It s hard to understand why people are angry with you, what to do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    When it's hard to understand why someone is angry with you, the easiest and most effective way is to find someone to communicate face-to-face.

    When you find him, don't mention this matter first, talk to him about the recent situation, how is it doing, and whether it is good. After chatting for a while, when everyone was happy, I talked to him humorously, and you felt that he seemed to be angry with you recently, why is this why I don't know if I am ** doing not perfect recently, and not doing very well. He also understands that you won't find him just to chat, and he can't bear to keep cold fighting with you and be angry with you all the time when he sees your sincere attitude.

    He'll talk to you about why he might have been angry because of that thing. You are thinking about whether he is talking about such a thing or such a situation, understand others more, and people value harmony. Don't be angry all the time, and it's not bad for everyone to be kind.

    Communicate more with each other, communicate more to see the cause of the problem, find the cause and solve the problem, and understand and tolerate each other more. After that, finding a solution is sometimes a matter of one sentence, take a step back, everyone is happy, and harmony with each other is the king!

    Everyone has ideas, and language expression is to express one's thoughts and thoughts accurately, so that others can understand themselves and understand themselves. There are some differences between people, from the appearance to the inner thoughts, it is not terrible to have differences, which is very normal. However, we must communicate with each other in a timely manner, and we must not sulk, which is not beneficial to ourselves or others.

    Therefore, when it is difficult for you to understand why others are angry with you, go and communicate with them more, everyone speaks out and understands each other more, I believe that it will be resolved satisfactorily after all, and everyone will live in peace!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's a lot of the time when I chat with my boyfriend and girlfriend very well, I don't know if I said it wrong, or ** wrong, which made my girlfriend suddenly explode. But often boys don't know where his fried hair is**? Why did she suddenly get angry, and suddenly she was like a neurotic attack.

    began to mess around with his boyfriend, deliberately looking for his business, and no matter how much he coaxed, he couldn't coax him, which made the boy feel confused, and he was angry and inexplicable.

    In fact, the girl herself is a self-contradictory body, many times, it is not because of how much to get angry with others, make trouble, but deliberately play tricks, just want the other party to be soft, and then please yourself well, and patiently coax yourself. Therefore, when your girlfriend is angry with you and ignores you, and you don't know the reason, why your girlfriend is angry with you, in fact, no matter why she is angry with you, don't care who is right and who is wrong, as long as you patiently coax her, if it doesn't work once, twice, if it doesn't work twice, three times, believe me, if it doesn't go more than three times, this girl will be completely deflated.

    I remember the last time I had an awkward fight with my boyfriend, it was when I deliberately looked for trouble and then pretended to be very angry and ignored him. I didn't reply to his WeChat, and I hung up on him when he hit **, which made him very helpless. It was still raining heavily, and about half an hour later, I received a message saying:

    Open the door. When I opened the door, he was standing at the door of my house like a chicken in soup. I just feel like I'm playing a little too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Think about what you've done lately, what you've said wrong, and find the reason for yourself first.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Instead of speculating, it is better to be open and honest and ask him directly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Reflect on yourself first, and communicate if you really don't understand.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

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    Hello, whoever is angry with your friend, you can't be angry with you, like this: what you said is very right, no matter who you are angry with in the future, you can't be angry with me, you have to be obedient to me, don't be angry with me, and be really good to me.

    Whoever is angry with your friends can't be angry with you.

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    Hello, whoever is angry with your friend, you can't be angry with you, like this: what you said is very right, no matter who you are angry with in the future, you can't be angry with me, you have to be obedient to me, don't be angry with me, and be really good to me.

    This means that your friend is coaxing you, he is confessing to you that his love for you is sincere, he will not do anything else to you that makes you unpleasant, he must be obedient to you, do not make you angry, you can also jokingly reply to him, let him treat you well, not make you angry. Dear, if you ask this question, you can also tell the teacher about your specific situation, and let the teacher help you judge and help you.

    I hope it can help you, I wish you a happy life and all the best.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Four possibilities. One is that you have unintentionally done something that hurts him; The second is that he is really in a bad mood, thinking that you are his good friend, and you will not be angry when he vents his anger with you; the third is to treat you only as a person who exhausts; Fourth, someone is secretly dividing you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The heart is too small, look at the point, as long as it is not a matter of principle, it can be passed, and the body is your own if you are angry.

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