Why does Dad hate me????????????

I don't know what the situation is like in your family, but from the perspective of human nature, there is no father who does not love his children. Maybe some people will treat their daughters worse when they have children and daughters because of their patriarchal thinking; There are also people who are impatient or fierce towards their children due to work, life and other reasons. But from their hearts, it's not that they don't love their children.

Maybe some fathers have thicker emotional lines, and some write about young children who are not easy to understand them. Think about the pressures of life as a father, who has to work hard to earn money to support his family, and who has to deal with all kinds of things that may arise, and all aspects of work and life have to be dealt with. If you think about the problem from his point of view, maybe you will understand him.

A father's love for his children can be shown in very small things, such as letting his child eat when he is reluctant to eat something delicious, showing his anxiety when you are sick, and so on. Or you can look closely, and there are small things that can show his care and love for you. Maybe it will change the relationship between you and your father in the future.

I sometimes have the same thoughts as you, I feel that my father doesn't love me, and he always loses his temper with me, and I have to be careful everywhere to look at his face. Talking well, doing with him doesn't end well...

But, think about it, he is for my good, but the method is not appropriate, he and I are not the same era, it is inevitable that there is a generation gap, I have never communicated with him since I was a child, and he will not know my thoughts, so he can't do everything to my satisfaction, and it should be good to communicate well. Or write letters, Fu Lei is good at communicating with letters, and their father-son relationship must be very harmonious.

In fact, it is difficult for his father, he has to work hard for the sake of the family, and it is impossible to tell you all the pressure in work and life, and it is not easy for him to carry it alone. Maybe it's the pressure of work or something, he will be very short-tempered, maybe he will be fierce to you inadvertently, but he will never deliberately murder you and make you uncomfortable.

Remember, no parent does not love their children, it is not easy for them to work hard to pull their children, and it is impossible to have no feelings no matter how much effort and affection they put in. It's not easy for a father, a father is not like a mother, love for children can be reflected in life, father's love is very deep, use your heart to experience it, maybe it's the food that your father brought back, or a word that is good for you, or a good word for you, or a hard time to pick you up from school, or work hard day and night for you to have a good future...

We must learn to be grateful, and learn to experience love and true feelings in the details of life.

Don't say that you are the same as people who don't have a father, they never have a chance to shout "Dad" again, their family has lost their manhood, they don't have the opportunity to be coquettish in front of their father, they have to force themselves to grow up overnight, they can support this family, fill the vacancy of a home without a father...

No matter what dad does, he's my dad after all!

Without him, there would be no me!

How old are you? There are many kinds of like you, one kind of wine is that your father loves you very, very much, so he is fierce to you in order to make you live a more wonderful life, one is that he is a very X person, he will only think about his own selfish ghost, if he doesn't care about you in economy and life and academics, then he must be the second kind of person, if he is very strict with you financially and in life and academics, it is not that he doesn't love you, but he doesn't know how to express his love, maybe he will be very angry and angry and beat you, But that can also show that he loves you, in fact, you don't know parents, there are many parents who are very fierce to their children, but in fact, they are also very sad and sad when they are fierce to you.

I don't know if that's actually the case. Just want to give a small suggestion to the landlord.

It is recommended that the landlord write a letter to his father, if the face-to-face expression may not be spoken, the father is the same, so in the form of letters, express his feelings about his father, his desire for father's love, his love and concern for his father, and I believe that my father will act after reading it.

Don't be sad, normally speaking, Dad must love you.

It is recommended that you pay attention and find someone to tell your dad when he is happy. People are often receptive to other people's opinions when they are happy.

It's not good for you, it's your dad who is wrong, don't be sad.

Ask your mom about your background.

If you can bear it, you can bear it.

You just want to think at least now that he's raising you.

Uh, you're okay, I'm a miserable one.

Children like you are generally very rebellious. You think, you are a child from ignorant to sensible, from kindergarten to school, which step is not the careful care of your parents, not your parents with money to provide for you.

As long as your father is of good character and has a positive outlook, don't hate your dad on small issues, think your dad is not smart, think your dad is not good-looking, think your dad is not powerful and powerful, think your dad can't make a lot of money, these are not the reasons why you dislike your dad.

I found that this group of children like yours is not only rebellious, but also does not know gratitude, especially some only children, when they were young, their parents were pampered, and their grandparents spoiled him like a pearl in the palm of their hands. But when you encounter a little difficulty, you complain that your father is not good, or your mother is not good, and you either dislike your grandfather or your grandmother. Why should a child like you dislike your father, because your father is not an official, and if your father is an official, you will not dislike it, because your father is an ordinary worker, with no power and no money.

In any case, your father used his labor to feed your family, used labor to exchange food and clothing for you, and used labor to earn money for your education, what are you not satisfied with?