that person, you must know how to cherish it and don't let go easily.

Everything in the world will not be smooth sailing, there will always be some problems of one kind or another, big or small ups and downs, but as long as it is a problem, you must believe that there will be a solution to the problem. Because what may have happened cannot be changed, but man is alive. Life is not like this, it is always the process of solving problems and then new problems appearing.

So, what if your parents don't approve of you being together.

Parents are also thoughtful, they don't agree with you being together, there must be their reasons, nothing more than that they are dissatisfied with your boyfriend in some way. You can go and communicate with your parents and ask them why they are not satisfied, **dissatisfied? Find out why, and then let your boyfriend try to change it, try to be more perfect, and try to become a person who can be qualified in the eyes of your parents.

I believe that after a long time, your parents will also feel your efforts and will be moved, because after all, they are your parents, and they still love you after all.

Most parents don't agree with their daughter's marriage, because they think the boy is not good enough, they are afraid that he will not be able to give their daughter the happiness she wants, and they are afraid that they will not be able to live a good life after being with him, and they are still worried that their daughter will suffer after all. It's nothing, as long as the boy is willing to work hard, the big deal is that we will consume it first, and then we will fight for the consent of the parents when the boy is good enough. I'd rather not marry than compromise.

Now you're blinded by your so-called love and can't see what your boyfriend is lacking in. And your parents analyze your boyfriend's character and family for you from the perspective of a bystander, and when they find his shortcomings and badness, he will try their best to oppose you being together. At this time, you should not blame your parents, but should sit down together and put aside your liking for your boyfriend and analyze what kind of person he is from your parents' point of view.

If it's your parents who have a misunderstanding about him, it's fine, but if there's something really bad about him, I suggest you still be ruthless and separate from him.

The more your mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes it, and your parents just came into contact with your boyfriend, and they show that they don't like him, which means that your boyfriend is really not good at life. Since he can't, why would you choose to be with him? There are so many men in the world, are you still afraid that you won't be able to pick a good one?

So breaking up as soon as possible is the best decision, women in love are fools. Don't wait until you've been together for a long time and waste your youth, don't wait until you get married, regretting why you didn't listen to your parents and why you insisted on going your own way.

Parents play a role as a reference for every major decision in our lives, some of which are good and some of which are not. But I want you to listen to your parents' decisions, whether you agree or disagree with them, and then decide. Parents are for the good of their children, and he will not harm you.

Don't get into an argument between your boyfriend and your parents because it's not worth it. You can meet a lot of good men in your life, but you can never find a second parent who is close to you.

I feel that as a mature woman, as a woman with a higher education, it is important to keep a clear head before doing anything, and to be thoughtful before making any decisions. Other people's opinions should only be used as a reference, even if they seem to be saying things for your own good.

When parents face their daughter's marital problems, they often look at the man's family conditions and the man's current situation. If the man's family conditions are good and his current job is relatively stable, they will subjectively think that this man can and is worthy of his daughter's life. Without taking into account the man's development potential and attitude towards his daughter.

On the other hand, if the man's family conditions are relatively poor, the temporary job is not very good. But he is particularly capable, has the potential for development, and is good to his daughter. Such a man will basically not be approved by the woman's parents.

I think that the vast majority of parents are like this when facing their daughter's marriage. Their gatekeeping attitude often does not help their daughter's marriage substantially, but will delay their daughter's lifelong events because of their too materialistic attitude. Plays the opposite role.

Whether the shoes fit or not, the only thing that knows best is the person himself. Only you know whether your boyfriend is suitable for you, because you have spent the longest time with him and know his nature best. If you are a sane person, I am sure you will definitely respect your choice.

If you are firm in your attitude of being with your boyfriend, I think your parents will also agree with your choice in the spirit of loving you.

So I think this kind of problem depends mainly on your own attitude.

I suggest you talk to your parents about what they are dissatisfied with your boyfriend and see if he can change it. In fact, I feel that my parents are people who have experienced so many things for so many years, they have seen too many people and too many things, and they are often more discerning than us, so I hope you don't start from the east, but think about it. <>

Sometimes we are really impulsive in love, and our IQ is basically zero in the face of love. I personally think that love that is not blessed by parents will not last long, and of course I am not saying that parents are the kind of people who pick bones in eggs, and they must obey their parents.

There are some things that we regulate ourselves. In fact, sometimes parents may just want to add a layer of tribulation to our feelings, so that we can cherish this relationship more. It also wants us to understand the true meaning of feelings.

There are many young people who are impulsive in the face of love, and they want to be together despite the opposition of their parents, and get married behind their parents' backs. I'm not saying that you should be cowardly in the face of love and not have the courage to chase your love, but if you don't have a better ability to recognize people, I hope you still refer to your parents' advice.

Also, a man who can take care of things will make you and your parents reconcile, and he will know or try his best to do his best to prove that he is the one who can take care of you for the rest of your life.

Parents are the ones who gave birth to us and raised us, so I hope you will try to reconcile with your parents and talk more. At the same time, it is also important to observe whether your boyfriend is worthy of your life's trust. To win the blessing of parents, generally reasonable parents will follow the wishes of their children.

The only thing is that you don't want to get married behind your parents' back, I think it's naïve. Your so-called love now may wear out with time, and family affection is eternal and constant. So I hope you think about it.