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didn't say that every woman is like this, if he really treats you as a family, he won't say that this is yours, that is mine, this is your responsibility, and that is none of my business, and it is so clear. Although most of the responsibility is borne by boys, since two people are together, they should support each other, and life is spent by two people. Also, since you don't have the financial ability to have children, you are not in a hurry to have children, and everyone knows how high the consumption of children is now.
She is not willing to give a penny to your life, how do you think you should feed this child when it is born, it is true that women are a little selfish. In fact, you can talk to her calmly, the premise of misunderstanding is the lack of communication, you can listen to her thoughts. If you think this woman is worth giving, you can accept it, and if you think she is really selfish and doesn't know how to understand you, you can also consider finding someone else.
People nowadays are really spoiled. Although it is said that a woman should be spoiled, this woman must know how to understand men and support men. It's not easy for men to be outside.
As a woman, I fully understand how much a man needs a woman's understanding.
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Tie the knot? What kind of marriage, marriage is a lifelong thing, I don't think you are suitable for marriage, it is very unsuitable. This woman can't do it, she can't be in charge, and she doesn't think about how to live.
Both of you are paid too low, is it that easy to have a baby? From conception to childbirth, how much money does it cost, how much does it cost to spend confinement after birth, does it cost to eat, wear, and have a living guarantee after the child is born? What is she doing, the salary is only more than 1,000???
More than a thousand??
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The cognition is different, and I can't change it in the future, I will be very tired and regretful, for sure.
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Personal experience: Marriage does not necessarily have to have children. Two people can get intimate when they get married, and having children is another way to get intimacy. If you don't have children, you can't continue the incense, and you don't reduce your loneliness.
First of all, having children is a custom that has been passed down since ancient times. Marriage and childbirth are customs that have been handed down since ancient times, and the concept of men marrying women should be married in ancient times. It can be seen that the necessity of marriage is carried over to modern times, eliminating many of these complicated and rounded articles.
However, when young men and women reach a certain age, the family will still urge marriage, which is one of the customs that cannot be ignored!
Not having children does not alleviate one's loneliness. It is inevitable that you will encounter difficulties in life, and finding a partner to accompany you and bear with you at this time can alleviate the worries caused by these difficulties and make life more warm. At the same time, having someone by your side to accompany you and take care of you in old age can make your later life happier.
If you don't have children, you can't pass it on to future generations. Marriage and childbirth represent the continuation of family incense, although many middle-aged people do not care about this problem now, but the older generation still attaches great importance to the issue of having children. So getting married allows the family to prosper and grow and pass it on from generation to generation.
If you don't have children, you can't move on to society. At present, many areas are showing the problem of aging population, so the national policy is to encourage marriage and childbearing. The formation of a family when you get married can make the society more harmonious and progressive, thereby promoting the development of the country, so the benefits of getting married and having children are still countless!
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It is not necessary to have children to get married.
In modern society, marriage must not require children, which is a completely acceptable phenomenon. As a parent, you can also let your child grow up happily by providing them with a good education and loving parenting.
Actually, you don't need to have children to get married. Many couples will want to have children, but they do not have the financial resources to support parenting. However, they can use their love and parenting knowledge to make up for it, choosing to have a pet, which can also reduce the emotional desire in their social polite hearts.
Moreover, marriage does not have to have children, so that couples can pursue their own careers and develop their careers more freely. Couples can devote more time to work and projects without restricting their time to take care of the family.
In addition, children do not have to have parents to provide an environment for them to return to court, they can find new opportunities in other settings, such as family adoption or social adoption. Such an adoption mechanism can also change the lives of some children and help them get better opportunities in life.
In short, marriage must not require children, and this idea has been recognized all over the world. Couples can have plenty of freedom to realize their work dreams and grow their careers, and the children in the family can have better life opportunities through various adoption methods. Therefore, getting married does not necessarily have to have children and is an acceptable option.
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Although it is said that men should get married, and women should marry to a certain age, most people have to find a partner who is really suitable for them to form their own family and achieve the goal of getting married and having children, but I personally think that marriage is not necessarily about having children, and the problem of not having children is obviously more. I say this because:
1. Getting married and having children is a natural thing, so it is better to have children after marriage. Falling in love, getting married, having children, and having a family inheritance, this is a natural thing, and this is the case in the capital from ancient times to the present. It is precisely because of this reason that having children after marriage is a natural result, although there is no such saying and requirement that you must have children after marriage, but for the vast majority of married people, they will choose to have children after marriage.
2. Children are the bond between husband and wife, and the relationship between husband and wife will be deeper after giving birth to children. The relationship between husband and wife is maintained by their affection for each other, but if the relationship between husband and wife is maintained only by their affection for each other, the foundation is not strong enough. Only by adding the child factor can you get the most satisfactory results.
Children are an important bond between husband and wife, and families with children tend to have a more harmonious relationship.
3. If you don't have children, your home will look deserted, which will affect your family life. If you choose not to have children after getting married, as long as your family has no opinion, there will be no problem. But for families without children, the home will seem cold and boring, and in the long run, the relationship between husband and wife will be affected, and family life will become cold and lonely, which is obviously not conducive to the harmony and happiness of life.
Therefore, having children is the best choice after marriage.
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