My heart is very entangled, and sometimes I feel very upset when I think about it

There will always be a contradiction between reality and love.

Especially this society.

For you who have just graduated a few years ago, if you don't use your family's money, it is estimated that buying a house is a very distant thing.

The most important thing is that whether this pressure is given by the woman's family or by the woman, it will make a big difference.

If you stick with him and withstand the pressure, then he will be very determined.

If you make the same demands as your family and put pressure on him, he will be disappointed and hopeless.

Especially for those whose family conditions are not good, if he doesn't want to drag down the family.

All he wants now is to give up, because he will feel that you value the house, not the person.

It's just that feelings can't be put away, especially if you're just because of the house.

That's what happens.

If your first problem were me, I would give up, but I was too reluctant and unwilling to cause your second problem to happen. You have to take a look at the article and Yao Di's naked marriage era, it is very realistic, the key is how you make your choice, and in the end, of course, he may not be able to have his own company like the article, and the house can be bought when the time comes, but after all, it is just a temporary residence. Hehe, two people have hands and feet, will they starve to death without a house?

Surely there will be no happiness? Would you like to marry a big boss who has a house and a car and is not at home every day? It's not okay to have no money, and feelings are also important, but shark fin and bear paw can't have both, so let's give up if we have no money?

God said, "I can't help you." If you help me find someone who is rich and has a good relationship with me, I also want to marry such a person.

No matter what your family asks, at least, he should work hard for it, but his attitude is not clear, indicating that he is not responsible, and he likes to escape when he encounters problems, so I advise you to think about it.

Why not two people go for it? Is money really that important ? Can it surpass feelings? 》

Delete everything about him and start over!

His heart is the same as you, he wants to break it, but there is a kind of indescribable reluctance, he really wants to understand, calm down, and the two of them communicate well.

Hello friend.

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.

If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.

Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties.

Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Come on!. Don't say you're tired for a little bit of trouble and blow and unhappiness and unhappiness, in fact, there are many, many people who are more tired than us in the vast sea of people, and what is a person who is distressed and happy and happy in the vast sea of people? ? What are we doing when we are tired and want to die or live?? Who will show you who will care about you and help you accompany you?

How many ups and downs are there on the road of life!? Whether you accept the ups and downs or not, whether you can't accept it or if you can accept it, the ups and downs are in your destiny! It is better to escape than to accept the ups and downs with your happiness, happiness, kindness, sincerity, and good mood, as long as you face him with your happiness, happiness, kindness, and good mood, you will feel happy and happy in your heart!

Please believe that the sun is always after the wind and rain, please believe that there is a rainbow.

I care so much. So just stick with it.