Be too nice to others, and others will leave you?

If you are too kind to a person, you will appear too possessive, so that the other person will stay away from you.

Girls don't be too nice to boys...

Great, the boy will take it for granted that you are good to him.

He won't cherish you either.

Well, when my girlfriend broke up with me, I asked her why? She told me that I was so nice to her, but I really couldn't explain this kind of problem.

But I think that if you really like someone, you should be good to her.

If he doesn't appreciate it, it's because he knows to cherish it.

Support you!

...You should be my girlfriend...

Just kidding, hehe, hey, it's really happy to have a girlfriend like you, in fact, it's very simple for the two to break up, one of them has no feelings for the other, because he is still young, and he thinks he can find another one with feelings, so he gave up the current one. In a word: men like the new and hate the old.

Actually, I'm a man too.

It's not so much that you are too good to him that causes you to break up, but that you love the wrong person, and you are good to him because you love him, so you want to give him everything you have; He wants to break up with you because he doesn't think you have any challenge and takes it for granted that his red apricot is out of the wall, because you gave him this opportunity. The starting point of the two of you is misplaced at the beginning, I suggest that if you still want to find another one, you better find a gentle, responsible, and willing to pay for you, so that you don't have to change; If you are still like such a man, you had better be a little detached from him, sometimes you have to look like you give everything, sometimes you have to make a little mystery, coquettish is also to be, don't pay too much, let his purse also have some blood, remember: women are used to pet, and men are used to worship.

I think your actions hurt his so-called self-esteem in some way. There is a big difference between men's thoughts and women's thoughts, don't use women's thoughts to think about men's psychology.

If someone who has been very nice to me suddenly leaves me, my first feeling will be loss, and then curiosity. In the end, it may be regret.

There is a saying that it is common to know at the time. There are many people who are very good to you, when they are good to you, you don't feel it, and only when they leave you can you realize how important they are to you. But if you really wait until this day, it may be irreparable.

After a long period of time with you and being nice to you, you may form a habit and may feel that this is part of life. Then when this kind of wandering person disappears, then your life is incomplete. It's as if you've suddenly gone out of the sun back into a dark room.

There will be a feeling of discomfort, very strong.

When this feeling of not being is getting used to gradually. You calm down and start thinking. If I had not seen the light, I would have been able to face the darkness alone.

If such a person suddenly disappears. You will feel uncomfortable, but you will also wonder why he disappeared all of a sudden. What causes this?

This curiosity may prompt you to seek out him. But it may be suppressed in the heart, and then become a period of unsettled.

In the end, it should be regret, regret that she didn't cherish it when she was around, and only realized its value after losing it. This seems to be the final end of many relationships, so go ahead and cherish it! Don't wait for the person who is very good to you to really leave you before you know how to cherish it.

I will have a supportive attitude, he respects me, and I respect his choice.

I don't want you to be distracted by her.

If the people around you are not good to you, it is better to leave and meet a better version of yourself.

A person's situation often coincides with his own ability, vision, and knowledge, and if you feel that the people around you are intrigued, or even bullying you, then it may not be them, but you, you are not hard enough, not strong enough, so that they are used to treating you as a "soft persimmon".

If you look closely, you will find that "people are good and are bullied" is only in certain situations, and if you are experiencing it, it can only mean that you are not fit to stay there and you need to leave.

When you try to go to another circle, what you see and hear may surprise you, and you can even realize that you are making progress bit by bit, yes, you can realize it.

If you don't believe it, you can observe those who bully you, how they behave in the face of the "strong", I'm afraid most of them are nodding and submissive.

So don't hate those who "threaten the weak" too much, because they are very weak and even pitiful, and the more they show their teeth and claws on the outside, the more confident they are inside.

They treat you badly and bully you, you don't have to back down and endure again, that will only make the other party gain an inch, either resist or leave.

Leaving may be the best way, he does not mean to escape, but not to entangle with "rotten people".

I've heard something like this: You argue with a fool, and you win or lose.

Presumably this is probably the truth, after tossing and turning, you will find that all you can do may be to improve yourself.

Leave, you will not progress in that world full of "villains".

How could I not leave such a nice person? What do you mean.

Dear users, I am a high-quality answerer, emotional mentor, Lan'er is happy to answer for you. Hello, what he means is that he will definitely not leave you, he likes you very much. But he doesn't have faith in you, he's afraid that you will leave him, so she says that if you leave him, you won't find someone like him who is good to you, and he means that no one is as good to you as he is.

He wants you to cherish him. I really hope that I can help you, and I wish you a happy and happy car every day 2 0 2 2 2 bury your eyes.