I m definitely having a psychological problem! I may have a psychological problem!

That's how you belong to the personality category.

Psychological problems are a kind of psychological moments that affect life, which is basically called psychological problems.

You should look for reasons in your own personality.

I don't know you very well, and I would like to take the liberty of saying a few words about you in order to help you.

First, narrow-minded, suspicious, and indecisive.

Second, sensitivity and inferiority, lack of love.

Third, the heart is selfish and closed.

In fact, we all have all of these, after all, this rises to the height of human nature, which is the weakness of human nature.

If you look at it, then avoid the important and light, and develop with a good attitude.

In and out of society, there are still many people you don't trust, first, it is best to improve your ability to see people, and second, learn to reject others.

It seems that you still don't have complete trust in this friend, or that you don't want to lend it to him, but you lend it to him for some reason. So, no matter what you lend to this friend, there will always be worries and doubts in your heart. This is normal.

Next time, if you encounter this kind of thing again, you should excuse yourself, or simply make it clear so as not to cause psychological pressure.

Excessive distrust of people is also a mental illness.

The key depends on how far you have come? Isn't there enough trust in everyone.

If it has affected every little thing in your life, it is considered a mental illness.

No, many people are like this, after all, it's the key, everyone will worry about their key, and of course they're worried about lending their things to others, hehe, it's normal.

If you don't trust him, don't lend it to him, lest you doubt yourself, and have no heart disease, as is the case with everyone.

Normal, I also have this, which means that you don't trust him very much, and his character is not particularly positive.

Hehe, don't lend him if you don't trust him, find a reason.

The heart of defense is too heavy.

Not a problem.

I'm telling you very clearly, you're sick!

Everyone experiences loneliness to a greater or lesser extent throughout their lives. It's not scary to be alone. However, if this kind of psychology is not properly channeled or relieved and develops into a habit, it will become withdrawn and eccentric, and in serious cases, it may even become autism, which requires the ** of a psychiatrist.

Here are some ways to overcome loneliness that are sure to yield unexpected results if you do it consistently.

Overcome low self-esteem. Because of low self-esteem, they feel inferior to others, so they dare not contact others, resulting in a state of loneliness. This is like being bound by a cocoon, and if the cocoon of inferiority is not broken, it will be difficult to get out of loneliness. In fact, people cannot be compared with each other, everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and everyone is the same and different.

Therefore, as long as a person is self-confident, he will drill into the cocoon of self-weaving, so as to overcome loneliness.

Communicate with the outside world.

Living alone does not mean being isolated, and although it is objectively difficult to communicate with the outside world, there are still ways to achieve the purpose of communication. If you're feeling lonely, flip through your old address book, look at your photo album, or write a letter to a friend you haven't been in touch with for a long time. Of course, the interaction and connection with friends should not only be when you feel lonely, but also know that others need and can experience the warmth of friendship just like you.

Engage with people selflessly.

The loneliness you feel when you're around people is sometimes ten times more than when you're alone. It's because you don't fit in with the people around you. For example, if you go to a place where you don't understand the language, you will feel doubly lonely in the warm atmosphere of others because you can't communicate with the people around you and you can't get into that kind of warm emotion.

Therefore, when dealing with others, no matter what the situation, you must be "selfless" and try to do something for others, you should know how to warm others at the same time, but also yourself.

Enjoy nature.

There are many activities in life that are full of fun. As long as you can fully appreciate their beauty, you will eliminate loneliness, for example, some people encounter frustration, when they are in a bad mood, but they do not want to talk to others, they often run to the river or an open field, let the breeze of nature blow to their heart's content, and the mood will gradually become cheerful. In short, one of the most important ways to get rid of loneliness is to try to change your environment.

Confucius once said, "If you learn alone and have no friends, you will be lonely and unheard." When you are alone, arrange some things for yourself that you are interested in, read books, listen to **, engage in your own hobbies, etc.

Everyone will be lonely at times, and satisfying one's interests and hobbies in one's own time is one of the joys of life.

I hope you can get out of the current situation, enjoy your good life, and live bravely because you are a man

Brother, I'm the same as you, all kinds of tragedies and all kinds of lack of love when I was in school, but it's okay, just get through it, now that I'm working and busy every day, I don't feel hypocritical or pessimistic.

I'll give you a suggestion, set a goal, think about what you're good at, you can't go to school, and learning a craft will be very promising, and then make a plan and work hard to do it, don't care too much about learning, it's okay, if you don't learn well, you can still learn a good craft, do a good job, marry a good daughter-in-law, and live a decent life.

The key is that you set a goal and work towards it.

Don't be impetuous, can't persevere.

Write down what you think about every day, and then there will be more, and finally it will become a book, which can be called "Confessions".

Find a teacher you like to talk to, preferably old, female, and very enlightening. As long as you're kind, it's OK, and you want to open a little.

Wow, the upstairs writing is really "detailed"....

You're going to be a big guy in the future.

Keeping a diary is a great option