How far can a person lack love?

1) The more loveless people are, the more precocious they tend to be.

Almost all "lack of love" is due to growth and family reasons. When children are growing up, they are in great need of protection from their parents.

If not, then they can only mature themselves in advance to face the outside world. Therefore, the mental age of people who lack love is often much greater than their physical age. Because they need to be mature enough to avoid getting hurt themselves.

But this kind of maturity is an unhealthy maturity. Healthy growth is strong from the inside out. But precocious people forcibly close their hearts and face the outside world.

2) The more loveless people are, the more difficult it is to have intimate experiences.

Intimacy refers to maintaining a very close relationship with a person, but in fact, this ability is not innate, but acquired.

A person who lacks love naturally can't learn this, so the more closed their inner world is, the more difficult it is to love others, and they can't learn to accept the love of others.

3) The more unloved people are, the more likely they are to have a sense of isolation.

People who lack love often grow up being hurt by people close to them, and these injuries leave a huge psychological shadow on them, so that they will no longer trust others.

So they often have a sense of abandonment: they think that others are always trying to harm them, that they are unreliable and untrustworthy.

Over time, this feeling can become a sense of isolation: a constant feeling of being isolated from the whole world, lacking attention, lack of understanding, lack of encouragement.

4) The more unloved a person is, the more emotionally unstable they are.

This situation stems from the cognitive bias of people who "lack love" about love.

They have not experienced "true" love, so the understanding of "love" has always existed and fantasized, and once they enter reality, there will be a huge gap, which will make them emotionally broken and depressed.

5) The more people lack love, the more likely they are to have an inferiority complex, and lack of love and low self-esteem often go hand in hand. Because people who lack love have incomplete psychological development and lack sufficient self-support, they are naturally prone to inferiority.

Therefore, people who lack love are often accompanied by a strong sense of inferiority and defects. Think of yourself as bad, inferior, and therefore unworthy of love.

A person's lack of love can actually sit to the point of exaggeration, and some very serious lack of love can even become the kind of unconditional giving personality, because they are very eager to be loved.

If you are hungry, you just need to be a woman.

Some people go to crowded places and talk to people to avoid loneliness. Hehe.

It is recommended to socialize and communicate with others more often, care about others, and be cared for.

As for themselves, they must also establish the correct three views and arrange their lives to be more fulfilling and meaningful.

In this way, there will be less boredom and emptiness.

A person who has been lacking love for a long time will have these states, first of all, they will be very independent, but their hearts are particularly fragile, and in the dead of night, it is difficult for them to control their emotions, they are easy to be satisfied, and they are particularly easy to be hurt.

I like to be lonely in life, and I like to stay in the bedroom by myself, there will be no communication and communication, and I will refuse all social and entertainment. Won't always laugh.

I don't know how to interact with others, and I'm insecure, I'm more independent on the outside, but I'm actually very fragile on the inside.

People who were not loved as children grow up to be very unloved, feel insecure, and have low self-esteem. Because I haven't been loved well, I haven't experienced the feeling of being loved, and I haven't experienced being loved, so when I grow up, I often want to love, but I don't know how to love!

1.A person who has never been loved since childhood, the most typical manifestation of growing up is to constantly seek care and warmth. There is a state of longing for love, and puppy love often appears.

They tend to develop a strong sense of possessiveness when they are in love, and this possessiveness is sometimes presented in a flattering way and sometimes in a dominant and controlling way. When they seem to love each other, they are actually looking for the father's love that they lost in their early years.

2.Some people who have not been loved since childhood will grow up to be very cold and insecure because they have not been loved. As a result, they will be very defensive against people and will not give up their emotions easily.

This is also a sign of low self-esteem. People who have not been loved have low self-esteem. It is often reflected in some choices.

I always didn't dare to choose an outcome that exceeded my expectations, I felt that I was so far away that I simply didn't get it. That is, a strong sense of inner inferiority is at work.

3.We can often see people with strained relationships with their families going out of their way to seek comfort and support outside. Just like the phenomenon of early love that we don't know in spring.

Puppy love means that you can't get inner happiness from your parents, so you want to find a stronger relationship and rip off that you will fall in love with someone much older than yourself. This process is the process of finding security. But after a failed search, they tend to continue their search tirelessly.

This is a typical act of lack of love.

4.A person who lacks love since childhood often does not have the ability to make correct judgments about people and things, nor does he have the ability to maintain good interpersonal relationships. There is an instinctive sense of rebellion and alienation towards people, and it is impossible to fully accept the good opinion of others.

Always be on the defensive and face everything around you. So the result is a greater lack of love. Because they didn't learn this ability from an early age, they often don't love themselves and others.

A person who was not well loved in his early years will not love himself or others when he grows up. It's not that they don't want to love, it's that because they don't know how to love!

Yes; It can be judged according to this person's daily performance, and the group will look at whether he usually has low self-esteem, whether he is willing to show himself, and whether he is willing to take the initiative to love others.

People who lack love will love others, and will give all their feelings, and especially need others to approve of them; If a person is particularly lonely and lonely, and others laugh at him and ruin him a little, he will give his all and show his sincerity to others, which shows that he is particularly lacking in love.

Probably not. It is necessary to observe the living environment of a person from childhood to adulthood, and it is necessary to understand the general experience of a person so far.

Due to everyone's different living environment and growth experience, there are also differences in the understanding and feeling of love, a person who grew up in a parental environment, the need and desire for love, feel so natural, and a person who grew up in a single-parent environment, the desire for love is relatively strong, to judge whether a person is lacking love, just start from the following points, you can see this matter clearly, and when dealing with others, you can consider these factors.

Restlessness – insecurity.

The first important manifestation of a person who lacks love is a lack of security, so when she talks about friends with others, she always asks her boyfriend to show him everything she has, to buy a house, to buy a car, and even, to arrange everything for the next few decades, he is willing to believe in others, which is the most direct manifestation of a person's insecurity.

Low self-esteem - not daring to compare with others.

People who lack love are more inferior in their hearts, dare not compare with others, dare not compete with others, always seem so weak, and when communicating with others, they are also full of passivity and passivity.

Otaku - afraid of contact with outsiders.

This situation is a little more serious, they are afraid of dealing with others, they always feel that this world is all bad people, they are all loveless people, so they would rather stay at home, than communicate with people more, more contacts, this situation will make themselves more and more lonely if this situation lasts for a long time.

Extreme – either introverted or domineering.

People who lack love often form two extremes, either they are very domineering to reflect their sense of existence, or they are very introverted and negative, and their lack of self-confidence is vividly reflected. Therefore, when we encounter people in these extreme situations, we must show our love, be more tolerant, and know what she thinks in her heart, which is enough, and we must be forgiving and forgiving, and don't care so seriously.

Sensitivity - taking bad things on yourself.

People who lack love are usually more sensitive, when you talk to others, he hears some words that are unfavorable to him, obviously you are not talking about him, he will also understand that you are talking about him, for his misunderstanding, everyone must have a tolerant heart to treat, you must understand in your heart, he is lacking love to do this, don't be so serious.

Suspicious – Lack of trust in others.

There is also a manifestation of a lack of love, that is, a very lack of trust in others, others are sincerely good for him, but he does not understand what others think, they are always full of doubts about people, full of doubts about the world, this mentality makes them feel very lonely.

There will really be people who are particularly lacking in love, but I am not a person who lacks love, because my parents have been accompanying me since I was a child, and they have brought a lot of love to my children, so I will not circle.

It's true. I am a very loveless person, usually very insecure, and always want to be cared for.

Yes, there are really people who lack love so much, many people know that they are very loveless and wanton Bi, and I am also a person who is particularly lacking in love, just because my family didn't care about me when I was young.

There are celery dates, many of which are caused by the original family, and some are caused by the leakage of the first character; But I'm not, I would think that it's okay if no one loves me, it's better if someone loves me or sucks.

No, there are such people, because their quality of life since childhood is not particularly good, so they need the care and care of others.

Love must be given by oneself. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke described.

I think the best outcome is to tolerate each other, encourage each other, treat each other sincerely, and cherish the opportunity to meet now. Let the missing love come back, because both people need it.

Not very optimistic.

Copy. There is little chance that two people who lack love will spark together. To be loved, one must learn to love others.

It is only possible to receive love if you give love. If both lack love, it means that they have not learned how to love others. Or there is a great lack of it in this regard.

Love is mutual, and one must learn how to love others in order to have a chance of receiving love.

Two people who lack love comfort each other, and they walk hand in hand in the white night.

There are three situations in which people who lack love and those who come to lack love are together.

The first kind of loveless person meets another person who lacks love, and immediately has the heart to take care of each other for a lifetime. A person who lacks love endures it, does not show it, treats the other person as an adult, and then one of them first tempts to obey the care of the other person who lacks love.

The second type of two loveless people find that both are loveless people at the same time, and then both treat each other with the fullest attitude. In this way, both of them are people who do not lack love. Such two people will also be very happy together.

The third one lacks love for both, and both of them ask for it, and I can think of such a situation. So that the two people will not be together, so there is no third situation.

It may affect the next generation, and the relationship will become more and more cold.

Bai together

Won't be happy, me and me.

Du husband is like that. I have been sending zhi since I was a child

Raised outside, although the parents of the raised dao are also good to me, inside.

But I'm still there.

Rong doesn't feel safe, because my biological parents treat me badly, and my adoptive parents have their own children, so when you need to talk to someone, I don't know who to talk to. My husband has been a left-behind child since he was a child, and he is extremely lacking in love, after we are together, I am very good to him, but he has been asking for my love, but he is lukewarm to me, I have always wanted to get some care and care from him, but he doesn't understand me at all. The two of us talked for eight years before getting married, and there is a relationship foundation, but after getting married, I feel more and more wronged by myself, and I want to divorce.