Can t communicate, don t like to talk, others always guess this and that, don t know what to do, ask

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I have also had a low ebb, go out for a walk more, say hello to people I don't know, maintain a new attitude to life every day, as long as I see someone I know or a little familiar with him, I will say hello to him, and care more about the people and things around me, I will know more about the people around you, they will also be infected by your optimism, and they will understand you better. That's how I got here. First from brothers, to neighbors, to classmates, to friends, to colleagues.

    Say hello when you see someone, even if you shout more, it will have a different effect. Learn it yourself. You just don't get to know other people, so they don't really understand you. Thank you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you get out of your own haze, nothing is a problem. Confidence comes from happiness, and it is good to live every day to the fullest.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Break through yourself and you're in the other sky.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are always days in a month when everyone is in this mood. It does not matter. It's good to be done. There are far fewer unhappy days than happy ones.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Like the previous me, it needs to be overcome.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find a quiet place to listen to the songs.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sign language, eye contact, writing (no speech by default).

    If it's socially not talking, then help him open up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Recently, the weather has been hot, and people's emotions are easily affected, and there are always a few days in a month when everyone is in a bad mood and irritable.

    Maybe there's something on your mind. Get out and about, go for a walk, or give yourself a vacation to travel.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can listen to the light ** and make a cup of weak tea in the afternoon. Go for a walk after dinner. Slowly relieve your mood.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you need to relax, you can go on a small trip, or meet a few new friends, put your worries aside first, tomorrow is so good, you should spend it happily!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't know how old you are, I don't know if you're a man or a woman.

    If it's a boy, it should only be in adolescence, only at that time when you don't want to communicate and love to lose your temper. (Usually listen more to ** and do something that interests you)

    If it's a girl, in addition to puberty, there is menopause, ". It's all when you lose your temper.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is it adolescence or does you have a knot in your heart that you can't untie?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is it too stressful, you can go out for a walk and relax yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is underlying stress in the heart.

    Everyone will have such a few times a year when they are in a low mood, and it's normal, don't think too much, and it will pass after a while.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay to say a couple of sentences, and then, in humorous language, ask some random questions--- How are you doing? Let's look for a few more topics.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Read more books on communication.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Lack of security, not finding someone who understands themselves, having some thoughts of their own, not being sociable

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If love can be explained, vows can be modified. Then, life will be easier. If one day, I can finally forget you.

    However, this is not a casual tale. It's not a play that will be played tomorrow, either. I can't just cross you out in my life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Communicate more, communicate more with friends, and make yourself more knowledgeable and insightful, so that you will learn how to behave in the world.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Read more books, some books about communication, and usually spend more time with cheerful and humorous people, and you will get better slowly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First, you want to close yourself off and concentrate on your thoughts and entertainment, and you don't know how to share and be cared for or helped to bring happiness.

    Second, you look down on your surroundings, which is essentially an inferiority complex, for fear of being hurt or looked down upon by your surroundings.

    In fact, the communication between people is from simple to complex emotions are transmitted, at the beginning is a simple question and answer, or the answer you know at all is still to ask, to communicate and confirm whether the other party cares, and gradually open the door to spiritual communication, then you don't have to think about what to talk about, it will naturally communicate more, more depth, and the most important thing is that you are more happy, relaxed physically and mentally, less lonely, and more confident and beautiful in life!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Try to talk to people about topics that interest you, but of course you need to know what you're interested in, don't say anything you're not interested in, it's just that you haven't found out yet.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you don't do that, you'll close yourself off.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You are not a good communicator in this situation. If you are in the following situations:

    When people talk to you and ask you questions, you just laugh, but afterwards you think about what they mean and how you should answer the questions they ask. Then start to take the initiative to ask others, talk to others, because others do more and you don't react, others will not pay attention to you after forming an impression of you, or are not satisfied with your reaction, then start to take the initiative, the initiative is in you, the atmosphere will not seem so embarrassing, try it, you must know how to communicate with others, in fact, communication is everywhere, such as usually nothing to talk about your things, troubles, happy events, and other things.

    If you don't think about it after what you say, then keep it that way, and slowly it will form a style of yours, and others will have the impression of being honest and honest. But it's not good for your personal development, I guess you're a relatively young person, you haven't experienced anything, and if you keep doing this, it means that you haven't grown up. People have to grow up, but how do they grow up?

    People are forced to grow up (a little summary of the individual).

    You don't know how to answer, it's hard to say, or you don't know the answer, if it's not good, then take a smile, it's still acceptable, or do you despise other people's words and think they say too emotionally. If you don't know the answer, then you should learn something, but it's impossible that you don't know everything.

    Hope that helps.

    Let's take it.

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