I can t forget him, and I can t let him go. What should I do, every night I think of him makes my he

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Create your own life, and if you lose something, you will gain something.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Bless him, there is a kind of love called letting go, if one day you see your true prince you will soon forget.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's up to you, if you're sure he doesn't like you, you keep a friendly relationship with him but don't try to break the sweetness of others, and slowly, you'll find that your feelings have changed, and you'll be relieved.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you've tried to be with someone else after a while and still can't forget him, be brave and tell him that you may just have courage!! Believe in yourself...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time will dilute everything, try to reach out to other male friends!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give it up, and you'll be much happier.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you: I want to forget a person and can't forget, I want to let go and can't let go, 1, time will make you forget him, it's best to make yourself very busy every day, it's best to no longer live in a city with him, it's best for you to make some new friends.

    2. Play more with friends, find more happy things to do, read more humorous books and magazines, and relax yourself. Watch some comedy, relax, listen to **, and remember not to be sad. 3. Think of him as bad as possible, so that you will gradually go from loving to not loving, from not loving to disgusting, and then to the last so-called "hate", when you first start to "hate" him, you must pay attention to a degree, otherwise you will fall into a vicious circle.

    I want to forget a person but I can't forget it, I want to let go but I can't let it go, it's so uncomfortable, I can't cry if I want to, what should I do, what should I do.

    Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you: I want to forget a person and can't forget, I want to let go and can't let go, 1, time will make you forget him, it's best to make yourself very busy every day, it's best to no longer live in a city with him, it's best for you to make some new friends. 2. Play more with friends, find more happy things to do, read more humorous books and magazines, and relax yourself.

    Watch some comedy, relax, listen to **, and remember not to be sad. 3. Think of him as bad as possible, so that you will gradually go from loving to not loving, from not loving to disgusting, and then to the last so-called "hate", when you first start to "hate" him, you must pay attention to a degree, otherwise you will fall into a vicious circle.

    Dear, if you still like it, then boldly pursue your love.

    It's so unpleasant.

    I drank every night to anesthetize and didn't want to think about him, but the more I drank, the more I missed him.

    Dear, does he like you.

    Dear, if you like it very much, you will boldly pursue your love, since you can't let it go, we won't let it go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not easy to forget a person, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. An insider once said that it is impossible for people to forget the person they love, because once they forget, it is not love.

    If you think about it, it still makes sense. To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget. Too often, when we can't bear the pain and the facts, helpless we hope that we can forget everything we have been, but in the indulgence of pain, we gradually understand: real forgetting is not simply forgetting and escaping, but faced, when we can calmly face everything after coming out of the pain, maybe we have achieved the real forget, loving someone is to put that person in our hearts, this is very easy!

    But love will get deeper and deeper, that person will be deep in his heart, to forget, but to dig that person out of his heart! The heart can ache and hurt, so it's harder to love than to forget! Forget, maybe it will take a month, maybe a few years, maybe a lifetime!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why can't we forget the cause?

    Bai for yourself and don't want to forget du

    If you dare to take action, as long as you are long enough, you will definitely be able to deal with this genus.

    People don't matter

    First, you have to plan every day what makes you happy and make you happy Even if you plan one thing, you will act when you plan it You are slowly happy, he is a fart

    Second, learn to encourage yourself People don't take you seriously, it's useless for you to pay everything So encourage yourself, when you fell in love with him, you were right, and if you found that the other party was lying, you deleted the other party, and you were not wrong

    Third, you must find a new partner If you dare to find it again, you will definitely be able to find someone who is really good to you You are happy because of your new love, and you will no longer think about the person who doesn't care about you and is full of lies

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Forget about a person.

    It's easier said than done, only letting go of the next person is a wise choice. If you can let go of the things in your heart, then you can let go of everything. dao

    I can understand your feelings about you, but it's not so easy for people to forget (except for doing stupid things), especially for those who are deeply impressed in their minds. In fact, it is very happy to be able to cry when we are sad, because we can't cry when we are really sad, even though we will choke. To love is to try to love, then get hurt, and then continue to love.

    Every time I get hurt, I cry, it is regarded as the end of this relationship, but it is actually full of happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Divert attention. My best bet is to talk to a good friend. Lookers-on see most of the game.

    Listen appropriately to your friends' advice. Then it's about keeping yourself busy. Immerse yourself in your work.

    Get busy. There's no time to think about anything else. It's been a long time.

    The things that make you tangled up slowly fade away.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why cry, laugh and smirk, why be sad for someone who shouldn't be sad, you can look outside the window there are many scenery waiting for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If this happens, let me analyze it, you may still have feelings for that person, you can go to her (him) and talk back to him about your thoughts, or answer.

    You ask him if you have a better way to get along, it is good for you to do this, otherwise you will really torture yourself crazy, you have a problem now, you may not tell the other party, people don't know it! You take the initiative to adjust it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should forget or forget, since you don't love it, forget it completely, if you want to cry, you have to insist on not crying, why cry for someone who doesn't love you, and try to do something else by yourself whenever you think about it. Make yourself happy, everybody has their own struggles, and you're no exception, I know.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The one that you can't forget and can't let go of must be something that you can't forget, and you can't let go of the person you love the most. Actually, sometimes we think.

    Answer to forget and no longer remember, forget not that person, let go of that time, in fact, it is our unwillingness, is our obsession, if you can really say forget and forget, say let go, then when we were together, was there really a good time?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You have to be brave enough to face problems.

    It's a matter of letting go of the other person. First of all, go to travel, play around, and relax.

    Adjust the mood of the festival and expand your circle of friends. And cry if you want to, vent well, and excrete the garbage mood. If you can't cry, watch the tragic TV series, listen to the sad songs, have a good suffering, and vent it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go to KTV to drink, roar loudly, turn on the volume to the maximum, and no one knows. Sing the hatred in your heart, and it will be much easier.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not that I can't forget it, it's just that the time hasn't come! Time will change everything, and time will also make you look down on that person

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I always want to cry when I remember that I am too lonely alone.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love and hatred, it's good if it's been a long time, life goes through stages, and you have a wonderful life later, I wish you happiness!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Time will dilute everything. Life is like this in the world, slowly realize it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It all has to be time-lapsed, but just face it correctly, not the sky falls, and live actively.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If the child wants to cry, just cry out, just cry out, and then don't think about him and get out of the shadow of life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why forget that, why forget those who can't forget.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Can we have a chat and a coffee, maybe they are the same.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Have a good vent and vent the garbage mood.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy. Wishing you happiness and a happy life!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    。。。It's useful to find something to distract you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!!

    I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

    In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

    Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote;

    I don't know what bad things I did to him in my previous life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life.

    So, I got better.

    If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't even know what I'm doing wrong.

    The question was blocked because I hit him ** and I didn't hit him all day and night, and I beat him, and he spoke harshly, and then I used my family's to beat him two days ago, and he said he was angry, and then I asked him to pull me back, and he said he had, and then he said he forgot, and then he pulled me back yesterday, and now he has blocked me.

    Dear, I don't understand what you mean, I don't understand!

    The question was blocked because I hit him **, I didn't hit him until night, I beat him ** he spoke very hard, and then I used my family's to beat him two days ago, he said he was angry and what else, and then I asked him to pull me back and he said pull, and then he said he forgot, and then he pulled me back yesterday, and now he has blocked me, I still don't understand what he thinks in his heart.

    Question, but I didn't call today, I only sent a message, what does he mean if he doesn't speak.

    and block me directly.

    Don't engage in any long-distance relationships, find a local one that is more suitable for you!

    Personal advice, if you feel that you can't let go, then you follow your feelings, just do it!

    My personal advice is that you break up and find a local one! Don't get me wrong, I'm afraid you won't understand, explain.

    I don't know what the relationship between the two of us is very confused now, I just wanted him to pull me back yesterday to have a good chat, completely over, but he is like this, I don't know what to do, talk about him if he really doesn't have me in his heart, I will completely let him go without saying a word and directly block it, what does this mean. He's not pressing.

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