Should there be close friends in life?

There will definitely be!

Bosom friends are both sides and can be trusted by each other!

I have close friends, we talk about everything, and encourage each other!

We didn't hurt each other!

Friends are not required to ask for anything!

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Of course, this is for sure, there should be bosom friends in life.

However, it is often very difficult to find close friends, so you will have such questions.

But as long as you have a keen insight, you will find the real confidant.

You treat him as a friend and he doesn't, friends are mutual. So you're not friends yet.

A close friend doesn't have to be around all the time.

It doesn't have to be a constant point out of your shortcomings.

As long as I can be there for you when you need it.

It's enough to be there for you when you're unhappy.

Such a person is not your bosom friend and is not worthy of your sadness, and your bosom friend will be a pistachio for you when you are sad and sad.

When you are in trouble, you will take the initiative to help you and do not ask for retribution.

Friends who know that you have shortcomings will definitely point them out.

Have you ever heard this song from a friend? In fact, this is how you can share happiness together.

Yes, at least we should be our own friends, and secondly, it is best to find a close friend as much as possible, so that our busy hearts have a harbor to dock.

As I grew older, we had more and more friends around us, but I suddenly felt that there were fewer and fewer friends who could talk to me. Sometimes when many friends get together, I feel inexplicably that I am surrounded by loneliness, the loneliness of being immersed in the dark night alone is an indescribable taste, and the loneliness in the singing and laughing of friends is a different taste in my heart!

Once upon a time, when we were still innocent children, we didn't know what the taboo of talking was, we really could say whatever we wanted, and no one would think about what they wanted to say and ponder for a long time before saying it. What is to speak freely, I thought we were in the innocent childhood.

Slowly we grow up, and we don't talk without scruples, because we don't know that the words we don't want will cause others to be dissatisfied, so there are many times when we leave half a sentence on our lips. Instead of being a pleasure, chatting with people has become a burden! It's not okay to be silent if you don't speak, so some people will think that you don't pay attention to him or that you put on a show (pretending to fart), so we smile and speak very slowly, and the reason why we speak very slowly is that we mentally first draft what we want to say, and we should say that sentence and that sentence should not be said, and we also have to think about how to say it.

Intonation, speed of speech, and the consequences of speaking yourself. Oh, that's talking! It's like putting on a play on the stage.

So I'm more and more willing to be lonely than to go to party!

If there is such a close friend, we drink a little wine together, without going through the mountains of the world. Whoever says anything and no one goes to the psychology, and vents their psychological bitterness and backlog of tiredness to each other, then this friend can be called (confidant friend) or confidant! Only those who have reached the age of age have become more and more aware of what Mr. Lu Xun said:

It is enough to have a confidant in life, the deep meaning of the words! There are not many friends, there are one or two friends who can know your suffering, know your tiredness, know why you are happy, and can let you drink less and pay more attention to taking care of your body, this is a great happiness in our life!

Escaping loneliness is the choice of the masses, and I would rather be lonely than immersed in boring songs and laughter! I struggled with loneliness in loneliness, and I thought of a way to overcome it! I'm looking for answers!

In a person's life, under normal circumstances, it is impossible not to have a friend, because friends often play a very important role in a person's life and daily life. As the saying goes, "one fence has three piles, and one hero has three gangs", and all heroes are like this, let alone ordinary people? Of course, you can't live without friends, without the help of friends, sometimes some things will be difficult to do, however, you can't have many close friends, because there are really too many friends, and you will definitely bring trouble to yourself.

Intimate friends are key players in life.

In a person's life, there are generally not too many people who can really reach the specifications of bosom friends. The so-called bosom friend is probably what was said in the past as "bosom friend, confidant", and now as "iron buddy, girlfriend" and so on. These bosom friends are definitely different from ordinary friends, because they are often close to each other, almost nothing to talk about, and some bosom friends have a relationship even more than family and relatives.

Because of the intimate heart, the heart is connected, so they can speak and understand each other, and many people regard the most intimate friends as their guiding lights, navigators, and even spiritual pillars in life. As bosom friends, most of them are indeed able to give guidance at critical moments in life, at crossroads, or to resolve crises, or to give generous contributions, or to help each other, and to give friends help that ordinary people can't do. It can be seen that bosom friends are a rare key role in life.

Ordinary friends are important people in life. In a person's life, there will always be various difficulties and setbacks in work, study or life, and often at this time, I will hope that someone can help. Therefore, in addition to family and relatives, it is necessary to have a request for friends.

Of course, in every life, with the changes of time and space, there will be many different friends, who will always lend a helping hand and help you when you need it most, so that you can get through it smoothly. Sometimes, the mutual help between friends is not a big deal, or even just a gesture, but it gives people a different feeling, just like sending an umbrella in the rain and charcoal in the snow, timely and refreshing, which is very gratifying, so even ordinary friends, as long as they get along well, they are also important people in life.

One or two confidants in life are enough. "There are many kinds of friends, and there are many kinds, "people gather in groups, and things are divided by categories". For example, ordinary friends in daily life, bosom friends who can talk to themselves, same-sex friends, boyfriends and girlfriends, etc., as well as work, study, business, etc., and even wine and meat friends who play on the spot, "fox friends and dog friends" and so on.

It can be seen that there are too many friends, which is indeed a very long-winded trouble, and sometimes it is possible to be hurt by the so-called "friends". So, why did the ancients emphasize that only one or two confidants are enough in a person's life? In fact, this is the great wisdom of the ancestors.

Because the so-called confidant is what we call the most confidant, the most reliable, and the most worthy friend. Obviously, such an important friend really can't be too much, otherwise, your privacy will not be guaranteed, and your verbosity and trouble will continue.

In the vast world, there are many people who pass by you, and there are countless people who know you. In addition to relatives, there is another kind of person, although there is no blood relationship, but he cares about you, loves you, helps you, and cares about you like a relative, this kind of person is a friend. A friend is someone you want to see when you're happy, someone you want to find when you're worried, someone who doesn't need to say thank you when you get help, someone who doesn't have to say sorry when you bother, and someone who doesn't need to change your name when you're promoted.

Friends can walk in the rain with an umbrella together, roll on the beach together, indulge in some kind of reverie together, swim in the sea of books together, friends are sad to shed tears with you, and have joy and silly laughter with you......

In fact, a real friend is a lifelong confidant, only a true friend is called a friend's friendship, but not all friends are real confidants, friends also have ordinary friends, ordinary friends, sincere friends, the most confidant friends, real friends are to make themselves worthy of cherishing and trusting confidants, but also the most trusted people in their hearts, friends will know how to be grateful and return, righteousness and trustworthiness have a conscience, friends should be mutual giving, not taking, People who can share weal and woe with you, who can take the initiative to stand up for you when you need help in the most difficult times, give you comfort, do things for you, help you, and relieve your troubles. A friend is a mutual considerateness, trust, respect, care, support, help, understanding, tolerance, and mutual willingness to pay for each other, and a loyal guardian for each other. Friend:

It may not be reasonable, but it must be knowing; Not necessarily inseparable, but certainly sympathetic; Not necessarily the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow; It doesn't have to be in touch all the time, but it's always in mind. A friend is a friend who reaches out to you on the road of your life, especially when you encounter difficulties; When you are happy, it is your friends who laugh and cry with you; When you are most painful, it is your friend who holds your hand to give you strength, the weight of your friend is not in words, not in material, not in wine and money, but in the care, understanding, help, and support between friends、、、 if you are in a lonely journey, remember what your friend said, you will no longer indulge in it, if you can feel your friend's hand by your side in the painful days, the whole person is suddenly full of strength; If you dial your friend's ** when you are depressed, and when you hear that familiar voice, even if you don't say a word, you feel that the hesitation is no longer shrouded, then this is the weight of a friend. The way each of us treats our friends is how we give to our friends, how to always leave an oasis with our name written in the hearts of friends, how to make friends always feel that there is a light ahead, a signpost to guide them, and a heart to hope, express and cherish in the same way、、、 such friends are real bosom friends.

A person will have a lot of friends, but the real confidant is very few, the confidant is able to meet in the heart, can understand each other, when you are troubled, even if he is troubled, will not tell you, confidant does not have mutual possessiveness, when you are happy, he will also tell you his happiness to share that joy with you, confidant only silently dedicate himself, confidant is each other's heart, confidant is each other's heart, life is enough to have a confidant.

In fact, to be honest, you will have a lot of good friends in your life, maybe for a while you can still say everything, there are no secrets between each other, but after a long time, it is not necessarily. There are only one or two of them, really, and these two will not contact you for a while, because everyone will run around for life, and they will be far apart, but no matter when you meet, you will feel very close and sincere, and there is no interest in the exchange, pure friendship, there will be endless topics to talk about when you meet, and that is the friend who cares about you the most in your life.