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Any parent hopes that their children will find a good home, and hope that their daughter can be happy for a lifetime, so whether it is a "good home" or "happiness", the most basic thing is the material performance. Your girlfriend's father is the same, not to mention that he still has a heart attack, so he thinks more about his daughter's future and can understand it.
If you and your girlfriend really love each other forever, and can be with her for the rest of your life without hurting her, you should muster up the courage, work hard, and make a result to show his father, the result is the most important, of course, it takes time, so what you have to do now is to find a suitable time to talk to his father, at least let him know that you really love his daughter, so that he can rest assured in the future, not being rich now does not mean that he will be poor in the future, and no one will know in the future. You can also ask his father for some time, a year, three years, five years, etc., and then it's up to you. I believe that as long as his father sees your sincerity, he will hand over his daughter to you!
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That's because her father can't see if his daughter can be entrusted to you, after all, your family is not rich You don't have much of a city now, but as long as you behave well in front of his father, people's hearts are flesh and blood, let him see how good you are to his daughter, how much respect he has for him, he will like you, you have to insist, no matter what he says or do, you must continue to be good to him!
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Learn from Jifeng in the Korean drama "Watch and Watch", and any problem will be solved!
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Pull it down... Otherwise, the ending will be tragic.
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I moved him with my actions
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Many netizens are telling you about the risks while telling you "to carry out love to the end".
I think the same thing as them.
And what I also want to say is: a relationship, you can not start it. But once you start, you have to have a beginning and an end, and you must never give up.
As you said, if you are in love and you are involved in this relationship, then you are responsible for your own choices. Don't give the other person happiness and then give her pain.
Your parents' concerns are understandable. You should talk to your parents about it. No one can ** what the future will be, the only thing that is good is today.
Even if it is a healthy "future daughter-in-law", no one can guarantee that she will always be healthy, and no one can rule out the possibility of accidents. It may have come to pass, and no one pointed out the right path. The road is walked by yourself, and you will not regret it if you walk it yourself (of course, you must first confirm whether you do not regret it).
If I were you, I would like to think about whether my feelings for the other party are deep, not momentarily moved, then I will not listen to anyone's persuasion, I choose my own path, others choose for me, I will regret it and complain if I am wrong.
If you love her, protect her.
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After reading such a long introduction, I think you should be a person who doesn't talk much, people look okay, and your girlfriend is a lively person, you date two people, she always sends you messages before, maybe she just wants to see that she can conquer you, after you officially date, she is not so enthusiastic, whether she really likes you or not, it doesn't matter, you can ask her out openly and honestly, say the doubts in your heart, see what she says, a person's feelings can really be tested by time,
Admit your mistakes, and then say the reason for your smoking, you will slowly change, this is not something that can be changed all at once, after all, it has been many years, and the two of them can discuss smoking as a reward, when you do something right, she can promise to let you smoke a few cigarettes, and you can also implement this policy for her, harmonious development.
Maybe she cares about you and doesn't like you, or she has thoughts in her heart, or maybe she has someone else in her heart. Here's my thoughts, and I said maybe, hoping not to give you ideas. I'm just guessing because I'm a woman.
It doesn't matter, as long as you have the heart, they will understand.